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Earrings and Makeup
I'm in Middle School and every1 is wearing makeup and long earrings! my mom won't let me but sometimes i sneak out of the house with some eyeshadow on. and i can't wear hoops ( even small 1's!) on any day except tuesday when we have chapel. what should i do??
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umm i think y0u should talk to y0ur mom about letting y0u wear make up and everything ... maybe she will understand and if she doesnt then i guess y0u will just have to wait....hope i helped
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okay.. well if your gonna wear make-up.. no one says u have to wear eye shadow.. if its that big of a deal that you feel like you HAVE to wear it, then just put a little powder and mascara on.. if your mom STILL wont let you, let her know why you want to wear it. She probably isnt letting you because she doesnt want you going out looking like a scank with too much on.. Show her that your not going to pile and cake it on and you just want to look pretty! lol..
x*o*x*o
~aMi~
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bring them to school and put them on when u get there
Edit: umm is there a reason i got a 1?
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Well just take em with you where ever you want to wear em then put them on when she's not around you.. or talk to her and tell her its style and try to do it anyways.. just tell her how you feel about it.. ♥ Dez
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hi, i'm also 12 and i'm a female.i totally understand you problem.i'm in middle school too. my mom won't let my were long earrings either.but i talked to her and we compromised.then after we talked we went to the store and we looked at earrings.we picked some out that we both liked.i love them.tell your mom you are old enough.and about the makeup,you are your mom need to agree on that.i don't wear makeup because i don't want too.you should talk to your mom.then we you go to school,let her fix your makeup.i hate to say,but moms no best.she doesn't want you to look to old!!!! i hope my advice helps.bye.e-mail me if you have any probs.
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the last person who wrote you was right, i agree with her.im out of high school and i still dont wear earings or any make-up.you will grow into it your self.dont do something just because others are doing it, because those people will be the one's telling you the wrong things in life, to do bad and all..you do what you feel is right for you,dont ever fallow the crowd, be the leader always.if everyone is teasing someone, your going to say everyone else is teasing the person so should i? no you wouldnt, because you know that is wrong, so do what you feel.never do what other's are doing, even if its the fashion these day's to wear this, or wear it like this,you dont like it dont do it,its all bout how you like it, and what you want to wear, not what other's do.trust me it will help you, so take my advice and dont do what other's are doing, if you want to wear them for your own sake that's fine, but dont fallow the rest and do what they are doing..and yeah main thing, dont sneek out of tha house!your mom and you need eachother's trust,otherwise she wont trust you to even go out with friends.always be honest, and if you dont kno why she wont let you go out like that, yeah she doesnt want you growin up so fast, but also you need to ask her your self, never be afraid to go to your mom and ask her she is their for you regardless..take care of your self, i hope this works for u..be safe..< 3
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Hunni,
Tell ur mom that she is waaaaaay too overprotective(cuz she is) or get some money buy the earrings and make and put on the makeup and earings at school in the morning...
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'
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my friend had that problem and she wasnt allowed to wear make up until she turned 13. maybe you should ask your mom if that can be a privilege you get when you turn 14 (im hoping you are over 13). make up is not that great when you are young..if you wait then you will have a better complexion when you do wear it and it will instantly re-invent you instead of having to try multiple new things to make yourself over. hoops arent really in style anymore...long and chandelier ones are. dont do somthing just because everyone else is...not worth it. if you want to just get a confidence boost, pinch your cheeks to make them rosy, curl your eyelashes and use vaseline as mascara and/or lipgloss. <3
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Tell your mum that everyone else is wearing earing and make-up. If she wears make-up and earing tell her that if she wears them then you should also be allowed!
luv shelly
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well ...mabey you could bring your make-up you want to wear in your book-bag and some earrings you would like to wear also in your book-bag and put them on in the school (like in the girls bathroom). rate me!
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you shouldn't sneak around behind your mom's back. you're going to be allowed to soon enough. your mom just doesn't want you growing up too fast. and you're not the only one who isn't wearing makeup! and makeup is just a pain in the butt to put on every day anyway.
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I'll tell you this... don't follow the crowd. At least in middle school. In high school it will get even worse.
I understand why your mom wouldn't want you wearing make up. You're just in middle school. I'm a freshman and I still don't need make up. I don't plan to wear make up until I'm in college or even later (except for like, proms of course :P). I know a lot of girls my age wear lots of make up by now, but personally I don't need it so why should I follow the crowd? Just tell me this. Why would you need make up anyway? You're not wrinkly or old...you're beautiful just the way you are; so why would you need make up? Wearing make up just makes people believe that's how you look. What will they think when you go without make up? So now you're going to have to wear make up every where, every day, for the rest of your life? Make up covers who you really are. It's like a mask. Don't you want a guy to love you for who you are? Plus, you'll have to spend lots of extra time and money, applying make up on all the time.
And if you're not going to listen to me, at least listen to this: Don't sneak around behind your mother's back. Sure it's wrong, but not only that. She WILL find out and you will LOSE her trust. That means it will take even LONGER for her to let you do what you want. So by being nice to your mom, and not sneaky, you can just talk to your mom. Eventually, she will see how mature you are and let you have some more freedom. You could strike out a deal with her if you're absolutely willing to wear make up. For example, if she lets you wear a little bit of make up on weekends you promise that'll be it. Things like that.
As for the earrings, maybe your mom may be going a little overboard. Just calmly explain to her why you want to wear earrings (If you don't even know why you want to wear earrings...why is it a problem then?). Again, you can make out deals with her. For example, if she lets you wear earrings, you'll promise not to wear provokative ones. Because honestly, I think big and/or long earrings look...ugh.
Good luck with your mom.
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