me and my boyfriend got in a HUGE FIGHT bascically he cheated on me but wont admit it. So to make along story short im planning on fighting the girl this friday . Anyway i never got in a fight before and i wanted some advice like lol what to do should i hit her in the eye like what lol i feel stupid but im not really a fighter.. haha advicee would be nice
Brandi_S answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 5:55 pm: Gee. You are going to hit some girl, basically punishing her for something your boyfriend did. Hmmm... Nope. No matter how hard I try to see your point, I don't.
Sounds like you need to just ditch the jerk you are going out with and move on with your life like a normal person would. Yah, I would be upset with the girl, too, but HE is the one who screwed up, not her. So why are you wanting to resort to taking it out on the one who didn't screw up?
Besides, if you don't know how to fight, don't do it. You will most likely end up having to pick yourself up off the floor.
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 5:38 pm: okay so every person answered your question with dont fight. i dont think you should fight either. but i fought girls that hooked up with my ex but when you make a fist.. curl your first three fingers from your pinky. have your point finger down like your nail touching the botton of you thumb and your thumb acrossed thatto pop out your kuckles to puch between the eyes. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
L0V3_AlL_TH3_WAY answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 4:15 pm: I know you don't want to hear this, but I encourage you to stay out of the fight. It's not her fault he cheated on you, it's his. You can turn the table and blame her for it, but it won't make you feel any better. He CHOSE to cheat on you. I know you hate her and I would too, but it's really his fault.
Punching her in the face won't make things better. In fact it will cause more drama and make things worse. I think that you should just leave your boyfriend because he's obviously not worth it if he'd cheat on you, and try to move on. This situation doesn't involve that girl. This is between you and your boyfriend.
Honestly, you should be angry with your boyfriend, not the girl he cheated on you for. He's the bad guy, and he's the liar. And he's denying it which makes things worse.
Before you punch that girl in the face, remember that HE's the one who caused you all this pain, and HE is the one who lied and cheated on you, and HE'S the one who broke your heart. Notice a pattern? Your boyfriend screwed up, and it's not that girls fault. So it's not necessary to take it out on the girl he cheated on you for.
alisonmarie answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 4:02 pm: Staying with your boyfriend and fighting this girl doesn't really help you in the long run. Sure, I can understand why she's not your favourite person.
But really, your boyfriend is responsible for the choices he makes. And you are responsible if you decide to stay with someone who is unfaithful to you.
I would suggest you think about why you think he has cheated, along with why he won't admit it. Is there a possibility he didn't do anything? If you really feel he absolutely did cheat on you, I would encourage you to reflect on what you are solving by beating another girl up.
Whether you get in this fight or not, it doesn't solve your relationship issues. You've got to decide whether this is worth it to you to try to work through this issue with someone who clearly isn't willing to talk about it.
People deserve to be with someone who respects them.
bitterxsweet answered Wednesday April 4 2007, 4:01 pm: im sure this isnt what you wanna hear but honestly you shouldnt fight this girl. if anything, you should be fightin your boyfriend, ha. he's the one that made that mistake and broke his relationship with you, not that girl. even though she was wrong to do it too, your boyfriend is the one who ruined the relationship. honestly, dump his sorry butt and you`ll win the fight right there =]. [ bitterxsweet's advice column | Ask bitterxsweet A Question ]
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