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girls...
To start off im 14/M
I really started liking this girl and i told her. She was like okay i don't like you back but i'll still be friends.
So recently we started talking alot
i think a wee bit too much for our own good cause we stayed up till like 3 in the morning talking on the phone
and I really feel this connection with her and i just want her so bad that id almost do anything
but the poopy part is that she likes another guy
and hes like my best friend
so i give her pointers like on what to do so everytime she gets closer to her i feel like shes getting farther from me
but i always tell myself whatever makes her happy but i feel so sad sometimes that shes getting farther away
what can i do so that we can get something going?
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first off, you are 14, there WILL be other girls to have a connection to, so do yourself a favor and DONT think of her as the one and only.
Dont give the pointers, you are obviously shooting yourself in the foot, and where it might seem like the honorable thing to do, its not the good and right thing to do for you, your feelings have just as much credibility as hers, plus always being the nice guy like this will leave you alone and bitter.
I'm not at all saying to shoot anybody down, but its not your job to help anything along.
NEVER say you like them in ANY way (before they do), just by spending time with her, you telling her that already. Plus doing the emotional thing makes them think you are weak.
Spend time with her, just as friends. talk with her, play with her, joke with her, tease her allot about ALL her faults (IMPORTANT!!! but not in cruel way...).
Then look for the right moment, and kiss her...(you may not, but i have had it happen to me... don't go emotional then :D).
Then do this step over and over.
Trust me if she is laughing and enjoying herself with you... whats your friends name again?
and if it doesn't work out... remember the first part.
good luck and VIVA LE RESISTANCE!!!
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i think you should keep talking to her on the phone,but when she keeps asking you for pointers tell her"look i dont really no good poiinters because i like giving you advice,but i feel like im going to loes you as a friend."If you don't want to say that try something like"well i hope he dosn't hurt you becuse then ill ave to kick his ass because no one messes with my friend"let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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I think that you should just wait.
I am a 14/f I know how this is.
But I learned that you should wait
and if things are ment to be them i'm sure somethign will happen.
But just wait and get closer as friends because most likely her and your friend wont last.
but you never know.
Just become really good friends, and get to the point where she knows that no matter what you'll always be there for her
and take it from there.
I really hope that i have helped :]
If you have any other questions just send one to my inbox
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Try telling her. Tell her you don't want to bribe her into liking you, but tell her that you feel a connection with her and you just like her a lot and you feel like you're losing her to your best friend. She might not start liking you back, but you two will be good friends, and just make sure you're there for her and don't force her into anything that she doesn't want to do, and eventually you two might have something going. Just keep comforting her and keep helping her out, and you`ll be fine. Good luck & I hope i helped.
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