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What are some ways I can keep my hair healthy (breakage, damaged hair .. etc) but still make it look great everydaY? I rate high! :)

I use all Thermasilk products and they work like magic...my hair was totally horrible and now its awesome! also i went to my hair dresser and she put in this color wash and it worked so good...she leaves it in for about 5-10 min and then she rinses it and it comes out shiny and smooth and really nice and flowy. i hope i helped! good luck! if you need any more just leave on in my inbox

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1. well i was wondering if a girl that is 15 turning 16 in 2 months is going out with someone that just turned 25, could that someone go to jail?
2. what if the girl is not a virgin and the cops find out and they try to accuse the boy and she denies it could they file charges???
Thank you!

yes to your first question, under the law you can be 18 and he can be 25 but being 15/16 and him being 25 he would get arrested.
to answer the second question yes they can find out and file charges which would make his case worse.
Hope I helped!

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Every year i have a friend party. This year i want to have something rly cool and i want to have like eveyone there. The only thing is i know a theme might b totally nerdy but i need some ideas for my party. Like games we can play and stuff we can do. I have a rly big backyard so i want to have it there. Any ideas??

*~Sam~*

Dancing
Truth or dare
twister
just hang and talk
maybe if you have a basketball hoop the guys would want to play with that ( and girls lol )
hope i helped!! need any more just leave one in my inbox

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Okay...I am having a birthday party in a couple of weeks and I need some activites to do while I am there. I am inviting about 15 girls...no boys and would like things to do to entertain the guests. Thank-you very much!!! 15/f

Twister
games
movies
makeovers
swimming ( depending on where you live )
truth or dare
eat lol
sing
listen to music
talk about crushes etc
you could also just ask them what they want to do if things get boring...and ask your mom for things that you can do...hope i helped

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I am so Pro-Life and the "N" word hurts me so much when people say it!! and I am like so oppinionated as it is, but i cannot just sit by and let people say abortion is alright, and/or let them say the "N" word around me! it hurts so much! any tips on what to say? or anyone feel the same??
thanks-
Kelsa

I deff. feel the same..i cringe when people say abortion is right...there should only be 1 time where abortion is right and that is when the person is raped. It hurts to think that people could accutally kill their child...purposly...i suggest a book for you to read its called Gianna by Jessica Shaver and its about a girl who aborted her baby but gave birth to a live baby instead of a dead one...its a really good book. as for what to say when people say that abortion is right just come back at them and tell them your reasons why its not. dont be afraid to stick up for what you feel. i have gotten into arguments with teachers about this and it opens your mind, so just go for it. hope i helped! need any more leave one in my inbox

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Ok ive been single for 2 YEARS!! This is too long..especially being that these are supposed to be the best years of our lives. ive been living it up with my friends and thats great and everything; but its like something is missing. Im lonely and i think everyone knows loneliness isnt a great feeling. Nobody really like me..im like the girl with the nice personality, but not the looks...i have guys as friends, but thats about it. It seems like i wont have another bf until after high school. iS there anything i can do?? or do i have to just wait it out : /

Just wait it out....you shouldnt have to have a boyfriend to have fun or feel good..Try finding a hobbie and concentrating on other things besides boys ( i know its hard lol ) but once you get your mind off boys and concentrate on school/work/family/friends/hobbies you'll find that you will barely notice that you dont have a boyfriend..trust me i dont have one either and doing this helps alot...just feel confident in yourself and be happy with what you've got..People act like girls 11/12/13/14/15 are supposed to have boyfriends and if you dont your not normal and thats completely NOT TRUE...you most likely will not find your soul mate at the ages of 11/12/13/14/15 or even 16 so the only point of having a boyfriend is getting hurt in the end...yea it may feel good at the end but girls usually push into their minds that you love or have to love them, and in the end it breaks your heart...I know you feel lonely, i sometimes get like that too if i have an off day...like today for instance i was really tired and grouchy which made me feel upset and lonely...and when that happened i ate some ice cream, sat down on the couch and watched a movie, called and talked to my friend for like 1/2 and hour, and took a nap, then when i woke up i felt better and just to get myself back to normal ( and burn a few calories from that ice cream i ate ) i took a jog...it helped me loosen up and got me back to normal...so just remember to focus on friends/family/school/hobbies etc live life in your teen years it'll get better...you dont need a guy to make you happy...hope i helped need anymore leave one in my inbox

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Hello all~
Thank you for taking the time to read and answer this. I wanted to know if there are any cool websites that can give me cool poems, away messages, random facts, or anything worthwhile. I am on the computer a lot and would like to find sites that are new to explore. Thank You Very MucH!!! 15/f

Firehotquotes.com
awaymessages.com
quotemania.2ya.com
google the type of poems or just poem and it should show up with alot of things
hope i helped! need any more leave one in my inbox

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its my day off from school. i dont really feel like going to hang out eith friends i just wanna chill home. can anyone give me some funn sites.
ill rate

(if your a girl) www.quotemania.2ya.com
bored.com
zoogdisney.com ;) depending on your age

sorry thats all i got lol

hope i helped

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Yeah...so my friend is staying at my house for a week because her parents are out of town. But my house is so....BORING! And the TV is broken, so that pretty much stinks. =( Any ideas what we can do??? ITS SOOOO BORING!!!! lol

13/f (both of us)

Play cards, listen to music, Write poetry ( if you like it ), make a movie, play on the computer, get a bunch of kids from the neighborhood and play a game like ghosts in the graveyard ( i think thats what its called ) do each others nails/hair/makeup ( if your into that ) make up a game, read mag., bake cookies, have eating contests, you can do pretty much anything have fun...hope i helped

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Okay well Today on the radio I heard that theres going to be a Jesse McCartney Concert this month in Florida. It's supposed to be at Citrus something. It's some sort of adventure park. Well I was wondering if anyone could give me a site that has more details. That would be highly appreciated.

Try going to his offical website...or type it in google...hes hott lol...also try going to the site of the place where hes playing...hope i helped!

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ok, when your birthday comes, does the age on your column automatically change? thx

no you have to change it yourself. ;)

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Hi im Jess i really need to know how can i get more aggressive in soccer because i love the sport ive been playing for 9 years and i just cant seem to get aggressive. Ive heard people say i need t get more aggressive but i dont know how so if anyone has any ideas plz let me know. Thx
~Love Jess~

I personally LOVE soccer...i play all the time...the way i usually get aggressive is i think of all the people who have hurt me in the past...and that usually angers me lol..but another way is to think about the people you love and would do anything for..then transfer that into aggressiveness, as if to say your playing this game to save their lives or to make them happy...also if theres somebody on the opposing team that you dont like try to steal the ball away or make a goal ( depending on your position ) also just think of how bad you want to win the game...that should help you...just remember how much you love to play soccer and that should make you want to win which would make you more aggressive...but remember play because you love it...hope i helped! need anything else leave one in my inbox!

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random question... but im like starving right now!! anybody know any good ideas for some food i could eat?!~ lol

wrong catagory! lol

try chips and dip....
or fruit
or a sandwhich
ceral
ice cream
celery,hotsauce and blue cheese dressing is soo good lol
soup
chocolate
candy

lol anything you have in your house... hope i helped!

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I have a really great singing voice, but I'm so embarassed to sing in front of anyone, even my mom. Can someone please give me tips to overcome my shyness? I RATE HIGH. Someone pelase help

If you love to sing then just go for it...so say you and your mom are driving in the car...you turn on your fav. cd or you hear a song on the raido you know and just belt it out...maybe your with your friends listening to music and you love the song...just be like does anyone else love this song cuz i do! and just start singing....they wont laugh trust me...thats how i started i just belted it out...i love to sing and i love to sing in front of people and with my family and friends i share with them my dreams of becoming a singer and actor and they dont laugh they think its cool...so dont be afraid of what people think about you when you sing just do it cuz you love it...the first time i sang in front of my parents and friends i was nervous and shy..but after i realized how much i loved it and just kept doing it...now whenever im in a car listening to the raido or a cd ill start singing and i wont even realize it...its just a habbit now...and i enjoy it...sometimes ill sing too loud and my mom will be like " wake up! " because i get so into it...lol...just just go for it..just keep in mind you have a wonderful voice and you love to sing...hope i helped...need any more leave one in the inbox!

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Well this is so random but my dad is my soccer coach and when ever we are at practice and i say daddy he says i am not gunna respond to that call me coach.. and i get really sad

just keep in mind there are other kids around who have to call him coach and hes just trying to keep his work/job seprate from his home life...its nothing to do with you its just the setting..i hope i helped!

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In english class we're doing a project and we have to read it outloud. Last time when i was reading something outloud evry1 lauged at me! (Darn my squeeky voice) Anyways, i dunt want 2 read mine outloud! What should i do??

Well I think that you should be happy with the way you talk...its what makes you you so i would first suggest you just go up there and do it and dont worry about what other people think of you...but if you dont want to listen to that heres some other tips...try to talk to your teacher....tell him or her that you feel extremely uncomfortable talking in front of people which will make your project seem not as important or as well as it is...but i would also keep in mind that if you do that some kids might give you crap about not having to do your report in front of everyone and they might say its not fair. But if your teacher says you have to i would practice alot! try practicing in front of a mirror and in front of your family...also try toning your voice different...just remember your voice is what makes you unique and different...and that should make you feel good...dont let thoes other kids get to you!....hope i helped!

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Earlier today i went to the orthodontist and got my braces changed and now they are extremely sore and i can't stand it i've taken medicine and everything but it didn't help...I need your advice on how to make them stop!...they hurt so bad ive cried my eyes out over them!..thanks in advance i will rate if thats what you want!

the wax sometimes works...use cold packs or hot packs and drink hot or cold drinks which ever helps you most...also take advil or ibuprofene ( sp ) that helps too...take a long nap and sometimes that helps..hope i helped!

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Is there a way to turn off the computer without logging off of AIM? I tried hibernate & standby. Hibernate saves the desktop as is but it makes AIM sign off. And on standby, the computer blinks over and over again. Is there anything else I can try?

turn the monator off....thats what i do...hope i helped!

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besides babysitting, what are other little ways of making money at age 14, and also besides getting a real job (bc my mom won't let me)

Cleaning, raking, shoveling, dogsitting, housesitting, helping an old person with things needed to be done, things like that....hope i helped! mauh!

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could someone give me a survey where i fill it out and each question is about me.One that is already made though.I want to put it on my site instead of writing a whole essay about myself.
Thanks!

theres ones at www.Quotemania.2ya.com which i think is the best site of all time...(its not my site)lol...hope i helped! mauh!

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