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whats up?
well this happened a long time ago, but it suddenly came to my mind the other night.
i was in school and the teacher was doing some stuff, and so everybody was talking to their friends. well i wasn't and i was just in my desk when the group of popular guys came to my desk and so they started chatting amongst themselves. then when some of the guys went to their seat, it was just Mark (the popular guy) and his 2 buddies. well all of a sudden Mark says to me "what's up?" and nodds at me. (nodd is when he takes his head and kind lifts it up in the sky and then brings his head back down)
well you're probably wondering what my quesiton is.. well my quesiton is what was i supposed to say in return??? he's popular and well... i'm not. I'm not saying that i'm in the nerdy crowd, i'm more in the middle of popular.
I think i said something like "good." and then i looked away.
well yeah what was i supposed to say? i get really shy around guys, so how do i get more comfortable around them? oh and was he flirting with me?? i highly doubt it but i just wanna make sure.
thanks to those who answer!!
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Ok, its a good response for the first time in a I-dont-know-what-to-do situation...next time try to be more confident, and if you cant...then try to pretend your confident lol...anyway, while being CONFIDENT :-) nod your head back at him (not as much as he did to you...actually nod your head but dont make it like a dramatic nod, let it be a cool like smooth nod) it's best to make a "smooth" nod back by always looking down at something (like you're writing on paper) this way when he says "what's up" you can just look up at him as if you were thinking "who's saying that to me for the millionth time", say hey and do your nod. well GoOd LuCk and i hope i helped!!!!!
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he probably just saw you sitting there and was trying to make a conversation, like what the others said before me.
i think what you did was fine..
i probably didn't help much, but..
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I agree with the columnist under me; he was probably just trying to start up a conversation.
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(It talks about GUYS getting nervous. Just think of YOU getting nervous. - It should help.)
:)
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he was probably just as uncomfortable as yo were talkin to someone he dont no,but next time he says something say nothin what cha up to ?he could be tryin to start a conversation
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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