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f/14....is it normal to get "wet" when your boyfriend makes out with you? a little bit of touching below the neck but not past the stomach?

Yepp.
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Ok, I love animals. Right now I have 2 dogs, one outside and one inside. We also sort of have a cat, but really it just eats our cat food. Haha..anyway..I want to get a cat. Yesterday I went to the SPCA for a science fair project, and I just fell in love with this little white kitten. It is 80 dollars and I have the money, but the problem is my dad. Everyone else in the family is OK. I just need some things I could say to my dad to convince him! Thank you!

Tell him that cats are cleaner than dogs. They dont chew things up either. And tell him that the cat will get groomed most of the time so hairs and furballs arent all over the house. Lol. My dad had a problem with all the cat hairs, but i still got a kitty!!
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my boyfriend had a scare about his testicles and found out from test results that he's fine, he has now got it in his head that there's something wrong with every part of his body he thinks he's got cancer and tests have proved he hasn't he keeps asking me if he's fine and has done for the past 4 weeks i love him so much and feel as though it's wrecking our relationship. he's never had a longterm relationship this is his first. what can i do to help him get it out his head? i'm trying to stay strong for him but it's stressful for me especially as we have a 10month old baby please help

I think he has a phobia of having something wrong with him at all times. Be patient with him. Explain to him calmly that hes perfectly fine. But before you do that go to a doctor to prove to him he has a phobia, and see what the doctor says.
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ok how do u make out seriously and is it all its cracked up to be or is it nasty plz be honset i dont want to go through with doing it if were both gunna think it was grosse and umm wat do i do with my hands and wat should he do with his
thnx sooooooo much

You seem 10 if you're saying its "ewwww gross." But i'll help you anyway. Nobody can tell you steps or directions to making out. It comes naturally. If you're afraid to do it the wrong way, the onyl way you could do it wrong is if its fake. What i mean by fake is if someone tells you directions.... which is pretty much impossible.
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hey i have quite a big ass but i go in at the waist quite a bit then at the top im like not big but not small, c to be exact but like i have huge love handles and whenever i wear like baggy jeans or joggers even if there was falling down is still like look like i was over hang :S!!! i dont get it, is there any exacises or like a certain food im eating thats coursing it, or could it just be my big trunk? x x x

Trust me on this one. Guys LOVE a big butt. Kepp it J.LO!
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Okay so this kid pretty much took my virginity last year-ish, and we dated for a couple weeks. Since then we've hooked up multiple times, causing him to cheat on his girlfriends at the time, nobody ever found out. Then last summer his girlfriend found out and they stayed together etc, and everything was resolved and they broke up for a while and him and I hooked up. So basically they're back together because he took her virginity too, but I'm the only girl he's ever cheated on her with, and it's not like I'm sprung off him or anything, I don't really even like him like that anymore, we're just friends as far as I'm concerned and we tend to mutally hook up occasionally. So the other day at this thing for school I was having a bad day, and he let me cry on his shoulder and stuff, then we went off to "talk" somewhere and he started kissing me and stuff, I feel really really bad about it for some reason and he's really giving me mixed signals. Is he interested in me again, has he never lost feelings or did he just want a hookup?

I dont think hes sending you mixed signals. It sounds like he thinks you're sending mixed signals to him, and hes confused. I suggest you stay put. Dont make a move on him. Wait till he makes one on you. Then if he keeps sending mixed signals ask him if he has feeling for you.
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