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I'm a very open person so any questions you've got throw them at me. I give great advice for a Sophmore in high school and i can blow your mind with my answers.
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I dont know what to say I am thinking bout it but .... my boyfriend said he wants to go down on me but I dont know I feel weird bout it you know what I mean I know I am clean but I dont he says it different for the guy then it is for the girl I feel he is gong to look at me different after he does it he said after he does I am goig to want him to do it again what do I do HELP!
you should do it. But hold first check yourself:
1. Is he a kiss and tell bf?
2. Have you guys had sex before?
3. Is he doing it because everyone else is doing it.
If 1. is no, 2. is yes and 3. is no go for it. It feels great and you'll have fun with it. Don't make it as a habit for him to go down all the time. Make it a treat for him since he wants to do it and not you. If 1. is no, 2. is no, and 3. is no then he wants to have sex pretty soon with you. If your not ready for going all the way don't go for it. Chioces are you'll feel bad and nasty. So think about it very hard! Hope I helped
ok im planning a sweet 16 at a hotel..i was wondering how i can control the people who come in? i dont want people who arent invited or random teenagers who are hotel guests popping in. Any suggestions? 5's for anyone who isnt obnoxious
I've got the adive for you dear. I have had many hotel parties to brilliantly answer this question. Have your party be a private party make a list of the people you want to come that are good party starters and that keep the party going and send out invitations. Also when you send out invitations people will know what to wear, if to bring a gift, or if they can "bring other people." It also lets them know it's your party and the attention is all on you! Make sure at the party that everyone does make you the center of attention because if it was a having this party I would make it a impossible thing to let anyone else steal away my party that was all about me. Ihope you know to order a DJ to. Don't be so none open mined when it comes to the music too. All these people that you are about to invite all do have different opinions(just saying).
Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
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Yeah, i don't understand either. I feel just as confused about that as you do hun. Man, it's like woman are supposed to be the ladies and guys can be as wild as ever. But if girls don't give it up a guy says she's a virgin mary and make fun of her about not giving the goods up or they would just lie to his friends and say he did it with her anyway to look like the big man. I don't know why that is but i think it's messed up!! HOPE I HELPED OUT!!
Now.. don't think I'm a slut or anything but me and my best friend share a boyfriend... and I am attrated to her too... is that a bad thing.. I mean we have done stuff in the past but I don't know if she likes me. should I make a move on her or not. or should i just talk to her and tell her my feelings I mean she is always looking at me in that sexy way and it turns me on everytime.. am I a bi-sexual and should I go for her... please don't be mean because I really need help
Girl, i know how you feel i have the same problem. I'm attracted to my best friend which is a girl and i'm a girl. But i wouldn't sleep with her boyfriend if she had one through ~he he~. Thats a big no no to me! It's nothing to worry about though. Talk to her about it and i'm sure she'll understand. It's not like your betraying her, or lieing or anything. Your telling her your straight feelings about it. And i have a feeling if you to can share her boyfriend with you and i think she'll understand you and your feelings.
i was out the other day and met my sisters mates who were drunke.ive always kinda nown that my sister is gay but i thought it was just a phase. they lat it slip that she was gay and she had a girlfriend.i havent talked about it to my sister yet and was wondering if anyone has been in my situation and what did they do.im not ashamed by it but im just shocked,do u think its still a phase? please get back to me soon. xx
Hey girl, this is not a phase because if it was she wouldn't of came out and have a girlfriend. Just ask your sister if you guys could talk and don't go crazy when you ask her questions and she says yes to things you wouldn't exspect. Just when you talk to her just remember she will always be the sister though and don't think any different about her.It all depends on how old she is.
I'm very confused.
My two best friends are starting to treat me like I'm a little kid or something because I haven't gone as far as they have, because I haven't had a boyfriend in a little while. Which I think is fine because I'm only a freshman, and my life doesn't revolve around that stuff. But it still annoys me that they act like I'm immature or something because I haven't gotten fingered, and because I didn't approve of my friend having sex with this guy for revenge. They also make fun of me for being really straight edge which I don't think I am. They think they are really cool because they hang out in a specific neighborhood in brooklyn sometimes.I don't know, I guess it just annoys me that they think they are much more mature because I don't get shit drunk and coked up all the time, and I refrain from making out with bunches of people. But I don't want to yell at them or make them think I don't want to be friends with them anymore. What should I do?
Well, hun your gonna have to drop them. Try to talk to them first about it and if their buttheads about it get new friends. It's just freshman year you can form a new friend circle. Since they get drunk, have sex, and do drugs you definitely shouldn't be around them. They might try to get you to change and do all those things and you'll end up like them immature! Watch out grl. The same thing happened to me with a group of friends I tried to make it work but i hated it. So i dropped them and i got new friends very quickly. If you drop them keep a high head and be strong because if you do you'll end up with the best. Hope i helped!!! ~Cece~
Okay, so, I like my best friend, but he has a gf...we dont live in the same state, and hes always calling me hot, and beautiful and precious and cute and everything, and I asked him not to do it, and he got mad at me, and now hes "bugged" by it and told me hes not gonna be the same around him until i tell him the reason....well the reason is that I dont want him saying it because it hurts me hearing it and not being able to HAVE him...but he cant know that. So what do I do??? Hes mad at me :(
You should say to him "you have a gf and that's just leading me on to a false future". It bugs u that he leads you on because he has a gf and it could lead you on false thoughts. Ask him if he likes you and if he does don't admit you do. Ask if he wants to break up with his gf and become bf to you. Let him know he's playing with your mind and you don't appreciate it if he doesn't havr feeling for you like that. If that doesn't work tell him how you feel and see how that goes. Since he's out of state if he doesn't like you you two can just not talk anymore and everyone and go on with their own lives since you two don't live around each other.