about

Candace Rae- the topic of everyone's coversations. Keep my name in your dome & out of your mouth. :] My parents were blessed on March 31st, 1994. I'm 13 years young, but I stride to act mature but it's not usually easy. I'm a good time. I'm a learning wakeboarder and my longest record of staying on the board is 13 seconds. WOOHOO! My second home is the soccer field, no lie. If I'm listening to hip-hop/rap/r&b I'm usually happy. Try to take my music away from me & see what happens. I can't stand people who haven't listened to 2 minutes of my music & assume it's negative. I will speak my mind until I knock some sense into them. Anyways I live in New England so I'm at the beach A LOT. Don't be stupid and ask if I live in England because I will tell you to pay more attention in geography class. I'm the type of girl who'd wear Red Sox clothes to a Yankee Game. Now let's see you top that, biotch.

I have a problem with liars & ditchers. I also have a problem with people who diss soccer. Soccer is the national sport in every country except the United States. Yeah foo' I think that speaks for itself.

I love love love Dunkin Donuts. Yummy! Coconut iced coffee & Tropical Fruit Smoothies make my day. Speaking of things I love, Abercrombie and Fitch is definitely one of them. I have a Sidekick and I treat it like my baby. It comes with me everywhere and that's the way I like it. =)

Ima huge flirt & if I see a hot guy, I'll go up to them and say "I'd tap that, bang that, slap that." Haha I don't care. [:

I tend to cause a scene.... EVERYWHERE. =]

Ask me for advice, I promise I won't give you the answer you want to hear. I'll do my best to help you though.

advice

I wanna get a digital camera for my birthday this summer OR a coach purse. I'm not sure which I want more yet, but if I get the digital camera, can anyone list any good ones that have a nice size picture with good quality thats around 100-150 dollars? I know its hard to find dig. cameras like this price that are good, lol. Thats why I'm going to say that I don't mind how many pictures they hold or anything. If you could help that'd be great


www.circuitcity.com

That website has all kinds of digital cameras in every brand. Personally, I love Sony and the Sony Cybershot works soo well. Also, the Casio EX-Z75PK is wonderful and it comes in pink! Just browse around stores and find one you like. =)

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Theres this guy, and he told my friend that hes gonna ask me out tomorrow. How do I accept? Thanks!


Just be like "yeah sure." and smile. Don't do anything dramatic and scare him away haha.

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ohhkayyy. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months and i really love him and he loves me too. and he wants to have sex and hes not forcing me to he just wants to make sure im ready before we do. and i mean i want to but im not sure. any input?


Bottom line: If you need to ask strangers on advicenators if you're ready to have sex, than it's clear to me you're NOT ready. when you're ready you will know. you will have no doubts and you won't be scared. if you're "not sure" than I can assure you that you're not ready to do it so don't. I don't know how old you are, but age doesn't matter in this situation. If you were ready you wouldn't have needed to ask this question in the first place. So put sex off until you're 100% ready and I'm sure your boyfriend will understand.

-L0V3_AlL_TH3_WAY

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ohkay, well on the left side of my upperback and sholders, its been hurting since january or febuary, it hurts so so so so bad, like somone stabbed me in my sholderblade.and i can barley laugh, i cant sneeze or cough, it hurts
whats wrong?
please help


Well, I doubt anyone on this site is a doctor and that description is pretty vague. Have you told your parents about it? You should schedule a doctor's appointment asap and they will probably know how to deal with it. I and the rest of the advicenators cannot tell why your back hurts from over the computer and it could get worse and if it hurts THAT bad, it could be something major.. So make sure you get it checked by a doctor so they can fix the problem.

Hope everything turns out okay!
-Candace

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ok so im going out with a couple of my friends tonight. were going to the movies and im not sure what were seeing but its probably gonna be something scary. theres 5 boys going and 3 girls. theres this one i guy i think is sooooooooo gorgeous. hes so hot. and my friends said there gonna make sure i sit next to him. and then those 2 other girls are my bffs. one of them is going with her boyfriend with us. so they might be cuddling or making out. the other girl has a bf but hes not going.the other guys know i think that the guy i think is hot is hot. becuase my friends told him. and so they told that guy also. so i have no idea what to do. but there gonna set me up to sit next to him. but were seeing a scary movie. and i get scared so easily. and i normally hug or hold the persons next to mes hand when it gets scary or i tuck my head behind there back. and my friends know that. so im gonna be on the end. so that hes the only one next to me. but im soo scared that im going to do that. becuase i dont know if he likes me. i mena he thinks im really cute. but i doubt its liking me. becuase he likes some other girl that goes to his church. but he still thinks im cute and pretty so do you think he would be cool with it? should i have my friends warn him? or? and also his friends over heard me talking to my friends how i want to hook up with him. so he knows i do. and he might. but i never made out. should i tell him? and when? ahhh im so lost. sorry this is long. lol


Oh my gosh! You seem so scared. Haha, calm down! Everything will be fine.. If during the movie you get scared kinda like grab him and see what he does.. If he moves your hand away he might not wanna do anything but I'm sure if he thinks your cute, he DEFINITELY won't mind holdin ya hand or hooking up. Just let everything come naturally and maybe talk to his friends and ask them if he said he was going to make a move. If he makes a move and you feel comfortable then go for it and cuddle or make out or whatever you guys wanna do. If he's shy he probably won't make the first move so start off by grabbing his arm or like hugging him a little bit and pretend you're really scared.. and then you might start making out lol. But I'm pretty sure that if he thinks your cute he'll WANT to hook up. So just relax and have a good time. If he thinks your nervous it might be a turn-off so just act natural and just let whatever happen, happen.

Have fun!
-Candace

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maybe, before you ban sombody, you could give them a warning? or maybe not allow them to ask questions, only give advice? that way, you could give advice givers a chance to learn from their mistakes. people on here somtimes get banned when maybe a reminder could easily fix the problem, but instead they get thrown off for a month, and that means for a month they cannot give advice to people who need it. please take this into consideration.


You put that in good words, but you should try emailing it on DangerNerd. None of us can really do much about it, so your best bet is to send that to the owner and he might agree, he might not.

But I'm definitely on your side!

-Candace

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Can anyone thats spanish please translate this to me
Tengo los sentimientos para usted, en los días que hablamos, tengo thought acerca de usted


usted ganga??

It means "I have the feelings for you, in the days that we spoke, I have thought about you."

-Candace

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me and my g/f act really close around eachother like she'll let me tickle her put my arm around her and stuff..but i never tried to do anything else.to me it seems like we both wanna go further.but how can we tell if the other one wants to too?


Here's a short but effective answer. If you're ready for this, make a move and if she's ready she'll kiss you back or go as far as you want to. If she's not ready, just be like "sorry."

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Ok, so I'm a 16, almost 17/m, and i'M ABOUT 5'9. I hate it. All of my friends are at least 6'. I really want to grow taller if i want to have a better chance at playing football in college. Are there any ways i can make myself grow taller, as crazy as it sounds?

Nope.
Sorry to be blunt, but you can't make yourself taller. Maybe it's just in your genes to be short? But maybe you're just a really SLOW grower and you might get a huge growth spurt! But even if you don't, just be happy with how you are because some people only have 1 arm!

Sorry I'm not much of a help.
-Candace

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what does BIFF stand for?!


Biff means best friend.

Example - Hey, you're my biff!

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14/f
so i have a boyfriend. of 3 months. i love him. and we have said i love you for about 2 months before we started dating. and he ALWAYS wants me to change, and stop talking to my best friend brandon. and he got REALLY pissed off cause when i went away for spring break i hung out with his friend rick, but nothing happened between us. i gave him a hug good bye and thats it. but we never told my boyfriend about it. and found out and now he thinks im fucking around. and he says were on break. and hes like we can still kiss and hold hands durring school. and im like whats break?

what are the standards for a break?
what are the standards when your my age for break?
advice please?


What the hell? Break is when you can go out with other people but still like the person you're on break with. Uhm, screw the break idea and dump this guy immediately! If he can't trust you with other guys then he must not like you all that much. He's being a controlling freak and you don't need him. Just please dump him and save yourself the pain. A good boyfriend wouldn't care if you hung out with his friends. If you didn't cheat on him and he can't believe you, then he's not worth it.

Good luck
-Candace

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I saw the movie disturbia and I was wondering if anyone knew the ringtone that Ashley put on Kale's fone so when Ronnie called it was ring a speical tone:does anyone know what song that was?
thanks so much


The song is called "Me So Horny" and 2 Live Crew sings it.

I saw that movie last night. Haha i loved it. =]

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Is it true that wearing a wired bra to bed stops your boobs from growing as much, and wearing a sports bra makes them have room to grow?


Nope, that's just a myth. Wear whatever kind of bra you like, it's personal preference.

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me and my boyfriend got in a HUGE FIGHT bascically he cheated on me but wont admit it. So to make along story short im planning on fighting the girl this friday . Anyway i never got in a fight before and i wanted some advice like lol what to do should i hit her in the eye like what lol i feel stupid but im not really a fighter.. haha advicee would be nice


I know you don't want to hear this, but I encourage you to stay out of the fight. It's not her fault he cheated on you, it's his. You can turn the table and blame her for it, but it won't make you feel any better. He CHOSE to cheat on you. I know you hate her and I would too, but it's really his fault.

Punching her in the face won't make things better. In fact it will cause more drama and make things worse. I think that you should just leave your boyfriend because he's obviously not worth it if he'd cheat on you, and try to move on. This situation doesn't involve that girl. This is between you and your boyfriend.

Honestly, you should be angry with your boyfriend, not the girl he cheated on you for. He's the bad guy, and he's the liar. And he's denying it which makes things worse.

Before you punch that girl in the face, remember that HE's the one who caused you all this pain, and HE is the one who lied and cheated on you, and HE'S the one who broke your heart. Notice a pattern? Your boyfriend screwed up, and it's not that girls fault. So it's not necessary to take it out on the girl he cheated on you for.

With all due respect,
-Candace.

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what gives you better results? exercising a few times a week and eating 3 meals or eating 3 meals plus snacks and exercising more.

thanks


eating 6 SMALL meals a day consisting of healthy foods such as fruits, veggies, salad, grilled chicken, and low fat foods would be the best choice for you. also, limit junk food. and for the exercising part, exercise at least 30 minutes a day. whether it's lifting weights, running, walking, sit ups, or push ups, you have to do it a lot.

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can sum1 plz help me? i need a new sn
i:
-13/f
-green eyes
-black hair
-play piano & violin
-luv kittens

thanks soooo much!


KiTTENSRCUTEE
GREEN EYED BABE x3
Brunettes are hawt
x piano princess
S0o LAST SUMMAH

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this guy i like keeps calling me hott. what else do i say besides thanks thanks thakns thanks. im 14 hes 16


If you like him back then you can be like "yeah but you're sexy." or "damnn your fine." or "you're pretty good looking yourself."

If you only like his as a friend and you don't think he's cute then be like "haha thanks but I only like you as a friend..."

any more ideas?
hit them up in the inbox.
-Candace

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ok so these two guys who i was friends with during the year are realllly annoying me! and i know one of them likes me.. and i dont like him back at all, ahh and they are always up in my bussiness and like basically on top of me the whole time. AND I NEED SPACE! im kinda becoming a bitch to them to give them the idea of LEAVE ME ALONE! but i dont know what else to do!!



Tell them to back off. Just be like "you guys are always in my business and it gets me pissed off so could you please stop?" There's no other way to get it across unless you tell them. You could totally ignore them and ignore their IMs and phone calls, but that might be hard. Tell them you want to be friends but it can get annoying when they want to know everything in your life. If they don't get the message then, ask a close friend to talk to them for you.

Good luck.
-Candace

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well i really really like this guy and weve been talking for a week and we hung out last night and it was amazing..i had so much fun with him and we kissed and he kept complimenting me and kissing my hand and he was just so fun and nice and i had a great time with him and we were comfortable around each other which is a good sign but heres the thing..he called me today and said he has never felt so strongly about someone and he said hes pretty much in love with me and then all the sudden he said "do you wanna go out with me?" i wanted to say yes but its only been a WEEK and is it just me or is it a little too soon to be saying he loves me? i dont wanna say it back yet cause he might just mean it in a way such as girls say they love each other to each other just a kind way ya know but what do you think it is? and also hes good friends with my ex boyfriend so we have to keep this a secret from my ex boyfriend so he wont get mad and stop being friends with the guy i like so that makes it a little difficult but im willing to do it.anyway what should i do to try to slow things down a bit? obviously talk to him but does anyone have a reason hes moving so fast?


He probably really likes you and doesn't notice that he's moving fast. Or maybe he's afraid that you'll move on to another guy. I say that if you like him back, you should just go out with him. You might not have another chance. You don't have to tell him you love him, but you might regret not saying yes to him. If you're positive that this relationship is going way too fast, tell him that. I'm sure if he loves you like he says he does than he will wait for you. But if you've guys already kissed, I think it's okay to go out with him. I would say "it's too soon to know if I love you, but I really like you a lot." Just tell him how you feel, and if you want to go out with him then you can, but if you want to hang out a couple more times to know him better, then that's okay too.

I hope everything works out for you.
-Candace

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I need a voicemail greeting and i have no idea what to say. I have a song at the moment. Any ideas?


Mine is:
"Heyy it's [name here] leave a message."

1. Play your favorite song

2. "Yo, I can't answer my cell right now but I'll get back to you."

3. "I'm probably avoiding your call right now, but anyways leave a message after the beep. BEEEEPP."

4. "Heyyyyyy. Helloooooo. Pause....... Oh wait, this is supposed to be a voicemail greeting. Leave a message"

5. "I can't get to the phone right now, but leave your name and number and I'll get back to you."

Just do whatever comes to mind I guess. Sorry if you don't like any of my ideas.

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