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So basically. im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 going on 18 in may. but trust me we have like almost the same maturity level. and honestly age doesnt really matter for us. so just ignore that small detail. haha. well him and me have done almost everything except have sex. and honestly i dont think ill be ready for that for a really long time. and he understands that i want to wait a while. its just that im scared that when he wants to i wont be ready and i wont know how to tell him so ill end up doing it and become a complete mess and totally regret it the next morning. so i was just wondering, for anyone who has been in this situation before or just even knows what im talking about, what should i do or how should i tell him when the time comes around without hurting him or even myself. thankss. :]
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well, yes i have PLENTY OF TIMES. and you know what. if you lvoe him then do what YOU want. and sadly i gave in. its just those cute lil eyes, and smile, and the puppy face. and you know what> i got played! yeppers i lost it to the wrong one and i thought it waz right,. so if you feel like he IS the one. you decide when you want! but a lil hint 4 you> if you make them wait, and THEY ACTUALLY wait 4 a long time, then they just actually want you 4 you. plus some pleasuring haha jp. hope you do what you think is right. and age IS just a number!
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Teenage couples often have this problem. It really is hard to stop once you get going, if you know what I mean. That's why it is so VERY VERY important that the two of you set up your boundaries before you start fooling around. That way, you both will know how far things will go and it shouldn't get out of hand. A good way to prevent from having sex is to always keep your underwear on. You can do plenty of other things without taking them off. It's the easiest way to prevent him from going to far.
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Well you said that he knows that you want to wait, so let him know that you don't feel ready but whne you do you will let him know. Make sure you let him know that you still feel confortable will doing the other things so he doesnt think that you feel unconfortable with him. It's good to be open with one another and im glad to here that you don't want to ruin it by doing it when your not ready. And as for you letting him know when your ready, don't worry about how to tell me, when you do feel ready, you will know becuase you will feel it and it won't be something that you want to do jsut because you are aroused but because you feel ready! You will know how to tell him or show him your ready when your ready and hopefully when you do let him know you are ready he will double check with you by saying are you sure or whatever. I hope I helped!
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Hey. Well, when you are ready, just tell him. Tell him that you think it's time but you aren't positive, and that you're willing to give it a shot. He's a guy, so it's not like he won't be ready lol.
Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
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If he asks just say no. Or have a conversation and let him know you don't think you'll be ready anytime soon. Tell him you will let him know when you are, and if he wants to also..of course go for it. If he really cares about you he won't force you into doing anything you're not ready for. Good Luck.
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