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I'm 17/f if that helps.. My friends Lisa and Rachel (who are friends with my boyfriend) asked my boyfriend Derek to get them some weed (cause hes got connections). Then they asked him to drive them somewhere like a park so that they can smoke it.. and my boyfriend wanted me to come along. I dont want to go because i dont wanna smoke weed.. but i dont want my boyfriend to go and get high alone with 2 girls either. He told me that he wouldnt go if i didnt want him to. But it seems like he wants to go and i dont want him to feel like im controlling him.. should i let him go or not?
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well, if you trust your boyfriend alone with your friends, then you should let him go alone. or you can tag along with them, and not smoke, just keep an eye on them. if he says that he won't go if you don't want him to, he may mean that or he's trying to make you feel bad and let him go. if you trust your friends alone with your boyfriend, then you should let them go alone, but if it were me, i'd tag along; or tell him that i'd rather him stay home so that he doesn't get into any trouble. if you have any more questions don't be afraid to ask. :)
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you should probably let him go, but dont feel like you have to come along. if you do, dont feel like you have to smoke. in fact, you should go and find "some way" to make sure he doesnt smoke too.
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♥ all people act differently when they are high. If you really have enough trust in this guy though, then I think he should be okay.
♥ also, just because they are smoking doesn't mean you have to. Don't let them peer preasure you.
♥ I think you should go with him, and if they ask if you wanna smoke say 'no' and if they keep bugging you about it, then they aren't real friends anyways.
♥ your guy should understand
♥ good luck, I hope you get it all straightened out. x3
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You know that you don't want him to go so just tell him that. It's for his own good and you aren't controlling him because you're just being there for him. If you do go with them you don't have to smoke and nether does he. This decision can only be made by you. If you don't want him to go, tell him. If you don't care, tell him. Whatever is on your mind, make sure you tell him. By the way, why would they go smoke weed at a park??
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