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i just met this kid last week, he's cute, funny, nice etc. he was the one who called me to hang out 1st but i always feel like when we talk i am getting mixed signals, like he seems to like me but then he just signs of line or puts on an away message without saying bye & the convorsation just ends. we hung out twice last week wehn we 1st met (he asked me both times) i want to hang out again but is it too soon to ask him? i don't want to seem like a loser or to clingy. is it bad for me too call him? can anyone tell me what to do? & why doesn't he say good bye online?

OH MY GOSH
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLAM
well
i dont know
im to afraid to call my future husband..
but he goes to my school
hes so hot!
i see him in the hallways and have a heart attack!
lol
ok anyways
i dont think its bad to call him
guys always tell me how its annoying when they have to call and girls are to afraid to call
but idk

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hey, okay this maybe confusing but i try to keep it short....
there is this girl i went out with and we did a lot of stuff, and we broke up actually took a break but after a month we still not back together, iknow i have to get bac ktogether becasue we both like eachother,
anywho thiere is this guy who is her friend who is always flirting with her, i dont konw how to overcome it
but i just cry
how should i deal with him?

aww.
i feel the same way
but i like this guy and yeah
tell her that you like her
and want to try and makethings work out.
sorry if i didnt help
but i really do hope you are ok..

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If the guy you like, asked you if you liked him, what would you say? Should you tell him the truth and take the risk, or just tell him you don't like him and keep it all inside for him to find out?
Thanks.

tell him.
because if you never tell him and he does like you then he will feel like it will never work out with you to or something
and go out with someone else

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okay i gots a boyfriend I got 4 days ago. We kissed on new years eve and that was my first kiss ever but i felt nothing. No spark or anything. I find myself wishing hed break up with me sometimes. I dont know why though its like I stopped liking him. There is just no chemistry. Please tell me what I should do
Ill rate high
thanks

break up with him hun.
just pretend your grandma died and you cant handle a bf anymore.
hey..
thats what i did

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well im 15/f
and lately ive just been wanting to go out and party..have fun..hook up with boys! lol im not usually the party girl ive been known to be the innocent girl who doesnt do stuff like that..and thats why i dont usually get invited to parties and either does my best friend who i hangout with ALOT! i am not friends with that many guys..but i wanna be..but you see im not all the 'outgoing' if you wanna say..i wanna be but i always get so embarassed and i dont know why! im not one to make the first move or anything..but i dont know im jealous of all these people who know like EVERYONE! ive gone to the mall and movies..havent met any people and i dono it doesnt help that me and my best friend are both shy..but i recently have been hangin out with this one girl that knows alotta people but yeah im nervous to meet anyone..im insecure about myself and alla the people want to do stuff like finger and have sex..give blwojobs..and im not ready for that..sometimes i feel like i have to tho just to like have funn!! i know i know..if im not ready dont do it but i dont know my life is so effed up right now all i wanna do is have a good time and meet a bunch of new people..it also doesnt help that i dont have my license yet..or does my other friends what can i do for my situation? i will RATE!! ♥

that is exactly what i feel like.
EXACTLY.
what i do is go shopping and talk to guys.
thats how i met my boyfreind.
so if you and you bestfreind have confidence and just act like you dont care and be social then it will work out.
i know what being shy is like.
NOT FUN.
so just pretend at school and stuff your at the mall.
and pretend you will never see those people again. and TAlK.
trust me its way better!
i did that for a month and then i sang in front of my whole school! they cracked up and i was popular.
IM NOT CONCIDED I SWEAR.
good luck!!

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my friend andrew wants to know if u finger a girl if she hasnt had her period is it bad or will anything happen?
thank you

no hun its not bad.
its better to do stuff if she doesnt have her period.

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Hey, I'm having people over, and I was trying to think of a good scary movie. Any ideas?
Easy 5 for good movies
xox ♥

the NEW texes chainsaw masicure with jessica beal or w/e and darkness falls.

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I really want to make out with my boyfriend and I already know that he wants to also, but I am self consious of my braces, and I don't know what to do! I know that that sounds pathetic, but I really don't. All of my friends say that I shouldn't be, but i can't help it! How do I get over it and how do I "start" the making out?

IT IS NOT AS BAD AS YOU THINK.
like braces dont really get caught on anything.
you cant even notice them!.
i madeout with a guy with a lip ring and braces.
and it felt like making out with someone without.
and start the making out by just like giving him a kiss then he will get the hint.
GOOD LUCK!
dont be scared!

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ok so i asked about me and my boyfriend earlier but now i have a really big porblem ok so my bestguyfrind i consider him my brother....well my bestfriend has liked him since i iterduced them and now there goin out...but like over christmas break me and him were talkin and everything like came out in the open he said alot of stuff that i never would expect from him like he liked me and has liked me since the first day and like im perfect and all that... well i feel the same way but we both love out boyfriends and girlfriends...and i dont want to do ANYTHING to ruin wat me and my b/f have or me and my bestfriends relation ship or me and my best guy friends relation ship so i dont know wat to do... cause we decided nuttin was gonna happin but everytime we talk he brings sometin up about us... :( idk thank u so much to anyone that helps me!!!

dont ruin what you and your b/f have and his and his g/f have..

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hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
despretly confuxed

NOOO ITS GOOD.
you wont get pregnant for sure than.

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Whats The Legal Age To Have Sex


Thanks
Tami

THERES NO LEGAL AGE.
you can choose its when ever your ready.
i went to a health class for 2 years on this jeeze.

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well there is a problem as you know or i wouldnt be here. I was talking with my gf and then i came to this website and red what she said about me. she obviously likes her ex too but she doesnt know who to pick. i love her and i would do anything for her but she doesnt see that in me. she said that it seams like i dont care and shes nothin special to me but ahh.... it just makes me sad. i really dont want to break up with her please help. p.s. i am a 14 yr old MALE

is her name sara?

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I just began goin out with this girl. I have never liked someone so much, the problem is I don't have alot of cash these days. What is a gift that she might like but won't empty out my wallet? We're both fourteen.

Thanks,

Jeff

chocolate or a stuffed animal or flowers!!
SHE WILL LOVE IT

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ok well im suppose to spend the day with my bf and i hve this huge like BUMP on my face.. pretty close to my nose.. ive had it for like 2 or 3 days and i popped it bc it was a zit when i first got it.. yah i know ur not sapose to pop zits.. but now it is like a big red bump and it doesnt hve puss or anything in it.. well im suppose to spend the day with my bf and it looks so hideous... any home remedies that will help plllleeeaasse....

cover it up

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What possible problems could arise with being with a guy that was 17 years older than you? The guy I like is 44 and I am only 27.
The problems I could already forsee are that when I am 37 he would be 55, and maybe he would start to get insecure and think I might leave him for a younger guy my age.
Also, what could a guy that age really have in common with me? He likes fishing and golf, things that bore me to death. He hates a lot of the movies and tv shows I like too. He looks old enough to be my father. And I don't think my parents would approve.
But at the same time, I REALLY like him. He's a really nice guy and makes me feel so good about myself. He has a great sense of humour and more life experience than most guys my age have. He also has a good job, and would never freeload after me.(like some bf's of mine.)
Can anyone else think of any problems that could come from this relationship? And do you think we have a chance for this to work?

thats just plain gross.
ew

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Ok heres the story, im going to try to make it short.... i have younger borhter who has a friend who has an older brother and ive known him for since like forever. We are really good friends and our brothers keep on saying that we should get married so that they can be realted. Anyway my friends keep on saying that he likes me but i can't see it. He's told me that he likes this other girl, but he invites me to go see the stars on a summer night and we go to the movies togehter. He invtied me to go to a hcokey game just me and him and when i asked him why he didn't ask the girl he likes he said he would rather go with me and that she doesn't like hockey, i couldn't go though:( Most recently he got tickets to go see pink floyd (which i love) and he invited me to go. I told that he didn't have to bring me, that he should ask the girl he likes because a relationship could spark up (trying to be encouraging for him) but he told me there was no relationship going to be built, so he doesn't want to take her, he wants to take me. I am so confused i always thought of him as a friend but this happeneing and my friends telling me he likes me has gotten me confuzed. What do you think is going on? please help, thanks

my boyfreind did that to me.
and he really didnt like a girl.
he just wanted me to think that because he didnt want me to no he liked him because he thought i didnt like him.
so he likes you.

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there is this one girl danielle i cant stop thinking about we used to be friends and went out but we broke up then we stoped hanging out for a while but then some guy hit her and i relized how much i still liked her so i went and beat him up pretty bad (concussion hospital) but that led to some consequences like got arrested suspended broken knuckle suspension from school lawsuit but i liked her in such i way i didnt care what happened and then we were real close for a while but one day she stoped talking to me and ignored me pretty much and i thought i was over her but then the other night i had a dream about her that made me relize i still had feelings for her i dont know what i should do i cant stop thinking about her
can some one please help me
14/m

awe.
well you should tell her.

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Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 3:29 am
Okay im 17. I've liked this girl since the 8th grade, and im now a senior she is now a JR. Winter formal is coming up and i have been talking to her about it for almost two months. She has only been talking about how she wants to go with this one guy. I really wanted to ask her but i didn't want to make her sad or anything. Now she was told a different guy was going to ask her and shes really happy. So after she found out that he was going to ask her, but before he did i told her i wanted to ask her and that i was kinda sad that it got all messed up. Then the next day she said he asked her, and i said, "well you said no right". And she said, "i did", but then about 5 min later she said, "she was just kind she really said yes." We are pretty good friend i talk to her almost every day, and she will always say hi to me and stuff. but im confused on why she would say something then do something else or any of that. I think she flirts with me once in awhile, and stuff like we bet how many points she gunna score in basketball, and i alway make it a low number so she wins and stuff but if you could help me out that would be great thanks.

ASK HER IF SHE LIKES YOU
its weired because when ever i like someone.
they always like me back after i tell them.

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Well, i'm 14/f and my best friend is a girl and my age. We've experimrnted a couple of times this early year. She ended it in july this year (2005)cause she wanted things back the way they were when we didn't experiment and were close soul sisters (as we call ourselves to each other). I never got to say my total feelings about the whole thing. She says at times that she wishesi could be her girlfriend but in this world it isn't logical. I can't help, but want to kiss her and hold her passionatly. She's about to go on a cruise on Christmas eve this year and the i finally want to show her how i feel so the last day when i spend time with her i want to before a walk out the door i wanted to say this: I want you to so much be with me, but unfortunatly in your logical world that's not possible. Then i would hug her and kiss her softly on the lips and rush out the door. i just wanted to leave her with a thought in her head as she was on the cruise to let her know finally how i feel. Should i go for it?? PLLLLZZZ HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!

~queencece~

YES!!
DO IT SHE WILL PROBLY DO THE SAME THING BACK WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT!
thats so cute!

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Dear Advicegiving people,

Yeah.. that subject was REALLY retarded. But yeah.. ok.. my LOVING boyfriend and I have been going out since July 8th & he's really sweet & all & I know he loves me because he tells me all the time & like.. I just DONT want that right now. I DONT want a serious relationship. And he's not the cutest thing ever, but he IS sweet & would give me the moon if I asked, like he's like the perfect boyfriend, but I dont WANT that. I want there to be rough times & I actually want him to disagree with me from time to time, but he treats me like a princess & thats just not what i want, but i dont want to be treated like crap either.. I just dont know right now. I want to break up with him, but i dont want to hurt him! HOW can I? Is it even possible? He's 15 by the way & so am I.

**Sorry it's soo long**

THATS WHAT HAPPEND TO ME TO.
just make up something really sad.
i said i cant have a boyfreind right now.
my grandma died.
and i need to hangout with my sister more.
TOTALLY NOT TRUE.
then i made him hate me.
and it was all good.

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