|
uhhh didnt know what this would go under..
well im 15/f
and lately ive just been wanting to go out and party..have fun..hook up with boys! lol im not usually the party girl ive been known to be the innocent girl who doesnt do stuff like that..and thats why i dont usually get invited to parties and either does my best friend who i hangout with ALOT! i am not friends with that many guys..but i wanna be..but you see im not all the 'outgoing' if you wanna say..i wanna be but i always get so embarassed and i dont know why! im not one to make the first move or anything..but i dont know im jealous of all these people who know like EVERYONE! ive gone to the mall and movies..havent met any people and i dono it doesnt help that me and my best friend are both shy..but i recently have been hangin out with this one girl that knows alotta people but yeah im nervous to meet anyone..im insecure about myself and alla the people want to do stuff like finger and have sex..give blwojobs..and im not ready for that..sometimes i feel like i have to tho just to like have funn!! i know i know..if im not ready dont do it but i dont know my life is so effed up right now all i wanna do is have a good time and meet a bunch of new people..it also doesnt help that i dont have my license yet..or does my other friends what can i do for my situation? i will RATE!! ♥
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos?
Hey there. Well, just so you know, everyone else is just as self-conscious and insecure as you are, some people are just better at hiding it than others. Please, PLEASE don't feel like you have to take part in activities that you will be ashamed of later, just so you can have fun. You will regret it later, I promise you. Try to find some girls at school who like to do the same things that you do. You could join some extracurricular activities at school like clubs or theatre or sports. Just don't do anything that you think you may regret later! Let me know if I can do anything for you!
Jenny
]
that is exactly what i feel like.
EXACTLY.
what i do is go shopping and talk to guys.
thats how i met my boyfreind.
so if you and you bestfreind have confidence and just act like you dont care and be social then it will work out.
i know what being shy is like.
NOT FUN.
so just pretend at school and stuff your at the mall.
and pretend you will never see those people again. and TAlK.
trust me its way better!
i did that for a month and then i sang in front of my whole school! they cracked up and i was popular.
IM NOT CONCIDED I SWEAR.
good luck!!<333
]
hi there..its very hard because its like if you dont drink smoke and party,,,then what do you do? sit in the corner and talk to urself? eventually you will be respected for not being the party drinker type. right now its the thing to do...ppl are always attracted to the different type...you can still do everything you want and have fun but if you going to go to parties and they are goin to be drinking...you are going to do the same because you arent going to be able to control youself. so becareful but have fun
]
first things first. youre 15, slow down, relax. dont feel pressured into doing anything youre not comfortable doing.
secondly, you can do LOTS of stuff to have fun without getting into ill habits/sexual situations. When i was your age (im nearly 19 now) all my friends were getting into drugs and alcohol and sex, and I just wasnt ready. The great thing about it was that when I made the decision to NOT be pushed into all that garbage, I relaxed so much that I started having fun wherever I went.
Basicly what I'm trying to say is that you CAN have a good time without going outside your boundaries. dont let anyone push you past your comfort point. EVER. Just relax, smile, talk to people, and you'll start having a blast.
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question
| Next Question >>> AIM
|
|