Member Since: September 11, 2005
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Last Update: January 2, 2006
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How does soccer help your heart? so far i have Soccer will help you improve your endurance, agility, hand eye coordination (goalies), foot-eye coordination, and muscular strength in your legs and arms (throw-in), speed, and......am i missing anything? (link)
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LOL>let me guess; youre asking for help on youre homework. nice job!!!
You dont need to call me a jerk>it was an honest answer dude!!
Well then what kind of question is that!!! Just play the game, who cares what its good for. If its a sport its good ok?
I play sports and i dont have to ask people how it helps my heart!! Still sounds like h/w to me!!
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my boyfriend is sort of moving too fast for me. we've made out but he was trying to really touch my the whole time. i liked it for a while.then is just got annoying. i love him more then like..i think¿ what should i do? (link)
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He keeps moving forward because youre letting him.
You need to be up front with him. Dont do things your uncomfortable doing. Who says you have to do things at his speed? You make the rules for 1ce!!
See if he wants you and not whats under your shirt or down your pants. See if he respects you. If he doesnt, hes not worth keeping.
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I've been with this guy for about 9 monthes now. we are not officially together because that is the way i want it. BUT we are exclusive and aren't supposed to be with other people.
I cheated on him friday night. This isn't the first time i did it, but i told him about the other times. After the last one, he told me if i cheated again then we'd be done.
Do you think i should tell him what i did? I really do like him a lot. I'm seeing him today and need advice asap.
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Im sorry, but people really need to think before they ask for advice!
If you were my gf, youd be gone. For 1 thing, why are you even in a relationship if you cant commit yourself to him? Is it because you want to be with other guys too?
He has a right to know! Put youself in his place. I really dont think youd appreciate it if he was cheatin on you hun!
Stop thinking about yourself and start acting alittle more mature!
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ok, so i like these two guys and ones gonna ask me out so they say, when they do i'm gonna say yes but does that mean i stop liking the other guy? I Need ur help emm!!pleez help!!
Maxx&&Drew (link)
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You sound very young. If a guy asks you out and you say yes, it should be because you like him!
If you want to continue liking some1 else, thats your business, but if i were the guy going out with you, and i found out you liked another guy> id dump you!! Its as simple as that!
Dont bother rating> I dont want immature comments either!!!
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what is a good age to babysit and like how much should i charge per hour cause i am babysitting with a friend and we are going to split the money. about how long to the parents stay out for. thanks i rate high (link)
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Wow if babysitters are getting $10/hr, im quitting my job! Thats only for certified sitters!!
12 or 13. Normally the parents dont ask how much you want to get paid. Unless you are an adult babysitter thats certified!
Between $5 and $6/hr is the going rate. It also depends on how many kids they have. Then its usually alittle more. Parents stay out till 12:00 and later on weekends! Depending on their plans!
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I know this is a dumb question but how do you stunt your growth? I don't want to get taller so how can I stop it, My mom is 5'5 and my dad is 5'7, so how can i stop it. (link)
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You cant. 5'5 is average for a girl, and 5'7 is short for a guy!!! I highly doubt that youre gonna be taller than 5'7!
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Hey im 13 and have a bf thats 14,i really like him and he loves me,but i want to see if i have a conection with other gies but i still dont want to loose him,i flirt with alot of gies that he doesnt know but he never does that with other girls,i have no clue what to do pleasse help me (link)
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ok first of all "gies" is spelled guys!
Your only 13. Youre pretty young to be having a steady bf. Enjoy your precious teen years while you can.
Its really not right to flirt with other guys while you have a bf.
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Okay. I like this kid at my high school. He's a year older then me and I'm 16 so that makes him 17. Well Okay so we were talking online and stuff and I see him at school and one day him and his friends seen me and my friend shooting some hoops so him and his friends came up to us and said, " do you want to play knockout (its a bball game) " and we said sure. So we played and me and him were at the end and of course I let him win. haha! so well I talk to him ALOT online now! And well we seem to be getting closer! And like hes been on every night and we talk to one another but he still never says or asks me out. I have been getting my friends to talk to him for me and they have been saying they think he definately likes me. and my one friend asked him if he would like to hang out with me on a weekend and she said he said he was busy this weekend but maybe another weekend. So sorry its soooo long but I really need your help! What do you think?? Does he like me or am I just wasting my time????? I'll rate high for useful answers! (link)
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Alot of guys talk to girls online, but as you can see he just gave your friend his first excuse not to hang out. Then he said "maybe" another weekend. If he really did like you, i think he would go out of his way to show you alittle more than what hes doing.
I really think your wasting youre time. Just dont dwell so much on him. Hang out and just keep doing what your doing.
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Ok i broke up w/ my boyfriend like 4 days ago because he had sex w/ some other chick. Well his bestfriend and me were good friends. His best friend asked me out the next day and i said yes. I think part of the reason is just because i wanted to make my x jelous. Now i really miss my x. I think i still have feelings for him though is it to soon to be going out w/ anybody else. (link)
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Youre bf cheated on you, and your were on the rebound!!
Youre doing exactly what my ex did. Dont stoop down to his level of stupidity. Sure youre hurting, but getting involved in another relationship the next day, is just plain immature!! Hell if you really wanted to get him jealous why didnt you just do what he did?
You have to start thinking about this guys feelings and not just about yourself!! Your using him to get back at your ex. Dont involve other innocent people in your troubles. Deal with it with the help of friends and talking, not with paybacks!!
He isnt worth taking back. 1ce a cheater, always a cheater!!
There are tons of NICE guys out there that dont use girls. Maybe hes right under your nose and you just dont want to see it! Id say give this new guy a chance, he might be worth keeping someday.
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okay i have AIM, and i just found this font i REALLY REALLY loved using, it was so cool. it is called "Sydnie" is htats how you spell it; but it all of a sudden like dosent show up in my list of fonts, and when i signed on it said sydnie, but was typing as "Arial."
if there is a way to get this back on AIM, any way. someone please let me know thanks (link)
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well here it is if you dont have it saved on aim
http://www.sydneystriders.org.au/font.shtml
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13/m Long story short, I like her a lot, I told her, she doesn't like me back. Here's my current problem: I think she's ignoring me. Like at schoool everything's just too weird to talk to her. Awkward, let's say. So I've been trying to patch things up. I tried inviting her over one day. Saturday, she was babysitting. Sunday, she had rehearsal for a play. Same thing happens week after week after week. Just today I tried asking her to come over. Same story. No good. I really want to make things all better. I want to be able to just talk to her, which we haven't done in months except for on AIM. Our only 3 classes together, we're across the room, which sucks. So we don't even see each other much. We used to goof off a lot as friends. Like all the time. Things were cool. But now they're not.
Last night was a school dance. I had asked her a few days earlier. She said she had rehearsal. So I went with three of my friends to eat food and drink punch & soda. And guess who was there, that's right her. So those three guys were like pushing me to talk to her, bribing me, etc. Eventually, I talked to her. Apparently, she sent me an e-mail (I checked this morning, it didn't go through) saying that the rehearsal was cancelled. Then this girl started teasing me about my e-mail address (I made it up when I was 7) and the one I like hugged me.
It's not the first time. Third, actually. First time was last year in science. I told her I was feeling like crap. She hugged me. I got scared, never having hugged anyone outside of family before. So I rejected it. Second time, we were at a carnival. She had persuaded me to get on all the wild rides. Hardly anyone was there yet, so there was no line. After the fifth one, I started vomiting. "Oh my god, are you OK?" and hugged me. I stood there and just murmured that I was fine. Third time was last night at the dance. It's my best one yet---I stood there. Yes, that's right, I just stood there. Then I did the stupidest thing in the world---I cut it short for the $5 I had been bribed for.
I'm such an idiot. I've been waiting for another moment in which she would hug me, and here it is. What do I do? I run away to get $5. (In the end, all he gave me was a quarter...) But I couldn't help it. I literaly couldn't think! My mind was drawing a complete blank! The only thing going on in my head was in my subconcious, saying "Get out of here, fast!". My concious side was just scared and confused, and didn't know what to do. For those of you who have read Flowers for Algernon, it was exactly what Charlie was feeling. Whenever he got too close to Alice, his inner child would pull him back and prevent him from doing anything. I guess my inner child was still scared of commitment and everything. I want to hug her, considering it's the first of many steps to a successful relationship, but there are no opportunities in the halls at school, and as I said before, there's never a good time for her to come over. So I guess I'm just doomed to be a hopeless freak with subconcious fear of so much as a hug...
I guess my three big questions here are:
1) Is she ignoring me?
2) If so, how do I prevent it?
3) How can I hug her?
I know it sounds really pathetic. All I want is a hug. There's all these people here asking about banging and stuff, and here I am, eager to get a hug. But you have to realize that I've never had a relationship before, and I don't believe in dating unless there are true feelings. And if you believe that teenagers don't know love, I acknowledge that fact, and I'm not the same as every teenager on Advicenators. Besides, it's important to get a feel for what dating is like before we start the real thing, eh? And don't treat me like a little kid. I may be 13, but I'm not stupid. I'm just socially distressed. No smartass answers either, please. And if you give a response that doesn't have any advice in it, you are liable to be reported, as one of the rules in the Terms of Service is that you may not give unhelpful advice. I usually rate. Thank you a lot. (link)
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You sound like a very genuine guy, but your only 13. You have lots of time for a relationship.
It sounds like the girl just isnt interested. Sometimes you dont know if pouring out your feelings to some1 is the best idea. In this case, it wasnt!
My guess is shes ignoring you, because she doesnt share the same feelings as you, and theres really nothing you can do about it. Which means, sorry, but no hug either.
Dont go by what all the other guys are saying. It will happen for you 1 day. Girls like guys who arent gonna brag about what they got and what they did with a girl.
Save your feelings for some1 who will show you feelings back!
Hey, if i was 13 again, id date you in a heartbeat!
Good Luck Sweetie!
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So i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.. i once broke up with him for two months and he cried.. ALOT.. then we got back together and now all he does is go out with his friends tell my i'm stupid, call me names, and forget about me. He tells me all the time how he doesn't care about me and that really hurts my feelings.. what should i do? (link)
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Move on hun> he doesnt care about you. At least not anymore.
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theres this boy i like... and i wanna ask him out..
i've been dropping him hints..but i dont think he gets it. i think hes afraid to express his feelings (if he does like me which i have no idea about) like one time, at a school dance (we both had no dates) and i told my friend to ask him out for me and she did and he said no..but she said she was just wondering and i didnt really know she was doing that. but that was before he started to know me. cause hes a new kid. but now we know each other a little bit better and i've been really pretty and funny (i guess thats what he looks for in a girl) and a few days ago, i told him i thought he was hott. he didnt say anything though. haha...should i ask him out? but i kinda want to wait til he knows me a lot more... cuz if he says no..i'll never have another chance..but im so confused. what do i dooo? thanks! much love!!
P.S. he rides my bus too. ♥♥♥♥ (link)
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how/why do you want to ask a guy out that you barely know and barely even talk to?? Whats wrong with getting to know some1 first? I mean, dont 2 people go out, because they like each other, flirt with each other and talk to each other?
Why are you rushing into things so fast? First you become friends. You talk and get to know 1 another. You dont just pick a guy out that YOU like and ask him out!! Your probably scaring him away, because for 1 thing, you and him never talk.
Lets say "Joe Schmoe" never talked to you, and out of the blue just asked you out? Wouldnt you be like, "omg, i never even talk to that kid, and i dont really know him". "Why is he asking me out"?
Think about it!
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Ok.My boyfriend and I go together over the summmer.When we are in skool ppl keep sayin that he is touchin other grls.I don't believe them & I believe him.I dunno if he is?(Cheatin on me)What should I do?
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im sorry, but you sound as naive as my ex's gf. she believes everything he tells her. He will tell her his side and i will tell her the real truth, and of course she believes him. I mean, why should she believe her bfs ex? Duh!!
So you think that all these people are just making that stuff up about your bf? For what reason? You actually think youre bfs gonna tell you that he touches other girls? He knows youll believe him over any1 else. Hell, id keep doin it if i know my gf isnt gonna believe any1 else!
You need to see for yourself instead of thinking every1 else is lying except for your faithful bf!
Find out when hes doing this, and who its with. If possible, see for yourself, or have a person you trust watch him. Its the only way youre gonna find out for yourself, instead of the "he said, she said story"!
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okay guys this is a long one. my boyfriend broke up with me and i still have feelings for him. we used to be great friends and started dating. our class went on a trip to NYC and i heard that he cheated on me. some girls were going up to the guys room's in the hotel and yeah. he promised me that he didnt do anything but i didnt believe him because everything that went on was in the room he was staying in. i heard one of the girls that was in that room say that if he was there he would have had a great time. but i dont know if she was just sticking up for him because i was there or he really wasnt there. then the next day he seemed really distant from me and a week later he dumped me. i still really really like him even though he treated me like shit the whole time we were dating. will i ever get over him and should i keep trying to get back together with him?
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If he treated you like shit while you were dating, why would you want him back?
Dont lower yourself to chasing him. If he doesnt give you the time of day, hes telling you he deosnt want you anymore!
He broke up with you for a reason. Move on hun>theres so many nice guys out there that know how to treat a girl!
trust me, you will get over him.
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I need some help from you woman only please. Some nights may husband is in the mood and we could go for a long time and other nights he just pushes me away and tells me that he's not in the mood. But when he's in the mood I better be. On fridays nights he'll stay out until 2:00am and that. I have asked him he's cheating and he tells me no.Should I believe him that he's not
cheating on me and let it go.
Hope someone can help. (link)
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he just sounds like hes only thinking about himself, if you have do it when hes only in the mood.
Why does he get to go out every friday night? Tell him that you want him to stay home just 1ce, or get a sitter and you and your husband spend the night by yourselves or with friends!
You can probably assume alot of reasons for him staying out until 2am. If you have suspicisions, maybe you need to follow him and put youre mind at ease!
Are the guys he goes out with married? If so, ask their wives if you know them.
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My homecoming dance is on Saturday and my dress is black, just plain black with like a ruffle around the waist. I want to add more color to my dress so i was thinking of buying a ribbon to tie on my dress or something. Does anyone have any good ideas what color ribbon i should get to match my black dress? And where could i get a ribbon that i can wear? I rate high for good answers. (link)
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pink looks awesome with black. deep or light shade!
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can anyone give me some website of funny jokes..... i mean not kiddy ones like dumb blonde ones, sex ones, yo mama ones, and insults if you can at least give me one ill rate you a 5!! (link)
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www.people.virginia.edu/~jwb7w/mom/home.html
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ok so knowi found out that the 3 of my bf talk smack about me and call me names behing my bak. and i cant stand them because i tell 1 of my bf a secret and she tells the other one then the other one tell the other one a and everything starts going off wrong. now all of us hate each other except lets just say x and z but i dont know wut to do cuz they r my bf but like they r always talking a bunch of stuff bout me so shouldi be their frinds or just try to hang around with new ppl.? (link)
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Wow what are friends for if you cant tell them secrets? After awhile its gonna get old. I think i would try and find some new friends, or just stop telling the old 1s secrets!
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My puppies (two small breed, one male one female) are so newspaper-trained that they won't go outside! Every time we come in from a walk they go straight to the newspaper and do their business. What should I do? (link)
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First, take the paper away. Whenever you see them going towards it (where it used to be) call them and lead them outside, or just carry them out for awhile. Then they arent allowed to come back in until theyve done what they need to do. Commend them and then give them alittle treat!Lead them to go out enough where they will eventually catch on. Only put the paper down when your gone and at night. Repetition is the best reward.
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