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my best friend steals all my other friends
so i have this really good friend i mean we're practically the same person... we do everything together. but she always like takes my other friends and i kinda feel like she'd just using me to get more.. like all of my friends from years past she\'s like super nice too... she\'s even really good friends with my cousin now and she tells my cousin more than me! i feel like we're falling apart... i don't know if i'm being ridiculous but she's done this to like 6 of my good friends and now they are all closer to her than to me. i know friendship isn't a competition but i don't know if this is normal.
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i had the same problem...i recomend ending your friendship with her, thats what i did and since then everythings been much better.
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hey, well i wouldnt call her your best friend at all. if all she does is bring you down, cause you problems, and makes you feel worse about yourself, she actually isnt a friend at all. friends are suppose to help you and make you feel better about yourself. its not normal at all.
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although you feel as if she is a good friend, is it possible that she doesnt see you as a friend, but as a tool... if she were really your friend she wouldnt feel a need to have what you have, she wouldnt let you suffer like that, and she would at least feel guilty...
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it sounds to me either she is manipulative and uses you, or you are a whiny little immature kid who needs a life and shes more fun so they like her better if its not the second its probably the first
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