Iam 14, and pretty smart I guess, and wise (and humble about it too :)
I am really into peoples feelings but i still tend to tell you like it is, theres plenty of people out there who are always a pain in the butt and making everyone around them feel like crap, i dont want to be that person.
I awnser a wide variety of questions even ones i dont know anything about, in hopes i can help maybe even alittle bit, but dont ask me retarded stuff i dont want the drama queen stuff, im here to help if your not here to whine.
Also dont ask me gross sex problems im a christian and i dont know anything about 'blow jobs' so dont ask me about them...also if you dont like the awsner i give you then dont read it.
And just for the record I could care less about the rating you give me, so if you got a negative comment send it to someone who cares, and low ratings are good for me there showing im saying it how it is.
In all christian love, 2tammy2
Gender: Female
Location: Washington
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Age: 14
Member Since: June 25, 2007
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does anyone know anyone know of any really good hair straighteners that aren't super expensive? also know any good techniques for straightening hair without a straightener?
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any advice on curling hair? i a;ways try with a curling iron but i never do it right, i always just make this weird bump in my hair..
k so any advice would be great!
thanks :] (link)
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I cant help you with the curling iron but i got a cheap straightner for 30 bucks at a local Fred Meyer try one of those places
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So at the end of the school year i because friends with this girl named alex.. me and alex became pretty close and we hang out alot... and talk on the phone liek everyday...In becomeing friends with alex i met this girl named Kelsey.. me and kelsey began to talk and it was one of those thiongs where it was liek instant trust and we started to tell eachother everything... well alex and kelsey got into a huge fight bacause alex said kelsey was to clingy..and there friendship kinda stopped... and when i told alex i was going to hang out with kelsey she seemed liek upeset about it and was like "shes goign to cling to you and shes goign to make it a battele between her and i to see who hangs out with you"
I kinda feel in the middle of this fight and i dont know what to do .... i really wanna be friends with kelsey.. but i kinda of seel that i have to be soly friends with alex because idont want to make any1 mad.. i would like to be friends with both of them but i dont know if that will work!!
What do i do!!??!? (link)
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its there fault they dont like each other not yours, tell them if they want to argue or whatever not to drag you into it and if this 3 way relationship is important to you then i suggest calmy telling both of them how you feel about them argueing and you wish theyd get back together and then try to get them to meet if that dosent work then i suggest just be friends with both if they cant handle that then maybe you need new friends
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Ok I weigh 135 lbs and I want to lose atleast 10.
I'm 5'3.
Its mostly my stomache that bothers me,
what are really effective exercises that will help that, that I can do at home.
I'm also trying to eat right,
but no matter what I eat in a day, even if its healthy and not huge portions I always gain atleast 2 pounds, and yesterday I only had 1,000 calories.
I'm so confused, help? (link)
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i was talking to my bro yesterday and he was saying im not lying that he likes a girl with a stomach just as long as it dosent jiggle when the girl moves, if you want at home excercizes go to a video store and rent or buy a excercize movie, dont sweat it about your weight curve is good, besides theres more important things to worry about then that
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I just want to know if anyone else has felt like this and it actully came true. Okay so we both feel like were going to be together forever. And well I do love him and he loves me. Okay so we were best friends for a while befor we went out and well we have been going out for like almost a year now. Well everyone says the key to a relationship is conversation. And we defintly have that. We tell eachother EVERYTHING. Even if its gross or embarassing. WEll basicly we do want to be married in the future .I love him so much :] . and we dont ever think about breaking up and nothing clothes comes to it. But anyways do you think we could be together forever? Like we both beleave we really will . And were 16 now. so im asking you if its possible and if anyone else has felt this way and how it turned out. SORRY THAT ITS SOO LONG . :/ .. THANKS THOUGH :] (link)
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well it could work, you guys seem to have what it takes to get a relationship trust, communication, i would just say listen to your heart does it say he is the one for you, if so listen to it.
There is a posibility it wont work if so just remember people change alot in the couple of years that you guys have to wait to get married,
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im going to be hiking on the appalachain trail with my dog and my dad. my dog is about 5 and i want to know if there is anything i would need to bring for my dog in the case that he maybe gets hurt. i want to form sort of a first aid kit for him. my dogs are like human beings to me and i want to make sure he's taken care of. (link)
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everyone elses advice is great, i suggest though maybe doggy boots to protect from cuts or splinters on his feet, there pretty cheap at Petsmart or on the web
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Hi. before i start I want to say thanks. :) If your a guy answering this then all I want to know is if you think I'll be too skinny so thats it unattractive after you read the info. Ok so for the summer Im trying to lose weight and get in good shape. Im normal, meaning im not skinnny and im not fat. I'm a girl, 14 and 5'7 and 138 pounds. I'm a size 7 in jeans and by the end of the summer I want to be a size 3 or 5? Which would be better considering my height? Would I be too skinny a 3? Would I be normal a 5? What is the average weight for a person 5'7 that is a size 5? I want to lose about 1.5 lbs per week. I have 10 weeks of vaca so 1.5 x 10 is 15 lbs. Whats a good plan of exercise that I could do everyday to lose 1.5 lbs in 7days ? srry for it being long. Thanks. (link)
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ok first of all i lose a lot when i carefully watch my food and only eat when im hungry, and walking a couple of miles everyday, and as for the whole skinny thing, iam size 9, 116 lbs. and 5'4 and believe me all the guys cant get their eyes off my butt, and as for the whole skinny thing im not gay or a guy but i think skinny girls look kind of bad because the major absence of curve is most unnatractive, and thats what most of the guys want anyway
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Okay, ever since I moved from Hong Kong to Texas, I've had some weird lumps around my belly button. They itch sometimes and bleed when I itch them but have never gone away. They look like goosebumps that are spread out. WHAT ARE THEY??? (link)
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you already have seen a doctor hmm... and obvoisly he dosent think its a big deal, uh.... first things first dont itch them, i itch my musquito bites and they get infected (could you be having a reaction to bug bites, i dont know if they have misquito bugs in Hong Kong?) i get goosebump like red spots on my body and they itch sometimes and they never go away but they dont really bother me,,, maybe try to put neosporen or hydroporoxide or whatever on them and see if it helps.
Hope i helped
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Latley I have been feeling like i have no use in the world. I feel like i have no talents like the actors and models and singers do. I think it might be depression, which my mother has, so it does run in the family, but i don't think it is so bad that i need medication. I'm just sad, all the time. I want to do something like model or act so i wont feel so useless, but i dont think i would ever get the oppertunity to. I dont cut and i never thought of killing myself so dont worry about that. My main questions are
1.Is this depression, or something else?
2.Should i see a doctor or something?
plz answer soon
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i think it is, but one of the things i do is not identify myself as something in fact if i think i have something such as depression i might actually make up symptoms to prove to myself i do have it, so maybe you dont your just worrying to much?
Ok and dont use the celebs as a example to rate yourself by if you look at them they have normal lives like you and strengths and weaknesses in fact you'd probably be suprised that alot of celebs suffer from depression 2, and that you have talents they would only dream of having, you just have to dig deep to find them, like are you a people person, visit at nursinghomes or join some cool clubs and learn a new talent
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I don't get it. I'm a smart guy but I can't get over her. Its been almost a year, and I can only think about her- the girl that I was going to marry. She's gone now- and I'm miserable. I'm exhausted, on the verge of tears, and all I want to do is "leave las vegas".
What can I do to help with this pain? (link)
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Your brain may be smart, but it is always different with your heart, i apologize about the girl leaving you. I think its time for you to do some serious moping binge eating etc. and then tell yourself: ok im going to get over it theres nothing i can do about it so its over, im going to get back to life and get over my emotions, and when you feel ready date again, though there is never a gaurantee that the person will stay.
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Hey what are some fun and safe games for kids from 1-7?Or some good websites about babysitting. (link)
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i suggest googling that and also americangirl.com has babysitting tips if memory serves me right.
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so i have this really good friend i mean we're practically the same person... we do everything together. but she always like takes my other friends and i kinda feel like she'd just using me to get more.. like all of my friends from years past she\'s like super nice too... she\'s even really good friends with my cousin now and she tells my cousin more than me! i feel like we're falling apart... i don't know if i'm being ridiculous but she's done this to like 6 of my good friends and now they are all closer to her than to me. i know friendship isn't a competition but i don't know if this is normal. (link)
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it sounds to me either she is manipulative and uses you, or you are a whiny little immature kid who needs a life and shes more fun so they like her better if its not the second its probably the first
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okay so when i was like 12 i got these like lumps in both my breasts nd like ima size 36D now nd im petrefied to tell my paretns because im scared like my boobs are guna have to get liek cut off or like its breast cancer .. can someone help me ? (link)
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ok i am C and i have 2 lump like things but there soft and squishy my mom tells me there like my nipple developement anyway my doctor says im fine:
even if your scared tell your parents, if it is breast cancer it is better they catch it now then when your dead or something
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okay so ive been friends with this girl since we were 2 .. the past 2 years we got closer tho like best friends .. nd then this year she got a boyfriend nd she complelty ditched me nd my 2 other best friends [ this isnt the first time shes done this ] nd now they broke up nd shes like wanting to become best friends again but i dont feel like i should be bcz shes just guna feel like she can do it again next boyfriend .. but like ive known her over 14 years like i dont know .. help? :] (link)
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dont ditch her, just tell her how you feel without blowing up, and let her hang out with the guys just tell her you want some girl time and respect her wanting to be with guys and support her because she broke up with this guy thats probably difficult on her
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15/f
what are some cute, subtle ways to flirt. like i dont want to get in front of a guy and act all slutty. i want to show someone that i like them, but not oo obvious. haha its weird. but thank you (link)
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not weird at all, swing your hips alittle more, stick your shoulder blades back basically showing your boobs off more and give them little smiles and then look down at the floor again and then look up and keep repeating that...
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Hey,
I am Canadian and I might want to go to university in America. I was wondering if I still have to take the SATs?
Thanks (link)
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yep as far as i know
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So I'm 5'1" and 150 pounds. I really need to lose weight, however, I am an emotional eater and I can't give up food. I seem to always be eating even if I don't want to be...just because I'm bored or I'm depressed.
I really need help in how to stop emotional eating. (link)
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i suggest reading the book choclotherapy its available in most libaries and book stores it would definitely help u
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yeah so its summer and i haven't seen my very best freind for two weeks almost... and we're both home. last time i even talked to her was monday night and we were gonna go shopping but rides didnt work out and she hasn't called me since. i left her a message that was like heyy i miss you and she never said anything back. she hangs out with other people that aren't as good as friends with her but not me... and she sees them all the time. we're supposed to go on vacation with eachother soon too and i'm just like what is going on? also-- she drinks and i don't b/c i got caught so i can't do that w/ her anymore and she does it with new friends but like... that doesn't mean we can't hang out at all right? heeelp me =[ (link)
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it sounds like shes under the influence of peer pressure, just try to be a good friend and keep messaging her just because shes hanging out with bed friends dosent mean you need to be one...
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I've never smoked before, I've been with people when they have. I've always wanted to try it, I love the smell of smoke. Call me crazy, I know. I still don't want to get into trouble for smoking, but lately its all I think about! I've wanted a ciggarette; its like I'm addicted but I've never even tried it! Whats going on? (link)
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its called peer pressure, sometimes your friends pressure you sometimes you pressure yourself, i know how it is i really want to try drugs but im not going to, just remember what they do to your body and your bf/gf will not appreciate lip locking with a smoker, try to think about something else and set goals about how long you can go without thinking about it but dont set goals you know your going to fail
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what's that store called that sells that fake jewlery, it's called Glitsonaires or something but when i type that into google it gives me no results. i know i'm spelling it wrong, but does anyone know the correct spelling for this store? (link)
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try ask.com that might help, just type glitsonaires in or if that dosent work type fake jewlery store wherever you live etc.
hope you find it!
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im not realy good in relationships i usualy screw up and we dont last very long i need some tips im 15/m http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=Israelb13 thas my web hit me up to give me advice. thaks .:clowny:. (link)
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hmm... toughie, maybe because your a male you are to hormonal and you are to shovey, also maybe you stink, uh obnoxious, theres nothing i hate more then a guy who is so full of himself he thinks hes better than me... it also depends on like deep phsycholigical relationships... in other words look at your mom and dads relationship you might find out some of the reasons your having problems... just as an afterthought i was not telling you you stink or that you are obnoxious i was saying dont be those things
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