ok i have this close friend,we went to camp together last summer and we go to school together also.i remember one day at camp i was really mad at her and i sad some nasty things about her with my other campfriend behind her back.now everythings fine.. but i was just thinking about that day and i want to apologize. she doesnt know that i talked about her, but i want to be honest.
should i just not bring it up cause it will go bad?
or its worth telling her even though it happened so long ago? help is appreciated
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? JaRts05 answered Thursday March 8 2007, 6:01 pm: As Lady Macbeth once said to Macbeth what is done is done it is in the past now. For your situation i think you shouldn't bother bringing it up cause that can just lead to somehting else. and also you have to rember friends talk about friends behind there backs all the time so dont get distraut about it. if she finds out about it and tells you, you can say you were sorry about what you said and the only reason you said it was because you were upset and you used words to cool your anger.
imxkathleenx3 answered Tuesday March 6 2007, 9:38 am: Hey. I say, if it's really bothering you, you could bring it up, but I really don't recommend bringing up old news. She might get upset knowing this, but chances are she talked about you too, so if you do decide to bring it up, you might want to ask her to come clean about anything she's said about you. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen. [ imxkathleenx3's advice column | Ask imxkathleenx3 A Question ]
howfair answered Tuesday March 6 2007, 4:20 am: Don't bring it up. It'll just cause problems. It's over and done with, and the original problem that you had with her was solved. [ howfair's advice column | Ask howfair A Question ]
Teza answered Monday March 5 2007, 11:37 pm: Because it happened so long ago, I don't think that it's neccesary to bring it up again. If you really want to be honest with her, tell her the truth. It would be worse if she heard it from someone else. Tell her what you said and explain to her why you did and of course apologize. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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