i like this guy and he kinda likes me but all my friends say hes really bad and they call him pot head and stuff like that. but i dont think hes bad at all. i kissed him at the movies and every one was like eww and stuff like that. but i really like him. what do i do? thanks.
dont worry about what other people think...its not them likeing him or wanting to be with him and its not them who kissed him so tell them to get a life and stay outta your buissness.
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what do you do when your semi addicted to See's chocolate and cant stop eating it? any breaking the habit tips?
they say that chocolate makes you feel the same way you feel when your in love...thats what i heard on a movie once...who knows if its true or not cause i dont eat chocolate that much so...to break the habit just quit buying it and eating it...find something else you love to eat.
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My friend Jessica made the basket ball team. And lately she has been acting really mean and shes thinks she owns the whole school and it bugs me and she yells at me in the hole and stuff and I have tolder that shes acting mean but all she said was no I'm no but I really dont know what to do
ask her to sit down with you and tell her how you feel and that she needs to stop being so mean or shes gonna lose you as a friend and if she doesnt care about loseing you as a friend then she wasnt a good friend to you anyways...
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Whenever I eat something in front of my boyfriend, I get all embaressed. I guess its because Im afraid I'll get food on my lips or face or something like that, so I only take a bite when he's looking away. Its so weird - I dont even notice Im doing it until he says something to me. I feel stupid eating when he's staring right at me tho. Does anyone have any suggrestions for what I can do to fix this ? Thanks a million.
i hate eating in front of people...it doesnt matter who they are or anything...its normal...i think most people are like that anyways and what i do about it is either not eat infront of someone or just eat i mean everyones gotta eat and everyone in the world eats so its normal. I would just not worry about it.
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I really like this guy and I am going to tell him I like him. What is a good way to tell him? I want to "seduce" him with my words (lol). Thanks!
just go up to him and tell him that you have feelings for him and that you have had them for a while ever sence you met him and you could also say that when you first saw and or met him that you forgot to breath...and your heart stoped...or something sweet like that.
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i am with a good man but i cant help the feeling that he is holding me back from something greater and i have been curious about other men what they treat their women like n such thoughts
if your not all that happy in your relationship then tell him that you want to take a break and see whats out there...if that doesnt help you then stick with him...but most of the time people need to see whats out there in the world...so i hope this may have helped you somehow.
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13/f. I have this friend. We've been friends for two years already. Well, he's nice a lot. We make jokes and all. But other times he makes me upset. He talks badly about my friends. He also always comments on my profile on AIM. He tells me somehow how I'm wrong in what I put, or how it's dumb. He promises time and time again to keep my crushes a secret, but tells them anyway. Half of our grade finds out and soon enough I'm a laughing stock. I no longer tell him but sometimes when he's nice I do it anyway. In person he's got a really great personality. We used to date in 6th grade and he was the sweetest guy. When we broke up he talked about all the things I didn't do perfectly when we were going out. He makes me upset basically just online. So what do I do?
if i were you...i would tell him to screw off...i mean if you cant trust him with what you tell him then he isnt a good friend at all and i would just not talk to him if hes gonna go around telling everyone everything you tell him...just tell him stright up that if you cant tell him things without him going and telling the world then hes gonna lose you as a friend...well thats my opinion...i hope i helped
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me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) and we have known each other since he was 15! he is 19 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me??
if you and him have been dateing that long then you should just tell your parents how old he is,...and let them see how much yall care about eachother and then they might let yall stay together...its not good really lieing to anyone...but i know where your comeing from...when you really like a guy and hes a lil bit older then you...and you really wanna be with him...you gotta do something...i've did that once actually...and my parents just sat down with the guy and talked to him...asked him if he really truely cared about me and if he wouldnt hurt me and he said that he wouldnt and that he really cared about me and my parents let us be together....and age doesnt matter all that much besides to like the cops and everything...and back in the day you could date people who were 10 years older then you but now...you cant...but things change,...just talk to your parents about it thats what i would do...i hope i helped!
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What do you think is the best way to figure out if a guy likes you? Lets say....you think there is a pretty high chance he does....so what do you think?
ps-i rate anyone who tries to answer this question! youre making my day by just helping me out on this!
how you can tell if a guy likes you is if he flirts with you...stares at you...smiles at you whenever you look at him and if that doesnt help you out any then you could try asking him, or get one of your friends to ask him...it doesnt make you look stupid if you get one of your friends to ask him...it would actually save you from makeing yourself feel stupid...if you know what i mean...like if you ask him and he says no then you might feel stupid...so it really depends on what you would wanna do...eith ask him yourself or get a friend to ask him for you. I hope i helped!
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okay.. i like two guys.. we'll call them ricky and nate.. okay.. well.. i went out with ricky and me and him were really close.. okay.. well.. then he went out with my friend.. and then they broke up! well.. me and him have been talking lately and we like each other again.. but him and mai friend who he went out with are really close.. and she says theyre going back out.. but he says theyre not.. but she does lie a lot!! so.. i dont know what to do about that.. and then there is this other guy.. nate.. and me and his "ex" girlfriend have hated each other since 7th grade.. well yeah.. i didnt know they were going out until i was in the hall and he was walking with his arm around me and she bumped me and was like.. "omg.. you slut! you kno im going out with him!!" and he was like.. "omg?? were not going out???" but he said it to her face.. so i dont think he was lying.. but i dont know!! all her and my mutual friends have told me that they are and all of his friends have told mw theyre not.. so.. i like two guys. but im not sure if they have girlfriends.. and dont say to just ask around or ask them.. bacause im getting different nswers from everyone!!!!
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hey...it seems like their playing games with you...maybe the one guys ex g/f is just jealous and if he told her to her face in front of you that they were'nt dateing then believe him...most guys would tell the girl that they are not dateing to their face if they really are...just talk to the guys and tell them to be honest and try to pick out of the both of them on which guy you want to be with more...who would treat you right, someone you can trust and talk to about your problems...thats what i would do....i hope i helped
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I put a question like this on here a few days ago, but I'll go over whats going on again.
My friend and I both liked a guy, then I backed off so she could have him, then she didn't want a bf. So I stepped up and now I like him and he likes me and outa no where she says she likes him again, so I told her I liked him too and now shes all wierd about it. I told her I didn't want a bf though, and now me and Andy (the guy) have been hanging out alot and I really like him, and when I come home from our dates I hear "Amanda really likes Andy, what are you doing?" and stupid stuff like that. What the hell am I supposed to do? I mean I can't control my feelings, and she had her chance with him. And I'm not going to date him right now anyways b/c I want to get to know him...so people are making it into a lot bigger deal than it is...what do I do?
it seems like your friend wants to have her cake and eat it to...like thats how it was with me and my Ex best friend...she had a boyfriend who she loved and he loved her although she wanted to have every guy and like she wanted to put her name on all of them...and if i liked someone she would say she liked them knowing that she had a boyfriend and i was single and unhappy...it seems to me like your friend doesnt care if your happy...and she has the same name as your friend "Amanda" but anyways just talk to her and tell her that she cant have her cake and eat it to...and that she should be a friend to you and want you to be happy...and that she cant say she likes someone one day and then find out you had a better chance with him then she did and then go off and get mad at you for likeing him when she said she didnt then changed her mind...tell her stright up that you like him and he likes you and if she cant be happy for you then shes not a true friend...this guy could be the love of your life or even someone who you may marry someday so just talk to her and tell her how you feel.
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Before I begin I want to say that I am not complaining, I absolutely love my mom and my life.
So my problem is my mom's yelling. It's almost like she feels that she cannot get anything across to my siblings and I unless she yells. Sometimes she is even too busy yelled that she doesn't realize that we have already done the things she's asked us to do. I've tried talking to her about it several times. My younger sister once told her that sometimes she doesn't listen to my mom because of her shouting at us all the time. Talking to her never works. I can understand that she is very stressed out at times and wants to come home without any trouble. But instead of asking us to do something, she'll say something like “GET OFF THE TV/COMPUTER AND CLEAN THE GAME ROOM NOW!!!” I'm even embarrassed by it at times because she does it while we have friends over also. I don't think she's simply asked us to do anything in a year.
I want to know if anyone ones anyway I can get through to her. And once again, the talking about to her does not work. I can't even talk to her about anything any more. It feels as if she just does not like having us around even though I know it's not true.
My parents are divorced so it's not like he can help. He lives in Iowa while we live in Texas.
if i were you i would write her a letter or something...something meaningful...tell her how you feel and that you love her but all the yelling is really buging you and that she doesnt have to yell at you all the time...tell her that if she cares about you then to try to stop yelling so much...and another way is to do something around the house that will surprize her...like whenever she goes to work let her come home to a Clean house or make dinner for her or do something nice for her...thats what i would do.
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Dear People,
I have this little problem. See, I like this guy but he has a girlfriend. I know that there's definatly something between us because he came to my house the other day and we totally kissed!! (YaY!) But see, his girlfriend & me are not the BEST of friends, but we are friends. I feel kinda weird because I know that its wrong but WHO CARES! HaHa.. anyways! I wanna tell him that I like him but I know he'll never leave his girlfriend. Hmm.. What would you do??
Thax,
Stephanie
if i were you...i would just leave him alone...if he trys to kiss you again back away from him...its very wrong to mess with someones boyfriend...what would you do if your boyfriend was cheating on you behind your back?....not trying to be mean but if i were you i would think about that...
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I recently lost my best friend ever... for the stupidest reason... well she didnt tell the whoel reason someone else did but she doesnt know that i know. She acts as if i messed it up but it was really all a set up... to drop me like a can of beans. She was only my friend beause she pittied me. But it just doesnt seem right. I mean we had just had the best time ever shopping. And then bam its all over. I dont know if it was peer pressure or if he really did jsut plan on dropping me. I cant get over it. i have tried 2 hard but it is really hard.
help
hey, i just went through something like that...see i have this friend who was my BEST friend and she she turned around and backstabbed me for no reason at all...that was just the first time, and i tried so hard in trying to be her friend again and we became friends again and it made me sooooooo happy that i had my best friend back...but then a week later she stoped being my friend again...things like this happen their called backstabbers...i mean maybe you to will be friends again but what i did about it was just forgot about her and made new friends...i hope this may help you out somehow.
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one of my really good friends, we'll call her leah, and she is being a b*tch lately i told her who i have liked for a year (well call him bob) over the summer and i asked leah if she liked him and she said no. okay since october shes been flirting wtih bob like crazy right in front of me so she can make me jealous, but i dont have the courage to flirt with bob ( and im really shy) but right now were in a fight and she keeps on flirting with him even more so she can make me jelous. what should i do
tell your friend that shes backstabbing you by flirting with a guy you like and that she needs to back off and leave him alone and go find her someone else...if you told her you liked him and she knew you liked him but was still flirting with him then tell her how you feel...tell her its not right that she knew you liked "Bob" and then she went off flirting with him and if that doesnt work then just get up the courage to talk to "Bob" yourself.
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ok-i met this guy-i rlly liked him-alot-then one day i gave him my number-but the thing is i only saw him when my little brother had baseball games cuz our little brothers were on the same team-well ok i could kinda tell he liked me too-then one day he told me he liked me-but then i found out that he had a g/f-he is also 2 years older then me and lives like 15 min away(like in another town)-ok well after they broke up-i thought he was gonna ask me out-one nite i went to see him andhis band play-and then later that nite when he took me and my friend home he said he was gonna kiss me when he dropped us off-but didnt cuz he didnt think i would-then later on her went threw 2 more g/f's and still hadnt asked me out-then i finaly asked him wut was up-he said we went to diff schools and it would be rlly hard to see eachother now that our brothers didnt play anymore-but he rlly did like me--plz-wut can i do-i rlly like him-but i dont think he thinks its worth a shott-wut do i do?
tell him that you like him and everything and that if he wants to be with you then he needs to stop playing games...just tell him like it is.
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I have a friend. We've been bestfriends for 3 years now. Well lately, we haven't been talking to eachother. She found some new friends, as have I. But I mean, once in a while, we'll talk. But, she's become this total slut. Seriously. She'll makeout with any guy (no matter the age). Plus she cheats on her boyfriend. She also tells everyone that she's gotten drunk/high/fingered/given a blowjob/given a handjob/had sex. Which is so not ture! But everyone at school is thinking she's a whore. I know she doesn't do it. But I have a feeling that she might, someday. She's only 12. But, she does all these crazy things with boys. No one likes her anymore.
just talk to her about it...shes way to young to be doing anything like that shes not even 13 ...12 is such a young age to be even talking about any of that...tell her your thoughts about it and tell her that its makeing her have a bad R.E.P...and that she might end up dead somewhere if she is doing any of that stuff and with her being only 12 let he know how bad she is or could be screwing up her life!...shes your friend and you should be a friend to her and help her get through what shes going to tell her to talk to you about it and ask her why is she doing the things that shes doing and tell her that your not trying to be mean to her about anything but maybe those new people shes hanging out with are not good enough for her to be hanging out with them because they are getting her into bad stuff and tell her that its VERY VERY VERY BAD!!!!!!!....ask her what happened to the person she use to be...and if it doesnt work talking to her about it then talk to her parents about it and tell them whats going on and maybe they can either get her help or talk to her about it.
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omg , ok . hi , ok im 14yrs. old and i hav a frend whos 18 named mike . ok he's not in school nemoa and he graduated and he's goin to miami tomorow and invited me to go and a few othr ppl , but im so scared cuz what if i get caught skipping and if my parents find out . i dono what to do . it sounds so much fun tho . help!!!!!
if your parents found out you were going somewhere with a 18 year old guy and you being 14 they would prob kill u and the dude...well it actually depends on if your parents are mean or protective i guess, if i were you i wouldnt do it if i knew there was a posibility i could get caught...if you decide to go...then be careful...and be sure u really know this 18 year old guy cause alot of guys try to get girls to have sex with them and stuff like that so just be careful!
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thairs this girl i like and all but shes got some1 els and i dont know what to do because shes the grates thing in the world but she dosent whant to be with me anymore if i could get her back i would treat her like a queen but i dont know how to get her back.
well ill just get to my question
how can i get her back or how can i show her that i still love her more than any1 els can?
i've answered questions like this befor and i can answer this one, ok...i dont really know what to tell you about how you could get her back besides just being there for her, be a friend to her, you dont have to be in a relationship with someone just so you can love her, all i can really tell you is if it were me who was going through what your going through i would just give her time...maybe this new guy shes been talking to makes her happy...maybe she has to see whats out there, she prob just wants to be friends with you and you have to be friends befor getting into a serious relationship with someone because if you date someone with out hardly know them then it wont work out very well if i were you i would move on try to see whats out there you know...you cant sit around and wate for someone to jump back into your life when it may or may not happen...maybe the guy shes been talking to she really likes but its hard for her to talk to you about it because you are a friend to her but she just wants yall to be friends...thats the best advice i can give you...just move on u know...see whats out there...thanks for asking me a ? i hope i helped...ask me another sometime if you would like...bye.
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I guess the best way to describe how I need advice is to briefly explain my situation.
I met this guy on Saturday Nite. The moment I saw him, I was stuck with a still focus. He looked back and forth, but it wasnt until his friend pointed out to him that I was looking over.
His friend tapped me on the shoulder and said that my friend is interested in you, but scared in approaching you. Nervous, well I guess we both were.
I walked over and introduced myself very bluntly, but friendly, because I thought that it was now or never. I shook his hand, and we briefly chatted, but the nervousness kept blocking both of us in having a normal conversation.
about 1 hour later, I walked back over to him and I gave him my mobile phone, and said 'here can i have your number'? He said yes, and put it in.
He offered to drive me home, as I was not driving that night. I was about to say yes, but I walked over to my friends, and asked them for advice. 2 of them said to say no, because unless you want to have sex tonight, dont go. I didnt go, because I never sleep with someone just for sex. Its more a need to trust first, then sex second.
I refused and said I would call him. He said ok.
I called him the next day, being sunday, and he invited me over for a movie at his place. I made it there at about 9pm. We spoke briefly, but went straight into the movie. It was probable the wrong movie to watch because it was a little erotic. I didnt choose this because of the erotic level, but rather because it had a story to it as well, and it was amazing.
after the movie, we spoke about out past a bit, about our interests as so on. He shared a lot of information, and I listened open minded. Then he asked me about my past. I was hesitant at first, but only because every other person I have met on a previous time has not wanted to see me again based on my past. No I havent murdered anyone, but I have been through a lot with my parental upbringing, meaning my parents subjected me to quite a vast amount of emotional torture. I never really have gotten over it, but everyday I try. I am only 25 but all the pain stopped at approx. 21. but the last 4 years have been very hard because emotionally and spiritually I have been very confused, very lost, and lonely due to it all.
Anyway, I told him that I didnt want to tell him yet, because of people running away due to the emotionally deepness of it all. He still wanted to know, and he put his head on my lap and started to stoke my knee, saying its ok, im not going anywhere. Please tell me. So i did. Not all, but bits and pieces. He still layed on my lap, but he grew more and more speechless and I became more and more confused. He said that although its a lot of information, its stuff people usually never tell people. I said well you persisted in asking me, I wasnt going to tell you, but I did only because you asked.
It was now 3am Monday Morning. I didnt want to drive home, because it was 35 minutes drive, and I said, if i slept here on the couch would you be offended. he said, come and sleep on my bed, and we can just cuddle, and nothing more, i promise.
I said ok. I walked into his room, and he kissed me, I stopped and looked at him, but the kiss was so passionate that I kissed him back. We didnt have sex, he didnt even offer. but what i did was fall asleep next to him, holding his hand.
I woke up, needed to leave, and said I have to go, around 7:30am this was. He said, kiss me, I did, and it was so different, because I have never felt this way. It wasnt love, I know, but it wasnt Lust either, It just felt really nice to be held by someone again. It was a long time since this had happened.
I left, and he walked me to my car. I opened my window, and he kissed me through the car window goodbye.
I drove off confused So Very Confused. Because It was the first time I had ever felt this feeling inside, but I was feeling very weird. He is 21 by the way.
I got home, got dressed, and headed off to work. I took my mobile with me, but because I had not much sleep, and this emotional feeling that was inside me exploding inside me, made me not keep my mind on my job all monday. I texted him later in the day, and I said that I had never felt this way before, and I dont want to scare you off, but am i moving too fast in saying that I feel something with you, something so powerful, something so profound and I cant explain it. He said no. You are not moving fast at all. Its ok.
I left that phone call thinking that this might be the one. and yes it was only the second day, but my heart was powerfully moved and my emotional connection with him was rapidly moving to climax. I wasnt sure of it all.
Tuesday came, and I rang him that night and offered him to come to meditation class with me. I said that its not hard to learn, and I would really love for you to come. I said think about it and please let me know either way. The class was on Wednesday Night at 7:30pm. He kept referring the whole meditation thing as 'HIPPY STUFF'. But I tried to reassure him that it wasnt.
Wednesday came, I didnt hear anything all day, so I turned on my phone, and texted him at 6:30pm. I said that I am off to Meditation class soon, and are you still coming. He first texted me and said, that you need to slow down a bit, cos im getting freaked out. I was ok, sure sorry I will.
he texted me back and said I am sorry, I am up having dinner with a mate. would you like to come and join us. I replied and said but im not dressed, and im in my work clothes. he said its ok. so i did.
I showed up, and we had dinner. he wasnt as talkative as usual, but I mean, we had been in contact non-stop, well actually I had been, not him, for the past 4 days. But remember he said I wasnt moving too fast. So i interpreted this as ok, keep moving at the current speed, its fine.
I spoke more to his mate and his mate was 15ish years older than him. We all walked to a quiet bar and sat and talked. I drant water because I didnt feel like alcohol. He didnt also. he sat next to me, and we hardly spoke. I guess I was nervous being with him like this, because the more I saw him, the more I grew closer to him. I didnt think it was love, but it sure felt like it.
I spent most of the nite on my mobile phone, texting people, because I was very nervous, and I didnt want to come on too strong, and I didnt want to freak him off. I liked him too much and didnt want to loose him to something so simple as my egarness.
he told me that i should put the phone down, but before i did, I texted him and said "do you know you are so sexy tonight"
he replied saying "haha. I know"
I thought nothing of the comment, and started talking about other things. then a friend from work came in and saw me. I was all nervous, i dont know why, but she walked past and said hi.
she sat over to my left on another lounge with 3 other girls. He was looking over at these people, and lots of others that walked past him. it was a little sad to watch his eyes roll all over them.
then suddenly he put his arm around me and yelled really loud, SO EVERYONE KNOWS NOW! ITS NO LONGER A SECRET. it embarrised me so much, but i didnt hate him, i just grew more silent. His friend told him to stop it, because he was embarrising me.
What confused me was the fact that one minute he is laying on my lap, begging me to tell him my past, stoking my knee. sleeping together, holding his hand. kissing him. kissing me goodbye through the car window. telling me i am not moving fast, and then i am, and that i am scaring him off. then inviting me out to dinner, and not talking to me much, and then putting his arms around me and speaking loudly. I didnt know what messages he was sending me, and it was making me emotionally confused.
We finished the night off, walking along the beach, the 3 of us, and then heading to a bar, where i played a game of pool with his mate. It was an all in all good nite, except he was silent, and he didnt say goodbye to me, but his friend said bye instead. his friend offered me a concert ticket to join the two of them on Monday night. I accepted.
He didnt say goodbye, and I was confused further. I guess I knew something had happened. but what?
I texted him in the morning, and said thank your for the night, and that I enjoyed myself quite a bit. by the way, we had already organised another date just the two of us, a few days earlier. on friday nite to have dinner somewhere.
anyway i texted him saying that i had a great night and that i enjoyed myself. I switched off my phone, and went to work, and didnt switch it back on, because i couldnt take any distractions today due to heavy work load.
I got home at 6:30pm, turned it on, and recieved a text back from his mate and him. his mate said that he got the tickets to the concert, 2nd row. but he texted me saying that I made him out to be a complete slut last night, and that i embarrised him. well I was confused again, but I was so sad to be confronted like that, so i texted him right back, and said I was on my way to talk to you to explain myself properly. He texted me back saying that he would rather speak about it on friday night. tonight was thursday. I said fine, ok, no worries, but also said sorry for any problems I may have caused.
I went over a friends house that evening, and he was online on the dating website I joined. although we didnt meet through this site, because it was local, we met at a bar. I messaged him and said hey, its me.
he messaged me back 10 minutes later. and he wrote that we could never have a relationship due to what happened last night and that because you hinted to me that you want a full on relationship, and that i dont. He said just because of this comment it doesnt mean that I want to f#%k around, but rather I cant see myself with you now. I am only 21.
I messaged him back, trying to get an explaination for the comment. he said join me in a private message chat room. i did.
he said that because of all of the shit last nite, i cant see myself with you long term. you are ready for a relationship and i am not. his profile on the website also states that he is after a relationship too. so again i was confused.
I started to cry and my friend i was with sitting next to me, was very confused, as to why i was getting so attached so soon to someone i barely knew.
we chatted for approx. 1 hour. and i poored so much emotion out that night, he didnt speak at all. I said all what i have told you, that the mixed messages, moving too fast then im not, so on. and he said, that why are you like this. any normal person would have told you to f#@k off by now, because you are freaking me out. then i was so sad, for that comment, i said i was hurt, my heart was crushed, and so on. [I can still feel the pain right now]. I said that i am not sure if i can be just friends because all i want to do is grab you kiss you and hold you. I feel something so profoundly impactfully stong and powerful, and why you dont see this, is beyond me. I said that if we were to sustain a friendship, after this big week, I would have to bottle all my feelings for you, and put a lid on them all. and try to be just friends. but i said it would be hard.
and then he said very little, but he said he wants to be friends. more than ever. but I was too sad to make a decision that night. he said he had to go to sleep for work the next day.
I couldnt sleep all night, because of the issues looming in my mind. i woke up every 1 hour tossing and turning. I woke up at 6:30am, and texted him one last time being Friday, the day we are to go out for a date. I said i was sorry for last night, sorry for going all emotionally distraught, so on. and I would like to come over tonight and speak to you in person, if that is to say goodbye, or to stay friends, i dont want to do it on the internet or the phone, i need to speak to you face to face.
I did ring his friend and say that I am shocked. that has he spoken to him? and he said no. I told him briefly, that I was feeling so connected to him, and I was afraid that i stuffed it all up, that i destroyed it all, because i moved fast. he said i did move too fast, but there is something you must know about this guy you are in love with. he is a very touchy feelie person. he did the exact same thing to another person 2 months ago. and the same reaction you are having happened. I said that have i blown my chances, and he said i am not sure, but i will talk to him, and say that you are deeply regreting loosing him as a friend. I said thanks. I also said that do you think that i should give the concert a miss because I might be moving again too fast too soon. seeing too much, and he may need time to settle down. cool down so to speak.
he said ill get back to you after i speak to him today.
which brings me to now. writing this.
the advice i am after is:
was i too fast.
am i too emotionally deep
is there something wrong with me
did i do things wrong.
why did i get attached so emotionally to this person
and what was the feeling in my body, if it wasnt love and wasnt lust.
i dont know if its me, but it sure feels like hell today. I am awaiting his return message but i am doubting he will message me and let me speak to him tonight.
ps: sorry my story is so long. i needed to set the story right so you could understand better.
thank you for reading it.
ok...for one i dont think you were moveing to fast...maybe he was just scared to get to close to someone, him being 21 he says he doenst want a relationship with you but more then likely he does he see's how much your growing on him and i guess he thinks he will get hurt...maybe he just doesnt think that he can get close to someone and no your not emotionally to deep, what you were feeling is something normal alot of girls feel like that when they meet someone but i think its just a sign telling you that you like this guy...cause whenever i got that feeling it made me feel like i liked him and if i dont have that feeling then i think theres something wrong...its normal, maybe the guy just needs time...if not time maybe you and him need to be friends befor getting into a big relationship and get to know eachother first befor dateing...because if you date with out hardly knowing the person and withoout being friends first then the relationship could get ruined. i hope you can take my advice and use it, you got so attracted to him because he seemed to like you and you liked him back and it made you feel special that you had found someone who could possibly be the kindof guy you could marry but you just gotta wate it out and think about things and give him time to think...as a saying goes..."If you love someone and or like someone, let them go, if they come back it was ment to be but if they dont come back then it never was ment to be" think about that and maybe it will help you out a little bit...if you need anything else feel free to ask me...have a nice day and i hope everything works out ok.
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