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best / xbest friend
okay so ive been friends with this girl since we were 2 .. the past 2 years we got closer tho like best friends .. nd then this year she got a boyfriend nd she complelty ditched me nd my 2 other best friends [ this isnt the first time shes done this ] nd now they broke up nd shes like wanting to become best friends again but i dont feel like i should be bcz shes just guna feel like she can do it again next boyfriend .. but like ive known her over 14 years like i dont know .. help? :]
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my opinion is if she can't balance her friends and her boyfriend then she shouldn't have a boyfriend at all, i mean friends come first.
but if you still want to be bestfriends with her then give her another chance but make sure she knows that if she ditches you again, that she needs to find a new bestfriend.
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I think that you guys can be friends just not necessarily "Best Friends." Tell her in a calm matter that you like her but that she keeps on hurting you because she ditches you. And if she gets mad at you after this then I really dont think she deserves you.
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hey, well this is a normal thing that pretty much all girls with boyfriends go through, especially if her bestfriends ARENT friends with her current boyfrined. i actually went through the same thing a few months ago. i was really close to my boyfriend and not so close to my friends. its something that girls have to learn. they have to learn that theres a time for boyfriends and a time for friends and sometimes balancing them out can be difficult. give her another chance, but let her know that its not cool and for it too not happen again. maybe tell her some of the things that i said to you.
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dont ditch her, just tell her how you feel without blowing up, and let her hang out with the guys just tell her you want some girl time and respect her wanting to be with guys and support her because she broke up with this guy thats probably difficult on her
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