okay guys this is a long one. my boyfriend broke up with me and i still have feelings for him. we used to be great friends and started dating. our class went on a trip to NYC and i heard that he cheated on me. some girls were going up to the guys room's in the hotel and yeah. he promised me that he didnt do anything but i didnt believe him because everything that went on was in the room he was staying in. i heard one of the girls that was in that room say that if he was there he would have had a great time. but i dont know if she was just sticking up for him because i was there or he really wasnt there. then the next day he seemed really distant from me and a week later he dumped me. i still really really like him even though he treated me like shit the whole time we were dating. will i ever get over him and should i keep trying to get back together with him?
Candy answered Friday October 21 2005, 8:02 pm: Girl you need to move on. Its not going to help you sitting there thinking about it. Even though what he did was not right(and had the nerve to dump you)you have to gt over it. All i can sy is go out and find someone that would treat you right,like a lady should be treated. And just remember that just because someone did it to you doesn't mean do it to them. [ Candy's advice column | Ask Candy A Question ]
xomadiiox answered Friday October 21 2005, 8:01 pm: Well if you really like him, I don't think you should chase after him. Let him see what he is missing out on. And he still isn't showiing he is interested then you should forget about him cause honey he aint worth it. And find yourself a better man that cares about you and appreciates you. bueno mamiita GOOD LUCK ! [ xomadiiox's advice column | Ask xomadiiox A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Friday October 21 2005, 6:35 pm: You can get over him, and you should. I know its hard to hear this, but its all laid out on the table, he wasn't a great boyfriend to you. So why chase him? I know you think that you'll never be happy again, or you don't feel pretty, and everything is down lately, but thats the feeling of a hard break up, and basically what you can use is time for yourself, and a friend to be there helping you. I know it won't help to tell you that its better to move on, and that things will be better, and that he was not worth all of your time to spend with if he was treating you badly. But soon, after you get over him, you'll see that there is a better life after him, and without him there hurting you.
SweetxxIntoxication answered Friday October 21 2005, 6:27 pm: if he treated you badly, you should find someone new. No one deserves to be treated badly.
And you will get over him, you'll find a much nicer and sweeter guy who will treat you like you're his entire world ♥ =] [ SweetxxIntoxication's advice column | Ask SweetxxIntoxication A Question ]
Advicelady6798 answered Friday October 21 2005, 6:25 pm: I definiately tink you can get over him. Find someting that will keep you ccupied so you dont think about him. You shouldnt try to get back with him b/c he will just do the same thing again and you dont want to be hurt again. If you just take it one day at a time i am sure you will find someone who would never do that to you. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
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