Q: I've just moved in to Univeristy, and my room is really bad. There is only one shower between 18 people, the kitchen is tiny, and there's so little natural light in my room that you can't read without artificial light. I've picked up a form to apply for a change of room, but I don't know whether I should go through with it, as moving would mean I'd move to a new corridor where people have probably already formed friendship groups and cliques, whereas here I already know people. Do you think it's worth the hassle of switching? I have seen other rooms around my campus and they are, without exception better than the one I have, so there's no real risk, it's just a case of it being worth the hassle of having to move all of my stuff after having moved it in just a few weeks ago.

Q: ok, i love my boyfriend(lets call him peter) with all my heart, body and soul, but before i got with peter, like 3-4 months before i was with his best friend(lets call him danny).

originally i met peter, then his introduced me to danny, my b/f awhile ago always flirted but he never made a move or anything so things just happen with danny, after me and danny were together peter backed off, then we broke up, and i was single for awhile then me and peter get together and we have been happy, it seems like whenever danny gets brought up(they are still friends btw) he gets all emo and talks about how i broke his heart, i love him but i dont wanna have to be the cause hes so sad sometimes, im supposed to be his girlfriend, making him smile.. but instead it feels like the past with danny only makes him sad..

i dont know what to do. i wanna be with him but i dont know how to handle knowing i make him sad ='(
help. what should i do?

Q: this is really screw up cuz like these 2 girls like me they r best freidsn..yet they both r my rxs and 1 of em r my best friends ex g/f to..yet now his g//f broke up with him and now she likes me..she has asked me to amny things sucha s the haunt and homecoming...I dont know what to do jsut because Idk if I like her..techncailly I cant tho becuz my best friend si still in love with her...he likes her so much...yet she likes me so much..she doesn't care if i like ehr or not she is like boseesive..and I alrdy got ym eye on a girl too..plus I alrdy got a date fore the homeocming..and it will b the 3rd hmeocming I've gone too...

Q: okay I have this amazing boyfriend who I know loves me very much.He has already met my mom and most of my familyand they all think he is sweet. I love having him as a boyfriend and of course I would never break up with him but I am so used to bieng hurt by guys that I am so scared that he will hurt me too. He swears that he never will but I can never be to sure of everything. I know he loves me so why am I so scared?Plz help me as soon as possible!I need it bad!!!!!
I am 13 years old and am female!!!!!

Q: Ok, my dad owns a racetrack about 2 hours away from my house and I always go there every saturday. My brother and a couple of friends also go there and they work on this truck thing. There are 2 guys that work with my brother that I really like and one of them is always flirting with me and says he loves me and stuff but ya I really love them both a lot even though they are 2 and 3 years older than me (there so hot and they're cousins). Well my racetrack closed a few days ago and it opens again in 7 months but I really cant wait that long to see them. One of them who is 14 tried to kiss me on the last night but I didnt kiss him and now I regret it since I will not see him for a long time!!! I keep dreaming about him and I cant wait to see them again I am like so mad its closed...how can I deal? Thanks for your help!!!

Q: Okay you see my friend "Helen" and I were talking about my other friend "Hannah". When we brought up my other friend "Jake", Helen told me that Hannah told her that I was mad at Hannah because she changed Jake and that I was mad at her for taking him away from me. Thing is, I never said anything like that or relating to that or anything to Hannah. I don't feel like Jake was taken away from me because he was never mine in the first place. I don't know where she got that idea and why she said it but it hurt to find out she was saying things like that about me. I wanted to talk to Hannah about it but Helen told me not to because Hannah would yell at her for spilling the beans to me (Helen was the only one who was supposed to know). Hannah is not a bully or anything but she can get annoying especially when she's mad at you and Helen didn't want Hannah to be mad at her because they go to the same school and they share the same locker and everything so it would just be awful. So my question is how can I talk to Hannah about it AND keep Helen's name clear?

Q: Ok, so I'm a fourteen year old girl and to start off with, I have recently broken up with a boyfriend I had for over a year. I loved him very very much, and still do. He says he still loves me as well, but he moved and I never see him so it's too hard to be anything more than friends. Well recently, I've been hanging out with another guy a lot. He and I are both in marching band, so we see each other a whole lot. Well yesterday, we had a band compeition starting at eleven AM, and the bus got to the school at 1:30AM. Well at the compeition we were hanging out a whole lot, and on the bus ride home he started using me as a pillow again(this isn't anything new) and I subconsciously started playing with his hair. All of a sudden, my hand slipped into his and the next thing I know we're holding hands. See, what I'm wondering is, is it okay to be slowly falling in love with this new guy while I still have feelings for my ex? Is it fair to him? Help.

Q: okay so my friends and i got in a fight and well we kinda made up 2day!! i was just wondering how can i make our friendship stronger?? also we don't talk a lot does anyone have any suggestions about what we should talk about??

Q: i really like these kidds one of them is punk and the other is kewl!! I want to get to know the punk kidd he is really nice and we kinda of fool around like he'll hit me so i hit him back!! and people are like "stop flirting" what should i do?? and also this kewl kidd i am friends with but he is like kind of full of himself and whenever i ask him 2 come hang out with me and my friends he aslways has something else to do!! any suggestions??

Q: There are these two boys and I can see myself with both of them. The promblem is Derek is friends with my brother and goes to a diff high school than me, I've known him for about 6 months now. Damien goes to my school and we have a lot in common but I've only known him for a few weeks. I honestly don't know who to pick. They are both great guys. Also my brother is totally against me and Derek dating, Derek is like who cares he doesn't control me. please help

Q: ok my friends thought that i cut myself which I DONT! i didnt no it but they were all talking about me and saying that i did.. i no that they were worried but they didnt even come to me about it and they were like spreading rumors about it (only our group and a few other ppl heard tho). also some friends were talking and saying that i couldnt express myself bcuz i copied my bestfriend in 4th grade... hmm im in 9th now.. and i express myself ALOT. im really hurt that they were talking this shit behind my back and not coming to me and sayin i cant express myself
should i b mad??
thanx

Q: hey .. ok .. here is the thing ..i have 2 best friends.. lets call them elle and iris.. we're really close..we're in 9th grade.. in school, we usually like guys our age or 1 or 2 years older.. there's an important guy at our school and he needs a bodyguard to stay with him. my friend, elle, likes this bodyguard. not offending anyone..but, we're upper class girls and as you may imagine, not only
this guy isn't from the same socially "priviledged" class as us, but he's also around 30 years of age. this is hardly the problem, the guy stares not only at my friend, but at iris and me. iris and i have become very fearful of what this may end in. some dude used to call elle to her cel phone (without telling her who he was
and he asked her sexual things and implying stuff he shouldn't imply. she answered and took things very lightly. anyways, i asked her if she would date him if a relationship would occur (cuz she HAS NEVER had a conv. with him..!!)
she told me she would, and not only date him but have sexual intercourse with him. as you can imagine, i'm very worried because i have no idea what this pedophile freak is capable of. he looks at her with these provocating eyes and she looks back at him, responding.
i dunno what he could do to, not only her, but us. i have this feeling. i dunno if he's capable of doing something to her against her will- as in raping her. i talked to my mom and what she told me was that iris and i needed to talk to elle urgently to tell her what she could get herself into before this goes too far.
SHE TOLD ME SHE LOVED HIM. iris is talking to her mother right now to ask for advice. this is a great deal to both of us so i would REALLY appreciate your advice. thank you so much for reading this long .. thank you ..

Q: My friend is annoying as hell. She considers herself punk. She wears HER OLDER BROTHER'S CLOTHES. And she literally wears a size 1, and her brother, in womans, is like a 5. So they're all baggy, and she wears his belts, shirts and shoes too. It's so annoying. She's really pretty, but she never shows it. She wears argile socks that don't match (literally, she miss-matches them on purpose) and her hair is PAST her butt. She hasn't had it cut in like 6 years. I hate that people look at her and talk about her funny, but seriously, it's so weird because she doesn't even dress or act like a girl. Should I tell her?

Q: I thought about suicide once, but now...it dosen't come as often...is this normal or what?

Q: I was talking to my ex and he said that my bestfriend "buth" said something about the guy i liked. I think it was something like, "he doesn't like her like that, and they'll never got out!" I don't know what to do. I'm totally lost in waht i should do. Should I ask her if she said something like that or what?

Q: hey i am a 15 year old girl and i got into this football accident in ROTC homecoming is coming up and i am suppose to wear my brace cuz i screwed up my neck big time...but isnt that kind of emabarassing... i mean it wouldnt hurt just one day without out.. or would it... HELP plz

Q: My cat has a bad habbit of tearing up the toilet paper rolls. I have tried putting the rolls on backwards so the paper won't roll off when she plays with it, but she is still tearing it up good. I end up thowing away 1/4 of the roll when I go into the bathroom. What can I do to prevent my cat from doing this?

Q: I have a friend who recently broke up with her boyfriend. They decided to just remain friends. She is troubled because he's everything that she could possibly want in a future husband and he feels the same way about her in viewing her as the perfect wife but for someone reason feels god doesn't want them to be together right now. She is trying everything to show her love to him? What should she do? She feels a lot of hurt and is heartbroken over this? She's willing to do a lot to have him?

Q: theres this guy.. that i wuld do anything to b with.. andd i kno he likes me.. buhh he does have a rep with grls.. buhh he doesnt waste tyme on askin grls outta cuz basically he doesnt need to if all he wants his shyt.. he can have grls in a sec.. and hes thinking of askin me out..i kno hes a player buhh.. cant u change a player? like if u kno they like u for a fact.. do u think i can? cuz i can so picture myself fallin in love with himm and having sex with himm

Q: whenever i liek guys i get sort of scared wen i talk to them and my whoel attitude changes around them how can i learn to act the same around him//..?

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