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omg , ok . hi , ok im 14yrs. old and i hav a frend whos 18 named mike . ok he's not in school nemoa and he graduated and he's goin to miami tomorow and invited me to go and a few othr ppl , but im so scared cuz what if i get caught skipping and if my parents find out . i dono what to do . it sounds so much fun tho . help!!!!!
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if your parents found out you were going somewhere with a 18 year old guy and you being 14 they would prob kill u and the dude...well it actually depends on if your parents are mean or protective i guess, if i were you i wouldnt do it if i knew there was a posibility i could get caught...if you decide to go...then be careful...and be sure u really know this 18 year old guy cause alot of guys try to get girls to have sex with them and stuff like that so just be careful!
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Look, don't skip school. You OBVIOUSLY need it.
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just go!
its better then going to school
you might get caught
but at least you had fun:)
and u will rpob neva forget it
so goo and dotn worry until u get bac then
that the time to worry
Nicky
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Hey, rape is always fun. I've heard childbirth is a blast as well.
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Oh, I can only imagine! Miami! Beautiful city! So much fun! Right? Well, think of it this way, in that day of school, you could miss something things to learn that could help you the rest of your life. If your parents find out, they may never trust you agian, and probably ban you from ever seeing Mike agian, which you don't want. Just pass it up, you'll have more chances to hang out with Mike, that won't get you in trouble with your parents.
AskMegan
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I wouldnt do it..Id stick to the guys your own age..And if you want to hang out with this guy so bad call him and make plans with him to do something where you live..not in miami! well hope you make the right choice..and hope i helped..rate me =)
xoxoxo
mandah
xoxoxo
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If i were you i wouldn't go. He is a lot older than you, and you should try and stick with some friensd who are in your age group. You guys could make a plan that is close to your home where you know ppl.
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DO you know this dude enough that if you get caught you wont mind? If your parents find out that you skip school and went some where with an 18 year old, what do you is going to happen? But if you really want to go, makesure your back when you usally get home.
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My gut reaction is to say that this sounds like a bad idea, however, I will make a suggestion to you that should be helpful for any decision you need to make.
You must always look at the worse case scenario. Let's assume that nothing big and horrific happens (like getting into an accident or getting arrested). What are the consequences of getting caught? Are you already on shaky ground at home? Do you have trust built with your parents that would be broken and extremely hard to get back? How about school - if you get suspended for skipping how will that effect your grades or participation in any extracurricular activities that you might participate in?
You are a young adult and you need to be really clear on the consequences and repercussions of your actions. Once you've thought it out, then you can make a decision. But, if you decide to take a risk and it ultimately backfires on you, you already know what to expect and you will have to take responsibility.
Now for a little lecturing: I know it sounds like fun, but trust me there will be lots of opportunities for you to have fun within parameters that your parents approve of. And once you are old enough to be out on your own, (which I know seems like a hundred years from now but it's really not that far off) then you can pick up and go on road trips to your hearts content.
If you do decide to go, please be careful and be safe. Best of luck to you.
Kind wishes,
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hey miami.
ask myself this do you know him that much to go out with him, skip school and get in trouple if yuor parents catch you?? see the school calls your parents if you dont show up....they call to make sure that you didnt get kidnapped or something..and plus this guy is 18 and your 14 what if something happens..... you know what i mean. dont do it.. hope you choose right!!
~maddy
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They say the only regrets one has in life are the things they didn't do. Do you want to look back on your teenage years (when your older, of course) and think "Man, Miami would have been a blast. If only I had not have been such an incredible pussy and just gone," and be filled with a sense of incompleteness? And if your parents said anything to you, you could always just claim Mike kidnapped you. And just stick with that story no matter what.
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DONT DO IT! although this is probably not what u wnat to hear, if u go your going to regret it so much ..trust me on this one..any more questions feel free to ask...xoxo
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wow i have ahad alot of the same issues. i always figure that its better to be bored and free then have about 1 day of fun and locked up. i wouldnt suggest doing it but if you want to live on the wild side, go ahead
hope i helped
xoxo
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