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2 friends in fight, me stuck in middle
So at the end of the school year i because friends with this girl named alex.. me and alex became pretty close and we hang out alot... and talk on the phone liek everyday...In becomeing friends with alex i met this girl named Kelsey.. me and kelsey began to talk and it was one of those thiongs where it was liek instant trust and we started to tell eachother everything... well alex and kelsey got into a huge fight bacause alex said kelsey was to clingy..and there friendship kinda stopped... and when i told alex i was going to hang out with kelsey she seemed liek upeset about it and was like "shes goign to cling to you and shes goign to make it a battele between her and i to see who hangs out with you"
I kinda feel in the middle of this fight and i dont know what to do .... i really wanna be friends with kelsey.. but i kinda of seel that i have to be soly friends with alex because idont want to make any1 mad.. i would like to be friends with both of them but i dont know if that will work!!
What do i do!!??!?
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Honestly they just need to accept the fact that you wanna be friends with both of them. You need to straight up tell them that you are gonna still be friends with whomever and if they don't accept then then there not very good friends. You tell them that they can hate each other as much as they want but your still gonna be friends.
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Just explain to both of them that even if they don't want to be friends you can still be friends with both of them. And Don't listen when they talk crap about eachother. Don't tell one what the other said about her either, that will only start more drama. It is possible to remain friends with them, and who knows maybe they will work out their differences and become friends again.
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okay....i think you should stay calm....and don't let them bother you...just try too realise witch one is the one you trust more...or watever...than tell her how you feel...then after that...maybe....sit down and talk about it together!!!all three of yall okay....trust me iv'e gone through kindas a things like this okay!!
sighned,
~happy~
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its there fault they dont like each other not yours, tell them if they want to argue or whatever not to drag you into it and if this 3 way relationship is important to you then i suggest calmy telling both of them how you feel about them argueing and you wish theyd get back together and then try to get them to meet if that dosent work then i suggest just be friends with both if they cant handle that then maybe you need new friends
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