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Hey there (: I'm Bryttnii ♥ I'm a Senior. I'm 17 and I seem to have been through a lot in my seventeen years. I love giving advice & recieving advice. I'm here to give you my honest opinion & responses to your questions. I don't give the answers you want to hear, I give the answers you need to hear. I've had an advice column since I was 14. But of course, I made a new one that I stay on constantly! I take Cosmetology in school and I love it. I get my Cosmetology license in 9 months. I'd like to go to college for Criminal Justice and be a Detective ;] Speak to me about anything.




Some things I love are: Music, Writing, Cosmetology, Photography, Reading, Secondhand Serenade, The Beach, Roller Coasters, Singing, Scrapbooking, Tanning, Flowers, My teacup Yorkshire Terrior named Daisy, and the wonderful gift of Love.




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i shaved off half of my eyebrows (don't ask why) how long will it take for them to grow completly back?

Depending on your hair growth, normally about 3-4 weeks. They will start coming in & whatever you do don't pluck them or anything while their growing back in! That will just make it worse. While they are growing, they have eyebrow pencils similar to eyeliner that you can use to pretty much fill in all of the emptiness to your eyebrows. I hope this helped & good luck!

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I am a very tall girl so i like to avoid wearing heels. I am also very into fashion and i find it hard to keep up without wearing heels.What are suggestions of any fashionable outfits i can waer with fashoinable flats?
pictures would be nice...or detailed descriptions
Thank you very much
p.s all suggestions are welcome:-)

Flats are very fashionable with almost anything. Wearing a skirt with leggings & flats is really cute. Skinny jeans, a cute shirt, and flats is even cuter! If you have one of those shirts that are really long like dresses kind of, put some leggings on under it & rock some flats :] I think flats are cute with anything. Good luck!

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so u say u can make it tighten bak up && how is that??

By something called Kegel Excersizes.
When you pee, let it flow for a second then tighten up so your pee flow stops. The muscles that are used to make you stop peeing, are used to tighten up "down there." Once you stop your pee for a few seconds, let it flow again. Once you figure out how to use the muscles when your not using the bathroom, then you can do it all the time. Do it in sets of 10.

It really does work :]

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I have 3 dogs and they all have fleas. I dont know how to get the fleas out of my house. Everytime I treat all of my dogs, sure they dont have fleas on them anymore at the time then an hour later they have them again since theyre all over my upstairs part of my house. Somehow I dont have them downstairs anymore, but mainly upstairs. I dont allow any of my dogs upstairs at all right now and I keep every door up there closed. My younger dogs are 6 and 7 weeks old and they will soon be learning to walk up the steps and I dont want to have to make them stay downstairs. So I need to know if anyone has found something good that will make my home flea free so I dont have to bathe my dogs and puppies soo much just for relief. Need help as soon as possible!. Also need the help asap since I am now fostering animals in my home and dont want them going to their new homes with fleas on them.

UGH! I have the SAME problem myself. I have a 4 month old yorkshire terrior, and it is SO hard to get the fleas off of her. I've tried just about everything! But, they have this carpet powder that you sprinkle all over your carpet & furniture (cloth) and wait for a few hours & vacume it up. It's suppose to help kill the fleas in your house. But while that is taking place, sometime during the day give your dogs flea baths. Use flea & tick shampoo because it works really well, then put some kind of flea medicine on them. So far, I haven't seen her scratch or seen any fleas. But it is summertime & fleas live in dirt & if you keep them outside a lot, it's going to be hard to keep them off of your dogs. Good luck though!

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Can a guy really tell if a girl has how they say been around..How they say it "loose" during intercourse or anything??

If a guy is experienced & knows how to tell then yes. Normally, they know if your not a virgin by how easy it goes in. Also, it feels different to a guy when they put it in if it's looser instead of tighter. They can pretty much tell, however, if you are loose, there are ways to get tight again and the boy can never tell :]

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I have, after 10 months decided to get a tattoo for my best friend that passed away in october. I have decided to get a portrait of her on my back. I would like a quote or short lyrics to go underneath it instead of the dates she lived...anyone have any advice? I would like more positive and happy rather than sad. Thank you!

Well here are some quotes from songs & I'll put the song title next to it :]



"Never had I imagined. Living without your smile.
Feeling and knowing you hear me. It keeps me alive." - One Sweet Day ; Mariah Carey & Boys II Men.


"I feel you everywhere I go. I See your smile, I see your face. I hear you laughing in the rain. I still can't believe your gone." -Kenny Chesney ; Who You'd Be Today.


"And it's true that you've eached a better place.
Still I'd give the world to see your face. And be right here next to you." - Mariah Carey ; Bye Bye.


I hope this helps you out somewhat. My mom died three years ago and the song "One More Day With You - Diamond Rio" was played at her funeral.

Good luck! ♥


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I have a friend I work with who was raped as a child by family members. Now later in life she has her own family and children, but things from the past keep comeing up and it's very hard for her to deal with.It's affecting her relationship with her husband, both sexually and emotionally. She needs to know how she can talk to her husband about the rape so that she can cope with what has happened and try to move on with the future. Any help you have on this or sites where she could get advice on how to begin to talk about these issues would be very helpful.

thank you A worried friend

I was admitted into a hospital about two months ago for depression. I met a lot of wonderful people there including a lot of rape victims. While I was there, I learned from peoples experiences how hard it is to cope with being raped even if it happened years and years ago. My advice to your friend would be to just sit down with her husband and tell him everything. The key to a healthy marriage is honesty and he probably doesn't have a clue to why their sexual lives are suffering. If she talks to him about it, I guarentee he would be a lot more understanding & try to help her & be there for her as much as possible. I don't know if she's ever been to any kind of counsling, but I do recommend her to TRY a support group for rape victims. You don't have to jump right in and tell everything right away. It does take time to feel open and discuss your experiece with strangers, but in the end it REALLY does help. It's nice to meet and talk to people that have been through what you have & it's always good to know your not alone. So please encourage her to do this. Maybe she don't go right away, but just inform her that talking to people and sharing your personal stories does help cope with it. Good LUCK!!! ♥

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I hear that guys like girls to be shaved down *there*.
Then i heard guys like the 'landing strip' better.
Do you like guys to be shaven? Do you ever shave yourself?

any input?
thnx!

Personally, I don't find it attractive for guys to shave down there. But a trim every now and then don't hurt :]

All guys opinions are different. Some guys like it all shaved, some like a little hair, and some could care less if you shaved at all.

Every girl I know shaves it all including myself just because I think it looks better. But like I said, everyones opinions are different.

When you do get a boyfriend that you have been dating a while, you start feeling comfortable around eachother. Then it really shouldn't matter if you shave down there or not. My boyfriend tells me all the time he wouldn't care if I never shaved ANYTHING on my body again! But that's just because he loves me as a person & not what I shave. But I do it because I feel better when I do.


So you see, it's only up to you. No one else's opinions matter. Good luck sweetie! ♥

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well first of all im a guy and i wanna ask this one girl thats my friend out on a date but i kinda dont want to because, what if something goes wrong and our friendship ends so what should i do?

Well in certain cases people are scared to ask out a good friend because their afraid if it doesn't work out then they will no longer be friends. However, in some cases it is better to date a close friend because they know more about you than a random girl would know & the same way for you about her.

All I can say is, if you really like her; go for it. If things don't work out, it could have a mutual feeling where she could feel the same way too. Just let her know when you ask her on a date that you don't want it to interfere with you two being friends, no matter what happens.

Most girls are understanding & if the connection just isn't there dating wise than it will probably be a mutual feeling. Some people it works for & some are just better left as friends. But it never hurts to find out! ;] Good luck! ♥

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what are the names of dogs that are born little and stay small throughout their life. i want a cute little pup that will stay small and easy to deal with :) help! :)

I have a teacup Yorkshire Terrior. She's about as big as my hand and she's soo cute. Their good dogs & they stay really small. It's always been my favorite. ♥

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im not sure if this is in the right category, but whatever. well, the thing is that since the summer began, my friend has some serious accidents that might have resulted in serious injury or even death.

First, she almost got hit by 5 cars walking home from the supermarket. a few days a go, she was trying to get a plate and 2 more plates fell on the one she had, breaking it, and da broken peaces nearly slit her wrists. when she was skateboarding, the skateboard slipped from under her and she nearly smashed her head onto the pavement. when her sister was trying to open a box with a knife, the box somehow ended up flying towards her and went right by her head. She fell down the stairs on some guy in her building. And at a restaurant, she was drinking cold water and the glass slipped out of her hand, shattering onto the plate, and the pieces flew upward and nearly hit her face, but luckily she jumped back, but a piece still hit her leg.

Is my friend just unlucky or something? This seems quite serious to me.

Omgosh! Well the important thing is that she hasn't gotten hurt from all of that happening to her. I'm not really superstitious or anything, but for people who are, they say some people get bad luck like that. I've also heard bad things always come in threes. I'm not sure that there is anything she can do about this chaos but you should encourage her to be VERY cautious and careful while shes doing things. We don't want anything bad happening to her. I'm sure it'll all get better. Keep an eye out for her! ♥

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umm so me nd my b/f kinda had sex i dunno. like he got a condom nd when we're doing it he couldn't go in all the way. i noe thats really embarrassing. but he wuz really hard. nd i wuz rlly tight.. nd i wanna noe what can i do to make it more loose so he can go in all the way. and umm also even if he didn't go in all the way that means still that im no a virgin nemore right? please helpp ASAP!!

No, it's not embarrassing that he couldn't go all the way in. It's normal for a lot of girls during their first time. The only thing that can make you a little looser is getting "fingered" a few times before sex. Also, technically you are a virgin until your hymen breaks [your cherry popped] you know when that happens when you bleed after sex, or any other sexual actions. Also, I've learned that your hymen can break from sports but that doesn't mean your not a virgin. Honestly, you're a virgin until you have actual sex. Good luck sweetie. ♥

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i had sex for the first time, 2 days ago. it was everything i expected it to be: pain. he didnt mean to hurt me, but he couldnt help it, you know? anyways. we didnt really get to finish, because his niece likes to just waltz in whenever she wants to and ask if she can get on his computer. luckily, his door was blocked by a speaker.

we're going to do it again soon. but thats not gonna be the last time. i just want to know when the pain is finally going to go away. it gets so bad, it hurts afterwards for almost an hour. i hate having him think that hes hurting me, because thats the last thing he wants to do. but i also hate getting no pleasure out of it. it even hurts when hes fingering me. i might go to his house on thursday or friday so we can have sex again and i dont want the pain to come back, but i do want to have sex with him. we've gone too far in this relationship to just stop because of a few pains.

any advice? thanks. :)

It's normaly to hurt your first time. After maybe 2 or 3 times, it begins to feel good :] Just make sure he's on top & tell him to go slow. If they go in all fast & all at once, it will hurt you a lot. Every girl is different. For me, it only hurt the first time. Once you actually get it all the way in, and actually have sex you will be sore for a couple of days because you use muscles your not used to using. But other than that, it does get better! I promise! ♥

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I recently cut my hair really short, it is about chin length in front and a few inches shorter in the back. I need to keep my hair out of my face for work and I need some cute things to do with it at work. thanks

It sounds like you have a bob cut. I am in Cosmetology, and I've seen a lot of girls with bob cuts come in and they have the "poof" on top. Where you take your bangs and comb them back & make a sort of poof and clip it down with bobby pins. It's really cute!

If you don't know what I'm talking about, let me know & I'll send you a picture. ♥

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okay im in 10th grade and im Really into fashion. i shop mostly at hollister abercrombie h&m bebe and forever 21..i mix and match things but it seems like whenever i dress up and look nice all the girls get really b*tchy and say mean things (and i don't look slutty in the things i wear either) so i just wear jeans and a regualar shirt like from a&f to school just so they'll have nothing to say about it. but when i wear that i feel like everyone else...what should i do?

Girls really can be so mean. But, you shouldn't change the way you dress because jealous girls don't like it. Be yourself & wear what YOU want to wear, not what other people want you to wear. Don't let little things like that stop you from expressing yourself. All it is, is jealousy. You're probably a really pretty girl & they say clothes make a person. So the cuter your clothes, the more prettier you must be. So let them talk about you, at least you know you look a lot better than they do! ♥

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15/m.

Ok, so I just recently got into a longdistance relationship and its been going strong for almost two weeks, we see eachother via webcam everyday, we text nonstop and sometimes talk on the phone..

But yesterday night she told me she had to go to the movies with this guy. She said the first time they met was at the movies, and within the first hour of the movie they were almost at thirdbase... Im hoping this doesn't happen again, can I trust her?

Hoenstly, NO! I agree with all the answers before me. Your too young to be tied down in a long distance relationship. Go out & look for someone new. If she really wanted to make it work with you, she wouldn't of basically "cheated" on you. So trust me on this one, she is NOT worth it. Don't get upset about it, just go out and meet new people. What kind of girl will do that kind of stuff with guys she JUST met? I'm sorry hun but please move on! ♥

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HI, stupid question, but im 16 and im 6 foot 3, i dont want to get any taller coz im afraid ill look like a freak, can someone please tell me if there is a chance ill stop growing, or tips on how to stop growing...or add me on wonderkid09@hotmail.co.uk, id really apprecaite it as im feeling insecure atm.

To be honest, there is NOTHING wrong with being that tall. You have the ability to be a model while others aren't as fortunate because their not the height to become a model. You should really look into modeling because they LOVE tall girls. But other than that, I'm afraid there isn't a way to become shorter or stop growing. By now, you should be as tall as your going to get considering your 16. Good luck sweetie! ♥

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heyyy ok i have natural curly & kinda frizzy hair. i get soooo many compliments on it because the curls are so perfect and stuff..but i still like to straighten it. soo i have this ceramic straighter that i bought for 80$ and it takes me like an hour to do my hair perfectly straight..but then wen i go out it gets kinda wavy at the bottom and it gets a little puffier.i HATE wen that happens.what shouuld i do to prevent this? should i put any creams, sprays, or anything before or after i straighthen?thanKs SO much for the hlep!!

The reason your hair does this is because of humidity. My hair use to do the same thing until I bought the Remington Wet to Straight. It's a hair straightener and it takes the frizz out of your hair. I also use Tresseme Heat Recovery shampoo & conditioner then I spray the Tresseme Heat Recovery Spray on my hair before I straighten it. It helps prevent your hair from "poofing" and frizzing when you walk outside. Trust me, it works! ♥

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eveytime i use liquid eyeliner i make a mistake because my eyes get shaky especilly my handds too


how do you apply liquid eyeliner perfectly!!??


p.s. ive been using liquid eyeliner since i was 11 so i should be good by now!! i'm 17

I normally use regular eyeliner to make my perfect line because if you mess up it's a lot easier to fix. Then I go over it with liquid eyeliner. I also, pull the corner of my eye outward like you're making your eyes chinky looking & it makes you see better to make your line. Good luck! ♥

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You're REALLLY REALLLLY pretty! I just wanted to know how you keep yourself looking so gorgeous? What kind of make-up and hair stuff do u use?

Well, thank you sweetie!

I use regular make-up. Maybeline, Cover Girl, things like that.

Hair stuff, I really just straighten it. I just put heat protector on it.

Aw, your so sweet:]

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