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HELP!
ok theres a guy in my class. he's soooooo annoying and stupid and obnoxious and I think he might like me! EEW! i have absolutely NO affection for him not even in a friend way. so if he tries to ask me out how should i let him down?? like some phrases or whatever to reject him.
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Hey. Well, obviously you wouldn't want to make him upset, or do this in a mean way, so...
You could just say "I'm really sorry, but I just don't like you like that, and I'm not really up for a relationship right now. I'm really sorry"
Or something like that. Yeah, I agree, don't get other poeple involved.
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I know how you feel, i've been in the same position before. It would be best to just let him down gently, and don't get other people involved. When he asks you out very gently say,"Well, I dont see us as a couple so I'm going to have to say no. Sorry."
Don't feel bad saying it because going out with him pretending to like him and then eventually breaking up with him would be worse. Thats what my friend did and well, ill just say it turned out BAD.
So just let him down gently and don't lie to him sayin " I see us more as frends" if you really dont see him as a frend at all.
Hope that helped =]
-Dee
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you should at least try to get to know him and maybe after you start talking to him and getting to know him you will find out why he is annoying but of course you will never know if he likes you unless he starts acting funny around you like keeps looking at you or flirting with you and keeps bumping into you those are some of the symptoms but if you don't want him to ask you out or anything just say I think you are nice and all but we can't be anything more then friends or say you might be a cool friend but sorry I just don't want to be your friend but you still have to tell him or otherwise he won't stop bugging you and that's just messed up. good luck!
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Well, I don't want to sound like a jerk, but have you tried to get to know him? He may be annoying, but that might be his way of showing he likes you. You just shouldn't judge someome like that, so if he does ask you out, try telling him calmly that you want to get to know him first and become friends, and that you wouldn't want to rush into a relationship.
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