Pixiemagic14's advice column

LOL.ok you take lemon extract andyou poor like a small cup full in a jug. Then a cup full of water. And acup full of sugar. Stire and tada you have yourself some lemonade.

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Ok I am not happy with my life right now....and I have no idea why...I have friends and a bf who cares soo much about me...I'm a good student and I'm Secretary of my class at school...I have a lot going for me but I feel so empty inside...Please dont think that this is just for attention because thats why I cant tell my friends how I feel...I just feel like I need help...most of those things I said above were true but I messed up most of my friendships and lied to my bf about things. I'm a cutter and a snapper and I need help sorting out my life.

Wow. That's messed up.You shhouldn't have to hide away all your feelings like that. Cutting to release your pain is even worse. I don't even know what a snaper is.You should tell your parents so they can get you professional help. I think that's one of the only way for you to sort out your life.

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Ugh I'm chinese..yeah yeah..the first thing that comes to mind are those tiny tiny eyes..whatever..but yeah i'm so insecure of myself.. is there anything i can do to make them look BIGGER?! pleaseeee..(don't say surgery!..im only like 13) but yeahh please help..here is my ratins system: (5)-great advice, (4)-ok advice but somewhat questionable :-\ (3)-about to fall off the curb kinda ok but useless advice, (2)-unhelpful and useless,(1)-if you critisize me or basically give useless advice..thanks in advance!

Well I use eyeliner to make my eyes seem bigger.It works for alot of people I know. Youshould also wear mascara that really helps.

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Today im going out with this guy i like and i dont know what to wear hear are ideas from what i have (Where going to the mall)
Abercombie skirt thats white and says abercombie on the back with blue top short sleeve.
Green Capris with a brown shirt shirt logo(One bad'69 with a car on it looks pretty cool)
A pink straped holter to with capris that have a pink like stiching
Or blue jean pants with one of those shirts
thznk yall

um i like the green capris with the brwon shirt. it seems like something i'de wear.

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umm i know i prolly sound really dumb, but what is grinding?!? please answer! ill rate high

LOL. ok grinding is when a girl rubs her butt against a boys penise.

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what are ANY other signs of pregnancy other then sore boobs, and morning sickness???

Theres mood changes. Craving for weird mixtures of food, Fatigue, Swell feet, um and thats al i know.

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is there anyway u can naturally make ur breast bigger with out stuffin a bra?

i rate high

well i don't really thnk there is but maybe what you eat and certain excercies can do that.

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next year im going to a new school..high school and ima gonna be a freshman..all of my friends at my old school think im cute but im like thanks..i dont know that many people in high school so what can i do to make friends easily?

xO Cierra

Well this is what i do and you can do it to. It's so easy that everyone can do it. Just start up convo's with kids in your class or in your school. Soon enough you'll have aa friend.Be nice as well. The only reason i know alot of kids in my school was because i wasn't afried to talk to new people. An you shouldn't be either.

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So my best friend had this crazy idea... she wants me and her boyfriend and her to do like sexual things... i was all for it before but now im thinking twice... i don't have a boyfriend so i have no one holding me back... but im looking fo someone and idk if i should be doing this... i told her ealier i would do anything with them exept having sex... cause im waiting till i get married to have sex... but idk if im going to find that somone and im soo condused... she is my best friend and i love her to death... and this is something we could do together and me and her have been kinda fading... but im scared im going to regret it and me and her are going to have problems and i love her...

Confused and lonely girl

ok..... if you, her boyfriend, and her start doing sexual things together then your friendship will totaly be differnt. I mean how can you look at her the same knowing that you did a sexual thing together and her boyfriend what if he starts likeing you while yall are doing these sexual things. And worst of all... What if he tells his friends that he had a 3some and yall business gets around.You should really tell her no to this because if you, her boyfriend, and her start doing sexual things together you won't be just be best friends with her, you'll be friends with benefits think about it. And that will never improve your fading friendship.

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Alright here is my story.. My friends and my family do not like this kid i am going out with.. my little brother and some of my friends do like him.. but for the people who dont like him they dont have a good reason not to like him... they are racist and they cant see on how much i really like this kid...and i cant have him over for partys because my parents dont allow it and if my friends are having partys they can bring there boyfriends but im not allowed.. my boyfriend teachs my little brother to play football but just for him to do that i have to lie i have to tell my parents im going over lets say allisons house just for him to help my brother i dont no what to do PLEASE HELP ME

Racisim is so lame. I mean does the persons skin color really matter. It's whats inside that counts. Your family members and a few of your friends who don't like him are blind. It's 2005 you know i mean theres alot of interacial couples. Just forget about what your famly thinks because if you like him and he likes you then thats all that matters.

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Hi, my question is a little complicated, but here goes. I've lived with my boyfriend for 7months now. Because of where we live, I cannot let my 6 year old son go outside, and can't walk anywhere, like the corner store or anything like that. I have no driver's license so I can't drive where I need to go. I have to depend solely on him to even take my son to the park. My only other option is to move back to my home state, 1300 miles away. In my hometown, I have unpaid traffic tickets (over $900 worth), and I will more than likely go to jail and risk losing my son when I get there. what do I do? stay here and be miserable in this house 24 hours a day, or go back and risk a few days in jail? I love my boyfriend very much, but he refuses to move out of this place, and I can't keep seeing my son suffer. Please help me decide!!

ok let me give it to you like this. Save yo money so you can pay the $900. i mean come on your miserable, your sons miserbale and your boyfriend refuses to move. The only way i see fit is to move back to your home town and end your relationship with him because obviously he doesn't care much about you cause if he did he wouldn't mind movin. That's love for ya.

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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait?

go by your wishes and wait. Cause as soon as you put out he's gonna probaly dump you.if he doesn't understand that no means no then dump his ass. Don't let him force you out of your beliefs becausee he's always horny.

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Is it normal to have a late period?..like a 2 week-late period?Also,anyone have websites that would answer my questions please?

yea it is normal and no i don't have a website.

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Well there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. He even broke up with his girlfriend for me. He always tells me about how much he loves me and everything. He is .perfect.!, but there is one problem..AGE. His mom won't let him date me bcause he could go to jail. Some of his friends have been giving him hell about it too. Others say we should hookup. His best friend is trying to tell him he wont go to jail. I really love him, what should i do!?

well it really depends on how old he is.If he's 19 and your like 13 or 14 then he could go to jail. But if your 16 and he's 19 theres nothing wrong with that. Age is nothin but a number but in the eyes of the law it isn't. If you know that you having an emotional and physical relationship with him can get him in jail then you should just be friends with him.

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is being bi-polar bad? because i saw a question that was asked on here about the symptoms.. and i have like all of them..? am i supposed to do something about it or something?

yes you should go to a doctor and see if you really hae it. If you feel you have it get medical help anad get treated.

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I have the bestest friends in the world. but i cant help but feel left out sometimes. i know im just been stupid half the time but it really bugs me. I know that having 3 best friends will always be hard but its so awful been left out. Like they will sleep at each others house etc. I told my friends about this and my other friend said sorry i just feel more close to her than i do to you. and that just made me upset becuase i have known them both longer than they have known each other. So i dont know what to do, they will think im trying to split them up or something which im not! so what can i do because i have already told them but they just carry on. thanks
xxxx

if you've told them that you feel left out and they act like it's no big deal then there not really being good friends to you. I mean it's rude to invite one friend to sleep over and not invite the other that's all i'm saying. But if they act closer to one another then they do to you then they must not be considering you as a best friend. Why don't you make new friends who won't leave you out of the loop.

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wow, I don't really know what category to put this under, so I guess it works under friendship.. kinda. Anyway, I started cutting, I don't know why but I did. I don't want to, but it's really addicting.. 0.o so it's hard for me to stop. Only on of my friends knows and I just met him and I like him alot.. he cuts to, so I feel conferdable talking to him about this.. he doesn't do it so much anymore but I wonder if he is worried about me, I know my step brother is.. he knows to. Well he doesn't really know he just thinks I do it and he knows that I have a BiG possibatly of doing it.
When I look at my scares.. I cry, and I think 'is this really who I am?? is this really me??' cause I don't seem like this kinda girl who would do this.. I am real caring and nice and funny.. so I don't get it.. how do I stop.. do you have anything to tell me about what I wrote? just anything, please.. I wana stop.
--Thanks.--
--I rate all 5s--

Cutting kills if you lofe your self then tyou'll stop.thats all i can say

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I like this guy. ill call him "carl". and i already went out with him but people told me that he cheated on me so i broke up with him. and after that i got really sad cuz i still loved him. so i called him a week later and we talked for an hour. and we became friends again which made me happy. then he asked my friend if he should ask me back out and she said yes so i thought he was gonna. then one of my friends told me she likes "carl". so i got really sad. then he asked her out and now they are going out. but she told me before he asked her out that they made out a little. i was gonna cry. and i REALLY REALLY want him back. what should i do? i rate good

Well I think you should tell him you still have feelings for him. And your friend who's goig out with "Carl" isn't really a good one because girl rule states, that a friend cannot date a friends ex.Because that's just wrong and since she knew you still liked him @@. Anyways you should diffintily tell him. and i think that maybe he still has feelings for you and if you two do get back togeher drop that friend who dated him because she shouldn't have been looking at your ex like that.

*Hoped I helped*

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