craZlilchelC152's advice column

well i don*t no the nail place prices that you have but a manicure is about $15 at a regular nail salon. Just browse the newspaper too because they have coupons for a lot of salons. good luck, xoxo chelsea

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What are the codes to use on Xanga to Bold,underline,italicize certain words? And if there are any other cool nifty things you know, ifyou could leave those also

well no matter wut your writing "ctrl B" bolds your words "ctrl I" italisizes "ctrl U" underlines.

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=LayOUTS_GaLLerIes
also has really cool HTML things

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I'm doing some research on what teenage boys find attractive in girls, both in looks and personality for a creative writing paper. If anyone has any information for me, I would appreciate it.

well i*m on the fone with mi friend ben and these are his answers::

Looks

*thin//in shape
*smooth skin?? (haha no idea)
*no hair on legs or armpits "NONE"
*nice hair
*pretty face
*toned stomach (not chizzled but just nice)
*nice legs
*nice butt
*not huge, not tiny, but slitely larger boobs

Personality (which he almost forgot about)

*sense of humor
*not 2 clingy
*independent
*enjoys looking good
*smart
*not afraid to make the first move

some of those i think are kinda weird but hey those were coming from a 15 year old boy so good luck on that paper and hope i helped. xoxo, chelsea

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is it ok to shave next to your belly and your lower back?

yes it*s fine won*t kill ya

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does water help your voice? if you want to sing

If your going to drink water before you sing then yeah it helps,but it*s better if the water is room temperature rather then ice cold. Hope i helped, xoxo *chelsea

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is tanning bad for you? what about tanning beds?

yeah they are both bad for you because of "harmful UV raise" which cause skin cancer.. but i don*t care i do both of em. However it also causes wrinkles and sun spots over time too! hope i helped, xoxo chelsea

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I need some help do you think that I guy should like you for who you are or what you look like

well ofcourse a guy should like you for who you are, but that*s rarely the case.. most of the time they go for what you look like @least when your young, i guess things change when you get older tho. xoxo, chelsea

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is it bad to masterbate?

nope, it*s "safe and healthy" according to a magazine i read haha

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i think this weekend my boyfriend and i will start having oral sex..i've never done it before but he has and he's had sex before....i don't wear thongs.. but yet i don't wear big grandma underwear..they're exactlylike thongs.. like with the strings around the hips and all.. but instead of the string up my ass, it's just all covered..i'm scared that his other girlfriends wore thongs and stuff and that when he sees i don't he'll think i'm like a looser or something...do you think it matters.....or do guys REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY prefer thongs and totally hate like thekinda underwear i wear

well i don*t think it matters TOO much but maybe you could buy a pair of sexy underwear like the all lace ones that aren*t thongs.. those are so cute. Have fun though and don*t worry too much about it. xoxo chelsea

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im not exactly the preppy girl but i want to wear pretty clothes and have pretty makeup and nice hair. i have brown hair and brown eyes. my hair is above my shoulders and i wish it would grow. how can i make my hair grow? do u have any makeup tips for me? what kinda clothes are great but not too expensive?

I don*t really know how you can make your hair grow but i have a couple tips for clothes and makeup. For clothing stores i suggest Wet seal, forever 21, delia's, gadzooks, pac sun, aeropostale, and places like nordstrom,dillards,jones store,macys etc. A little more expensive however are abercrombie and fitch, american eagle, and hollister. I love allll those places and i think you will too. For make up i suggest dark brown//black eye liner and mascara. A little bit of eyeshadow prolly sumthing natural looking with sum shimmer and a nude//pinkish lip gloss. Also try a tinted liquid foundation and a translucent powder to make your skin look almost flawless. And a LITTLE bit of bronzer or blush. good luck hun n hope i helped,xoxo chelsea

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How does anorexia harm you or your body? I know pukeing will stain your teeth but what else?? cuz if thats it, then whats the harm right?

well when your anorexic you don*t puke, you starve yourself. And obviously that*s harmful because it shuts down (over time) your organs (i recently had a friend who had to go to the hospital for 2 months for anorexia..not good) and you puke when your bulimic. And it*s bad because your still starving yourself. you eat but a few mins later you puke, leaving no food in your belly. ALSO the acid from your stomach begins to eat and eat away @ your esophagus burning it away... not good! anyway i donno if your thinkin bout trying one of those things then dont, they are both VERY harmful and can both kill you over time (depending on how severe they are) hope i helped, xoxo chelsea

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well i've been looking @ people's xanga's annorexic-ish people. and i was wondering who ANA was?! and can u tell me nything about her?! thnx ♥//

i*m not anorexic, but i*ve looked @ those sites too. I*m pretty sure ANA is just what they call anorexia, they just put it in human form as weird as that sounds. not completely positive but that*s all i know. hope i helped. xoxo, chelsea

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ook my hair is really think and i used to wear it up all the time and now theres like a dent i my hair, its barely noticable but i can see it and it really bugs me. i hardly wear my hair up now and it still hasnt gone away. does anyone kno how i can make it go away?

o i tried straightening it and it doesnt work.

i rate high!

Ok well first try blow drying your hair straight and then straighten it in layers, doing it all at once doesn*t work very well. If it still doesn*t go away go to your salon and see what they can do about it! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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well there's this guy i like..and we've dated before and we always seem to fight now but we're the best of friends..well today we got in a big fight..and i told him i didn't want to hang out with him again this summer (we don't live in the same town) and he's like w/e and he got all mad at me..later i told him i was sorry and i still want to hang out with him and he's like yeah right and than i got an e-mail from him and it was this chain that he sent to me and it said that like he will always be there for me and everything and how i'm a great friend..but later he sent me a message when i wasn't there and it said i hate you (one time i was talking about someone hating me and he said "who could hate you"). so it kills me to know that he hates me. and he pretty much said that he could never hate me. i have no idea what happened..cause we always kid about that stuff be he didn't say he was kidding or anything..i'm soo worried about our friendship now..and i didn't even do anything..i love this kid right to death and i would do anything for him..i never knew how much the words "i hate you" could feel until you hear it from the one person you would do anything in this world for..even give up your life for them to keep living. it hurt me so bad..and i just want to tell him but i don't know if i can even express to him how much it hurt me. please help me..i just want to know what to say to him..i know it's really what i feel i should say but i need some help. i rate high! please help me! i'm stuck in the gutter on this one. =/

aww hun i*m sry, but i want you to know (which you prolly already do) when people get into arguments a lot of times they say things they really don*t mean. He was prolly just as hurt as you are now because you told him you didn*t wanna hang out with him so he was defending himself b/c he felt bad. I really think you should tell him your sry for everything you said and that you don*t wanna let something this small get in the way of your friendship, maybe tell him tomorro tho so he*ll have time to cool down. If he*s still resistant then let him have his space til he comes back to you(which WILL happen) i hope everything works out, xoxo, chelsea

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Where can i get laser eye surgery? Does it hurt? How much does it cost? What do they do? Does it make your eyes perfect?

well there*s not ONE place for laser eye surgery, you*ll have to search for one in your area. The woman i babysit for just had it done and she was really nervous about it but she*s so happy she got it done. Afterwards she wasn*t really in pain but yeah it costs a couple thousand dollars. I*ll leave you some sites you can get more information on it. Good luck! xoxo, chelsea

http://www.lasikdocshop.com/ (you can search for a lasik eye surgeon in your area @ this site)

http://web.ask.com/fr?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.allaboutvision.com%2Fvisionsurgery%2F&s=a&bu=http%3A%2F%2Fweb.ask.com%2Fweb%3Fq%3Dlaser%2Beye%2Bsurgery%2Binfo%26o%3D10234%26page%3D1&q=laser+eye+surgery+info&o=10234&qt=0&ma=16%20current%20LASIK%20articles%3A%20laser%20eye%20surgery%20cost%2C%20risks%2C%20custom%20LASIK%2C%20avoiding%20problems%2C%20choosing%20a%20surgeon.%20Also%3A%20Online%20LASIK%20screening.&mt=Consumer%20Guide%20to%20LASIK%20Eye%20Surgery&mb=0f4a418defd4d84b47bba707625a82a2
(long link sorry, but it looked like a good site)

Hope i helped!!

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hey...if you have blonde hair thats pretty bright and hazel eyes, what color eyeliner is better, black or brown? i have heard brown is better, but im just checking! oh and mascara too! thanks!

Black is fine as long as it*s not too dark. Brown will prolly look really good too however, i just haven*t tried it yet. And just black mascara is good! hope i helped xoxo, chelsea

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I've always wondered this... is "costed" a word??

haha no, it*s cost. Nice try tho!

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I've been going out with this boy for about 1 1/2 months (not long, i know) but i dont know if its working out. We talk a lot and hes nice and eevrything but theres just something about him i dont know. I thought when we first started going out it'd be the right time after a breakup with someone who i really loved but now i think that its not the right time to be with someone because i still have a lot of feelings for my ex. I'm not sure if i should break up with my bf or just stay. I know that if i stay with him i may start gettin miserable. I dont want to hurt him because he really likes me and cares for me. What should i do?? ill rate 5's if you at least help me and try to! thanks!

ok well i give this advice a lot!! I ALWAYS say to go with what makes you happy because if you try to please everyone your making no time for yourself and then you*ll be miserable. I say if you don*t have feelings for this guy take a break b/c it*s better to break it off now then to lead him on and do it when it*s been longer! All i can say is go with what your HEART is telling you! good luck, if you have any more questions drop one in my inbox!! xoxo,chelsea!

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ok, its really hard to explain this without going into detail on the last 8 years of my life, but ill try my hardest- 14/m

I have loved this girl my entire life and we have been great friends, and i asked her out and she said yes. Well that was about 7 or 8 months ago, and she turned out to be a SUPER freezer (for those of you who dont know, its a person who doesnt do ANY thing on dates). She wasnt at first and i thought we were goin pretty well, but then all the sudden she said she needs her space and she told me to back off a lil and slow down. and that was about 3 months ago, and then all the sudden i felt like she had broken up with me cause she didnt do ANYTHING. All the sudden i was getting to feel depressed and stuff (it wasnt only cause of her doin that, i had other stuff goin on too, and she wasnt there for me) and the last week ive called her like 6 times and she never called me back. well i swam over the summer, and i had a friend who i kinda liked last year, and so i was hangin with her, well i think i kinda love her now, and i was debating on breaking up with the first girl and goin with the second. Well, that wont work, because all the sudden the first girl is starting to show just enough that she really likes me and prolly loves me back. so now im stuck in a bind because half of me is sayin break up with her and get over her, and then go with the next girl, and half of me says stay with her and give her the chance. but i already told the second girl im breakin up with the first, so now all the sudden im just plain caught in the middle, and i have no idea what to do! please help! i rate high!!!!

well i say break up with the first girl cuz she seems like she has mood swings and no1 needs that. The second girl seems like she could make you happier. don*t just dump the first one tho just stay friends with her! good luck hun, n if you need nething else drop one in my inbox!! xoxo, chelsea

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errg. im so fuking pissed. my best friend abby is friends with this chick kenzee again and i hate kenzee and kenzee IMed me accusing me of stealing her dumb ass graphics and i didnt. then kenzee went on my sn and said something like "why am i on ur buddy list?" and i was like "u probably added urself" and then i thought - i remembered abby was hanging out with kenzee today. abby gave kenzee my password that bitch. lol so im just so pissed.

i dont know what to do.

kenzee needs to fuck off!! and not to be rude to your abby friend but she*s bein bitchy too for givin away your password. i suggest you change that baby before she gets on it again!! try stayin away from abby.. she seems sneaky haha. sometimes you just gotta vent ya no. xoxo, chelsea

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