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Q: I'm in Middle School and every1 is wearing makeup and long earrings! my mom won't let me but sometimes i sneak out of the house with some eyeshadow on. and i can't wear hoops ( even small 1's!) on any day except tuesday when we have chapel. what should i do??
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Hunni,
Tell ur mom that she is waaaaaay too overprotective(cuz she is) or get some money buy the earrings and make and put on the makeup and earings at school in the morning...
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'
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Q: Ok well this goes to my last question but ne ways I have this bf and we've been together eight months went through roughs times well I found this other guy. Who was nice comforted me and made me feel happy. He asked me out I said I didn't know cause technically me and my other bf called it quits cause we knew it wouldn't work long distance over summer. So I didn't know which one to pick but now I've decided to stay with my eight month bf and stick it out through rough times but what should I say to the guy that asked me out because I don't know how to tell him I don't want to date him while being nice. Take in also when I tell him that I don't want to date him I don't want to hurt his feelings were really good friends and he's my ex. I'll rate good!
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Hun Listen,
CLOSELY!
Go with your ex since he treats you better...Or you can just go with him for the summer to see if a spark is tehre and if its not leave him and if it is stay with him and see what yall can make...
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'
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Q: ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?
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Hunni,
6 months isnt that long..ok its a half of a year but its not long enough to have sex maybe let him finger you or give him a handjob OOOOOH this one is really fun....ROLEPLAYING! go to like spencers and buy the uniforms and a whip...TRUST ME!!!!! its loadza fun...dont suck his dick cuz that shit's nastyNo its not bad 4 u to be 15 and not do nothing just do what you feel like doing...But seriously try the role playing thing It soooooo FUN!
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'
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Q: there are these girls in my school and they bully me to often.It is interfering with my grades.help!
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Simple....SLAP THOSE BITCHES!
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Q: i feel like i am in love with this boy from secondary school!!! he asked me if i wana be with him! i said yes and i have not heard since i was thinking about trying to bump into him because i know what way he goes home but i really don't want him to know i have done it on purpose. I was planning on going today, but i might get clothes ready and go and bump into him tomorrow. Thing is i am really scared! please help or advice me i am 16 female we moved school last year so i have not seen him for a year now and he always has his phone off.
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Hunni,
If yooh feel like yooh love him then BUMP INTO HIM!!! it can only make things better if yooh do like first walk pass him and then turn around and say JOHN?!(for instance) then hell say TRACIE?!(for instance) or hell say yea then say its been a long time and start asking questions then eventually youll get his number or hell ask u for yours....DO IT!!!!
-HOPE I HELPED!!:)
x3-Janee'
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Q: 14/f....Ok people this is like serious so dont be like rude about this...
Well my dad is very sick with an illness and like today is fathers day and everything and he was talking to me and was like "you know my medicine isnt working anymore...and like this is the last fathers day that i will be with yall and he was telling me how he wont be able to see us graduate or see his grandkids.and like i looove my dad so freakin much and like when me and my siblings were younger he wasnt really in our lives and then he came into our lives again about 2 years ago and liek when he wasnt in our lives i hated it i hated myself.....and i could never imagine being w/out him again..i dont know what to do i meen i cant talk to my family or anyone about it becasue im just not that kind of person it feels waaaaay to wierd to me...like he always tell me stuff liek "when he dies he wants ...blah blah blah" and like i cant freakin take it this is soo muc pressure of me and i think about it every single day and like earlier today i was balling my eyes out thinking that this was the last fathers day wioht him...i wish that this big nightmare would just go the freak away! i really dont know how to deal with this guys and i have no one to talk to it about..i love my daddy so much and i dont ever want him to leave.and liek i know its kinda stubborn but im like always kinda rude to him..you know how every teenager is..but like he is always liek do you hate me and i just wat to say "HATE YOU OF COURSE NOT DAD I LOOOVE YOU SOO EFFIN MUCH" but i cant.and like does anyone know sumthing special i can do for him like not today cause its already late but like another day..for fathers day..and also can you help me with the whole not being able to see him again...
Thanks soo much guys !
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Sweetie,
If his medicine stopped working and he said hell never get to see you for another father's day hes possibly going to die.so show him how much you love him.Pray to god everynight and morning that hell make it through(even if you dont believe n god) god is real god will answer all of your prayers in some kind of way.I'm so sorry about your dad..I hope he gets better soon.
-Bless your heart:)
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'
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Q: me nd my bf have broken up at least 5times nd gotten bak 2gether..nd this last time wen i broke up w/ him(which will def. be the last)..it jst seemed like he didnt care at all..nd he was acting suspicious before i broke up w/ him..now hes not talking to me..idk wats goin on..or wat 2 do..wat do u think?
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Hunni,
This is so simple....He was cheating on you the last time yall broke up and pobably before.
-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee
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Q: My girlfriend has lied to me several times... nothing EXTREMELEY serious, but about a lot of little things. I have threatened her with a break up, and she gets very emotional when i mention a break up. Recently she has lied to me again and i broke up with her... She is begging to get back with me and i want to be with her..... what should i do?
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Babe...Listen,
Life is too short to take the chance of not being with the one you love...or could possibly love in the future,so take her bak because she could die or dissappear tomorrow so follow your heart...I know that sounds cheesy but hunni its true believe me:)
-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee'
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Q: My friends say I am too obsessed with the winner of American Idol Carrie Underwood.... I am just in love with her music and I love to listen to it..Is that really a bad thing?
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Lauren,
I say tell them to FUCK OFF! and get off your ass I think you're jus in luv wit her music No its not a bad thing....ITS GREAT that u have somone positive to look up to so tell them to deal with it and that they cant say anything because they arent yooh!
-HOPE I HELPED BABE!:)
x3-Janee'
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Q: ok. so my friend always takes pictures of herself and she like says that she has fat thighs and she has cellulite n stuff and she keeps weighing herself and keeps saying that shes going on a deit n crap. I KNOW that she thinks shes beautiful and she's a cheerleader with me so i think that she shouldn't worry about her weight at all. please help me. HOW CAN I GET HER TO STOP SAYING SHIT?!?!
P.s. sorry about da cussin...i got a lil mad.
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Honestly,
I think you should just say look you're pretty and ur not fat so get over urself.....n/p bout tha cussin
-HOPE I HELPED!
x3-Janee'
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Q: I've always used a note to break up with someone because I'm shy and when I break up with my boyfriends, I wouldn't be able to look them in their face or be able to talk because I'd be so nervous. So my question is: What's the best way to break up with a guy? You know, like note, phone, in person, online?
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I'd say...
In person because if yooh do it any uthr way than youll feel more guilty when yooh see him the next day or whenever you do but if u do it right then and there then it should go wellthen you can continue your day another way to help yooh not to feel guilty is to say at the end I really hope we can still be friends...
-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee'
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Q: well, school is over for the summer, and im not that great at keeping in touch with everyone. most of my friends get upset at this, but then again, only 2 of them have tried to keep in contact with me too... i just dont understand why they get so upset when they arent trying either. i understand it is hard to go with out talking to your friends that have been there for you, but i just moved, and im around a different crowd, and i have to go to summer school, and some of my friends think im going to forget about them, and make new friends. i will make new friends, but i wont forget my old. i tried explaining this to them, but they just seem to get mad. what am i supposta do??
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Hunn,
Dont just explain show it call them everyday and check up on them u cnat just say things and automatically get your point across u gotta put effort into it and show it too..
-HOPE I HELPED
x3-Janee'
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Q: what does getting your cherry popped mean??
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I dont really know but...
I think it means when yooh lose your V and the dick pops the cherry inside ur privatez!
-HOPE I HELPED
x3-Janee'
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Q: my friend gave head to a guy over spring break which was in april and the day after she got a cold sore and then the next month she got a couple of cold sores, now she doesnt have any cold sores so my questions are. 1. does she have any herpes? 2. how long does it take to get herpes? 3. whenever a cold sore goes away, how long does it take to come bck when u have herpes
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Honestly,
I think she has herpes cold sores are for WINTER TIME! It takes a half a second to get an std(herpes,aids,etc.)You can have herpes and not even know it....u can have herpes wiythout a single symptom so if u and ur friend experiment with each other....DO NOT... I REPEAT.....DO NOT KISS HER!!!!!!!!!
-HOPE I HELPED
x3-Janee'
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Q: I've been losing alot of weight lately & I hate how it's leaving stretch marks. Any pointers?
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Hunni,
When yooh lose a drastic amount of weight you'll most definitely get stretch marks....To make them go away use the palmers cocoa butter lotion..but use the one thats designe especially for stretch marks
-HOPE I HELPED
x3-Janee'
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Q: ok well i have stared my period once and that was 3 months a go i have not had sex soo i am not pregnet! it worries me! i havent told my mom that i haent started in 3 months! because she know i have origanly started! is my body going haywire or somthing? and i gett alot of discharge still!
Haywired Body??
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Dont Worry,
When you first start you dont have a regular schedule or anything it just comes the way it comes and another thing when your period stabilizes and develops a schedule taht means you're done growing as in you wont get any taller...mines did the same thing...I started when I was 12 and Im 14 now and it still isnt stable so dont worry...and you're not haywired
-HOPE I HELPED
x3-Janee
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Q: how long is a good amount of time to give a guy a blow job for? i've given them before but i dont know when to stop .. so i wanted to know like how many minutes or just until he cums?
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Honestly,
I'd say until he cums so then u kno you did a good job...
-HOPE I HELPED!
x3-Janee'
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Q: okay so my friend is on birth control (actually my friend) last month about two weeks before she got her period she had some bleeding. i heard once that you can get pregnant on birth control but the pills will kill it. is that posibly what her bleeding was? im very interested because im planning on getting on birth control pills and i want to know about them
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Listen,
Birth control doesnt kill the baby it kills sperm cells that are inside the womans body(before it reaches the eggs of course) and its possible to get pregnant on birth control(unless u use a condom too) but the chances of getting pregnant ar SLIIIIIM because birth control is 98% effective...the bleeding is pre menstrual like an indicator of her period or it could be a side effect of "vaginal bleeding" from the birth control pills,or shot
-HOPE I HELPED!
x3-Janee'
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Q: Well 2 days ago i went over to my boyfriends house of 5 months for about 5 hours! and everything was great till yesterday. He blocked me onine, And i tryed calling his cell phone but he didn't answer but he called me back saying sorry, he was just miserable about a few things and didn't want to talk to anybody. I was okay with it cause i can understand. Well later that night he told me that he was thinking about us all day and i asked him what? and he said that he doesn't feel "sparks" between us anymore! It kinda hurts to hear that after the day before. What can i do to get the "sparks" back? he sent me a text this morning saying that he really loves me and that he is really in love with me and wants to spend his life with me. but theres soo many things going on around him that hes not sure of what to do. But my question is what can i do to get the "sparks" back, and make him feel better? and please don't say anything sexual cause were both not ready for that. ooo and if it helps im 14, and hes 16!! thanks bunches, i'll rate if you can really help me!!!
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Hunn,
LISTEN CAREFULLY PWEEEEESZE!
If you have to do ANYTHING to get sparks in a relationship that would be forcing sparks to come back and sparks dont come by force or by actions its about how much u really love each other...and if you have to do anythng to get sparks in a relationship then its not real so just sit back, dont do anything,relax, and be you
I honestly think its his fault that there are no sparks because"so much is going on in his life" and its making him miserable.....So the best thing to do is to calm him down and make sure hes not miserable(but thats not forcing so it WILL be real)
-HOPE I HELPED
x3-Janee'
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Q: i am a 16/f and i like a 19/m. we've been getting a lot closer lately and i know he likes me but i never gave him a straight answer if i like him. the thing is, i would love to go out with him and stuff, but he is my best friend's ex. they broke up because she cheated on him like five times. i couldn't believe she did that so i took him under my wing to try and cheer him up and we ended up liking each other. my best friend wants him back, but i'm quite sure he won't go back to her either because he's been hurt too many times or he likes me now. i guess what i am asking is, if you were in the same situation, would you risk breaking the friendship for the guy? do you think it would be possible to go out without telling her?
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Honey Lemme tell yooh this from my personal experience going out with your best friends ex is W-R-O-N-G!No matter how bad she treated him she prolly really likez him deep down inside of her maybe she feels unwanted by him and that probably why she cheats on him.OH! and dont go outwith him just incase your friend likes him and asking her if its ok to go out with him will piss her of....Dont do that either.And if you do go out with him you'll feel a truckload of guiltiness I did once and I ended up breaking up w/ the guy....Yes it's possible to go out with him without her knowing.......But its HARD!,VERY HARD! because...Yooh cant be seen in public with him...you cant tell anyone even ur other friends because they might tell your bff and eventually yooh and the boy will be torn apart because of trying to hide a secret relationship...and it will give yooh both a easy way to cheat on each other...yooh dont necessarily have to listen to me but do whats right...
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'
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bio
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My name Is Janee` I'm 17 years old. im in love & its the best. Just ask me a question, and i will try my best to answer with help :)
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Lawrenceville,Georgia Occupation: Student Age: 17 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: November 6, 2004 Answers: 169 Last Update: February 27, 2008 Visitors: 13312
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