Ok.My boyfriend and I go together over the summmer.When we are in skool ppl keep sayin that he is touchin other grls.I don't believe them & I believe him.I dunno if he is?(Cheatin on me)What should I do?
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Does he avoid you? Have a lot of plans without you in it? How often do you see him? Do you see him staring at other girls? Just take notice of things...but don't bring it up again because if he's not cheating on you...that will obviously hurt him and feel like you can't trust him. [ queenhearts's advice column | Ask queenhearts A Question ]
irishgal000 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 12:18 am: What kind of people tell you these things? If it is close friends, seeing it upclose, I would believe them...it is tough but they're your friends. But if it other people you might want to check it out for yourself or see if anyone that you know well saw anything. If they didn't that trust your instincts or if your too curious,then, like I said, check it out and see if what everyone is saying is true. or if you are a brave girl ask him upfront at the perfect moment...he will show a sign if he is lying. But first I would ask your friends. And ALWAYS be confident of whatever you choose....nowadays any false move may make a rumor. good luck! [ irishgal000's advice column | Ask irishgal000 A Question ]
x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Friday October 21 2005, 11:19 pm: Id your friends are saying it then I think you should trust them..because most friends wouldn't lie to you about something like that. But don't go off on him or anything..confront him about it and if he starts getting nervous you'll know he's lying. Well I really hoep it's all rumors..good luck!! ♥ caitie [ x0blu3eyedbeautyx0's advice column | Ask x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 A Question ]
angelfire2708 answered Friday October 21 2005, 11:10 pm: im sorry, but you sound as naive as my ex's gf. she believes everything he tells her. He will tell her his side and i will tell her the real truth, and of course she believes him. I mean, why should she believe her bfs ex? Duh!!
So you think that all these people are just making that stuff up about your bf? For what reason? You actually think youre bfs gonna tell you that he touches other girls? He knows youll believe him over any1 else. Hell, id keep doin it if i know my gf isnt gonna believe any1 else!
You need to see for yourself instead of thinking every1 else is lying except for your faithful bf!
Find out when hes doing this, and who its with. If possible, see for yourself, or have a person you trust watch him. Its the only way youre gonna find out for yourself, instead of the "he said, she said story"! [ angelfire2708's advice column | Ask angelfire2708 A Question ]
alongtimelex answered Friday October 21 2005, 11:02 pm: You should make no assumptions. First, maybe watch him a little closer to see if you notice him doing certain things or acting a certain way around other girls. Try to find out for yourself if he is lying before jumping to conclusions. However, if you cannot find out then really ask yourself if he's worth the worry you are going through. You do not want to be with someone you cannot trust. He definitely should not be touching other girls when he is dating you, unless they are his friends and he is giving them friendly hugs. Also, ask him in person, face to face, so you can judge whether he is lying or not. Look for the common signs like: he will not look you in the eyes, he changes the subject, he appears to be nervous, he fiddles with something (like his hands or anything he's holding), etc. Good luck, and I hope he is not lying to you and things work out. Love, Lex [ alongtimelex's advice column | Ask alongtimelex A Question ]
sshelbyy answered Friday October 21 2005, 10:56 pm: How much do you trust the people who are telling you this INFOO?
If they are your best friends, you might want to watch your BF more closelyy and maybe spyy a little bit..
If not, you cant believe anything people tell you so wait it out and wait until YOU catch him cheatingg on you. again, you might want to watch him and watch what he does from now on.
ah good luckk
i hope hes not cheatingg on you :D
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