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There are these two boys and I can see myself with both of them. The promblem is Derek is friends with my brother and goes to a diff high school than me, I've known him for about 6 months now. Damien goes to my school and we have a lot in common but I've only known him for a few weeks. I honestly don't know who to pick. They are both great guys. Also my brother is totally against me and Derek dating, Derek is like who cares he doesn't control me. please help
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First you should ask your brother why he is against you and Derek. But if I were you I would choose Damien because you both go to the same school,you have alot of things in common, you don't have to worry about what your brother will say, and you can make sure that Damien doesn't cheat on you if he is that type. You really have to make the choice but I hope that I helped you if not you can stop by my column and I will try to help you once again.
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I say you go out with damien. you can see him more often, so its easier communication. you wouldnt want to force derek to choose between who to hang out with, you or your brother. that would put him in a bad position, and would have to break up with you, or stop hanging out with your brother. if he stops hanging out with your brother, he'll be mad at you, and derek will b feelin guilty and itll cause to much drama. damien just seems so much easier.
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Well, no matter what I say, this is YOUR choice. But here's my opinion. I think you should choose Damien because, you like him, and if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. NO biggie! I think it's okay that your bro is against you dating his friend. You should respect his life and his friends. He probably wouldn't feel comfortable around you two if you were dating. And if Derek feels that your bro's opinion doesnt matter, he's wrong, because it does. So here's my opinion, take it or leave it. I hope I helped you a bit..!
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You should see why your brother doesnt want you guys to date. He may actually have a valid reason. And if he does, then id suggest that you take a chance with Damien! Even if you think that sounds weird, listening to your brother, but, sometime they know a little bit more about the person than you are!
**_Nicole_**
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