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i'm kathleen.i'm thirteen years old.
i've been through alot.
i'm absolutely nothing special, and you'll find i'm nothing that will amaze you.
i have trust issues.
i hate many things, such as animal abuse, and labels.
i'm a vegitarian, and i don't drink milk.
i sometimes talk alot, sometimes i'm really quiet.
get to know me: kathleenxsaidd- AIM.
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okay, so my dentist has tons of computers in her offfice and i accidently forgot to sign myself off aim. ive been on for like days there and im afraid someone will hack into my screenname.
is there any possible way to sign off on that computer besides going back there.
thanks :)
Hey. Well, if you sign on from your house or another computer then the AIM robot should IM you and tell you that you are on in 2 or more locations [(this will happen immediatley)]. All you have to do is press the number one (1) when that window [IM] comes up. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
Ok is there a way I can NOT have bad breath in the morning other then like brushing every three hours? My class is going camping and I just have TERRIBLE breath in the morning. Not like normal which is just pretty bad but ok, just so bad. It's worse then a skunk! (seriously I smelled a skunk b4 and it didn't even smell that bad for me)
Hey. Well, you could try this: Brush your teeth about a half hour after you eat dinner, and use mouth wash and floss. Then, eat like crackers and pretzels and stuff like that anytime you feel hungry before you get to bed. When you are brushing your teeth right before you go to sleep, do a really good job. Brush as far back on your tounge as you can, without gagging yourself haha. Floss alot and often, and gargle with mouthwash for a long time. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
14/m
Ok..Me and this girl I like have been friends for about a year and a half. She used to think I was weird and what not, but now she's like my sister. But the thing is...I like her. But I'm not sure if she does...She tells me how sweet I'am and that anygirl would be lucky to go out with me...But she also gives me nicknames and what not (none of them are bad) and I'm not sure if she likes me or not..You think she does? Thanks in advance...
Hey. It's sounds to me that she likes you. I think you should either have a friend do it, or ask her if she likes you. Don't do it in person, though, like face to face becuase then it pressures her to day yes, which you don't want her to do unless she means it. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
do you ever think that popular people like.. look up things on how to stay popular and how to be it?
and likeeeee. do you think that they like spend a long time on the way they look? justt wonderring. thanksss.
Hey. No, I don't think they look up things to be popular, they're just themselves with confidence times 1000. Yeah, they do spend a lot of time on what they look like.
Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
i like this guy *jack*.... in 1st year i really didn't like him i thot he was really annoying....now we're in 4th year and he's really grew up.. and we've became the really good friends nd i feel really close too him......i broke up wif my boyfriend the other week because he was pressurin me into doin stuff nd i told *jack* about it nd he was pretty protective about it....but now hes coming up behind me in skl nd tickelin me he tells me everythin nd hes also reli flirty wif me nd all my friends have noticed but he flirts wif alot of girls in my year but he doesnt tickle them..... but when he does like someone tho he usually tells them and thats how i don't think he likes me
sorry its long but please can you tell me is its signals he's sendin me or not
Hey. It sounds to me that he may like you. He flirts with alot of people but you said that he doesn't tickle them. But keep in mind not to make any moves until you're positive, becuase some guys like to play around with people, for some odd reason.
Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
So basically. im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 going on 18 in may. but trust me we have like almost the same maturity level. and honestly age doesnt really matter for us. so just ignore that small detail. haha. well him and me have done almost everything except have sex. and honestly i dont think ill be ready for that for a really long time. and he understands that i want to wait a while. its just that im scared that when he wants to i wont be ready and i wont know how to tell him so ill end up doing it and become a complete mess and totally regret it the next morning. so i was just wondering, for anyone who has been in this situation before or just even knows what im talking about, what should i do or how should i tell him when the time comes around without hurting him or even myself. thankss. :]
Hey. Well, when you are ready, just tell him. Tell him that you think it's time but you aren't positive, and that you're willing to give it a shot. He's a guy, so it's not like he won't be ready lol.
Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
okay i really want a puppy but my mom says no because she doesn't believe me when i say i'll take care of it myself. how do i convince her i'm responsible enough for a puppy and that i will take care of it? i'm 13/f if that helps
Oh. Luckyyy! Lol, well you could take on a babysitting job and more jobs at home, like dishes and laundry and stuff like that. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
ok theres a guy in my class. he's soooooo annoying and stupid and obnoxious and I think he might like me! EEW! i have absolutely NO affection for him not even in a friend way. so if he tries to ask me out how should i let him down?? like some phrases or whatever to reject him.
Hey. Well, obviously you wouldn't want to make him upset, or do this in a mean way, so...
You could just say "I'm really sorry, but I just don't like you like that, and I'm not really up for a relationship right now. I'm really sorry"
Or something like that. Yeah, I agree, don't get other poeple involved.
14/f
Im hardly hungry anymore! Is this bad or good? I dont need to lose weight or anything, but I still eat because people will think I have an eating disorder. (I am very skinny)
Hey. Well, if you aren't hungry all the time, you shouldn't force yourself to eat. In your case, you would want to eat a lot or something high in calories and such when you decide you are hungry and you do want to eat. As for people thinking you have an eating disorder, well, there's nothing you can do about that. I mean think about it, in order for them to stop thinking something like that you would mostlikely have to become overweight just to satisfy people. Don't do things just becuase someone thinks something about you, and you have to prove them wrong. Life's not worth living if you live it that way.
Well, hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
ok i have this close friend,we went to camp together last summer and we go to school together also.i remember one day at camp i was really mad at her and i sad some nasty things about her with my other campfriend behind her back.now everythings fine.. but i was just thinking about that day and i want to apologize. she doesnt know that i talked about her, but i want to be honest.
should i just not bring it up cause it will go bad?
or its worth telling her even though it happened so long ago? help is appreciated
Hey. I say, if it's really bothering you, you could bring it up, but I really don't recommend bringing up old news. She might get upset knowing this, but chances are she talked about you too, so if you do decide to bring it up, you might want to ask her to come clean about anything she's said about you. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
does anyone know what this is?
http://i19.tinypic.com/40cvmkk.jpg
Yeah, those are things like gangsters put on their hands, to go around their fingers, they're like, finger grillz, lol.
Okay so my boyfriend and I have been going out for a long time now and out of nowhere he starting bringing up the fact that we havn't had sex. I mean, it's not like i havn't thought about it because a 15 year old girl with a boyfriend two years older than her is obviously going to think about the possibilities, but I never actually brought it up or anything. Yes, I am a virgin but I have done other things with him. I just don't know if I'm actually ready to have sex with him. Like, I want to but I don't know if it's because he keeps bringing it up and I'll feel guilty if I don't or if it's because I really want to. And I know that if I'm even questioning it that I shouldn't but there is part of me that wants to. I Don't know what to do. Please help.
Hey. Well, first of all, you're only fifteen. That would be like me having sex, just two years older. Personally, I think it's waaayyy too young to even consider it. But that's me. If you think you're ready, go for it. But be aware of ALL the consiquences, becuase once you do it, there's no taking it back. Remember, that's all guys think about. 24-7..all that goes through their minds. Make sure you're ready, hun, becuase it's real easy to say no.
Hope I helped♥ Kathleen.
16/F dating a 17/m for over a year.
Today, I had plans to meet up with my mom to go look at prom dresses after school.
I told my boyfriend, "I'm not waiting for you after school" because it takes him a minute or two to meet up with me after school. But when I don't have to wait for him (I've always waited on him unless he's absent), I can get out of the school pretty fast and manage to beat the school traffic. He gets upset and starts to ignore me.
A few minutes after telling him that, my mom sends me a text message telling me she was going to check me out an hour before school dismissal. Of course, I told my boyfriend. He still continues to ignore me.
After I got home, we were IMing each other back and forth with this conversation:
Him: :-\
Me: what?
Him: what you said when i last saw you
Me: what? that I didnt want to wait?
Him: yeah, that was stupid
Him: saves you a minute and a half at the most
Me: no no, 4-5 minutes
Him: it takes me 4-5 minutes to walk about 150 feet?
Me: no, but have you seen me walk fast? Yeah, I do that when I dont have to wait.
Him: just shut up
Him: even if you were going to save time, big deal
Him: what did you need to rush outta there so fast for?
Him: that dress might sell out before you get there?
Him: doubt it
Me: to look at dresses?
Me: to beat hellacious traffic?
Him: you're ridiculous
Him: the whole thing was stupid
Him: waiting on me wouldnt have made you any late
Me: even your friend said it made sense
Him: he didnt care
Me: he said, "It makes sense", Andrew.
Him: and uh, i dont care
Him: forget what he said, it wouldnt have made a difference if you waited on me
Him: and it was ridiculous that you would argue with me about it and completely refuse to wait for me
Me: you're the ridiculous one who is currently overreacting. It doesn't matter anymore, Andrew. I checked out at 1:51.
Him: no, it doesnt matter that you checked out
Him: YOU WERE REFUSING TO WAIT FOR ME
Me: okay? So I could get out of there.
Him: that's stupid
Him: you're f***ing dumb as s**t f**k you im done good bye
He signed off at 7:42:29 PM.
What should I do?
Hey. Well, he's way overreacting, I think. But, if you realllllyy want to be with him, you should apolagize, even though you shouldn't have to. It seems to me, if you want things to get better, you should mostlikely make the first move. Sorry about the situation ♥ Kathleen.
I am singing the national anthem for the school's volleyball team tomorrow.
This will be my first time and I know my nerves are going to be running hog-wild.
What are some foods [I'm lactose intolerant] that will calm your nerves?
Or any medicines?
Hey. Try eating pretzels and bread and such. Since it's just bread, it will calm you down and won't come back up on you [if you know what I mean]. My cheerleading coach always makes us eat some before competitions, and they help a lot. Also, you should drink soda, such as sprite or mountain dew before you go on, the sugar helps you to not feel dizzy or anything. Well, good luck! If you need more tips just let me know. ♥ Kathleen.
19/F
Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
Help?
Hey. Well, I think what you have told me about how when you are with Nate, you feel like "it's exactly where you belong." That's exactly the feeling you are supposed to have when you're with someone. I know you don't want to hurt Blake, but in the end, his respect for you will grow, whether he's mature enough to admit that to you, and himself. Just remember that breaking up with someone or losing your intimate feelings for that person is most deffinatly not a crime. I know how you feel with likeing [or in your case, more than just liking] two different people, but you can't go on like this. My advice to you is to meet Blake in person when you tell him you don't feel for him as much as Nate, and absolutely make sure that their is no anger in your voice when you tell him, that might make him go after Blake. Be sure you tell him that you understand the anger he may have [becuase there's like a 99% chance he'll be pretty pissed]. If you need more advice, or anything at all, let me know, I'll deffinatly help you. Good luck. Things will get better just keep your chin up, hun. ♥ Kathleen.
when a person is in a coma, where do they stay the whole time?
Hey. When someone is in a coma, physically, they're in the hospital. Emotionally and Mentally, they are "sleeping". They have dreams and whatnot, and they can hear what you say to them, but they can't reply to you. Hope I helped.
P.S. If you know someone in a coma, I'm sorry and I hope they get better :]
♥ Kathleen.
im sorry just one more because your advice gave me the most info i wil rate you on each question i promise lol umm yeh because i told him at first it didnt bother me actualy i laughed about it because im very flexiable in these situations but then it started to and when i asked him to sytop he stoped completely he wont even look at me lol he says he wants to respect me more do you think i might be tightening him up too much i just wanted him to stop looking at them infront of me i just dont want him to feel im telling him what to do because hes honestly stoped alot for me and im feeling bad bout it...why woud he need to look at other girls when he has me??
Oh no don't be sorry it's fine lol. You could tell him like you don't want him to think you're bossing him around and telling him what to do, you just feel like he doesn't really have much of a need to look at other girls when he's around you becuase he has you..he doesn't need to look at anyone else. Remind him, though, what he does on his own time is up to him and you're fine with it. Also, tell him that him looking at you is like..what you want, you don't find him disrespectful when he does it to you, it just bothers you a little when he does it to other girls aroud you. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
Lol, if you still need more information, just ask, it's fine with me lol don't be sorry :].
what's body butter? lotion? can you put it on your face?
Hey. Body butter is pretty much the same thing as lotion, except more made for your body, as apposed to hands and feet. As for you putting it on your face, I REALLLYYY wouldn't do that if I were you. It has a lot of oils and thick gunky materials that will clog pores and make you break out. You can go to the store and get lotion that is actually for you to put on your face, and if you can't find that, companies like Covergirl and Neutrgina (spelling is wrong, I know haha) have a lot of moisturizers in the actual face wash. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
No i mean checks out by looking at the ass i mean hes stoped because i have asked him too and he doesnt stare hard jus he used to liek tilt his head bak to check her ass out infront of me wen he thinks im not lookin even though im standing infront of him i have heard its normal but i find it so wrong plz answer me bak on this i need more advice on this issue thankyou
Hey. Yeah, like a lot of guys do that but it deffinatly doesn't mean it's okay for him to do. Although, since you said he's stopped, he might not have realized it bothered you as much as it did. I mean of course he would know it bothers you, becuase honestly, who would be okay with something like that? But he must care about you a lot to just stop doing that becuase he told you to. I don't think you have a lot to worry about. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen. And if you still need more info, let me know.
ok i have 2 questions.. you dont have to answer both.... what kinds of jewlery are in? & are scarves weird to wear with an outfit (not a coat and winter stuff)?
Hey. As for jewlery that's in- people like long neclaces made of silver (real or fake) and beads.
As for scarves, no, its not weird to wear them with an outfit, as long as they aren't like big, knitted scarves that should be worn outside. Small, thin-materialed scarves with sequins and such are popular. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.