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I'm in Middle School and every1 is wearing makeup and long earrings! my mom won't let me but sometimes i sneak out of the house with some eyeshadow on. and i can't wear hoops ( even small 1's!) on any day except tuesday when we have chapel. what should i do?? (link)
the last person who wrote you was right, i agree with her.im out of high school and i still dont wear earings or any make-up.you will grow into it your self.dont do something just because others are doing it, because those people will be the one's telling you the wrong things in life, to do bad and all..you do what you feel is right for you,dont ever fallow the crowd, be the leader always.if everyone is teasing someone, your going to say everyone else is teasing the person so should i? no you wouldnt, because you know that is wrong, so do what you feel.never do what other's are doing, even if its the fashion these day's to wear this, or wear it like this,you dont like it dont do it,its all bout how you like it, and what you want to wear, not what other's do.trust me it will help you, so take my advice and dont do what other's are doing, if you want to wear them for your own sake that's fine, but dont fallow the rest and do what they are doing..and yeah main thing, dont sneek out of tha house!your mom and you need eachother's trust,otherwise she wont trust you to even go out with friends.always be honest, and if you dont kno why she wont let you go out like that, yeah she doesnt want you growin up so fast, but also you need to ask her your self, never be afraid to go to your mom and ask her she is their for you regardless..take care of your self, i hope this works for u..be safe..< 3


Okay, I made a new friend at the beginning of this previous school year and we are pretty close. Well, she can get very annoying sometimes and be really aggravating alot. Well, is it normal for me to want to spend time away for her? (link)
yes it is perfectuly fine N normal for to spend time away from her,i mean if she is being annoying, or even really aggravating, let her know the problem.it is hard sometimes to b honest,and say what you feel to someone you are close to, because you maybe afraid of what kind of response you will recieve back.but the best way to deal with it is, just talk to her completely be honest on how u feel,and what is bothering you.and if she is a good true friend she will understand.i mean you cant spend time with her everyday, you need space and so does she..hope this works for you..take care.




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