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my best friend is avoiding me....?
yeah so its summer and i haven't seen my very best freind for two weeks almost... and we're both home. last time i even talked to her was monday night and we were gonna go shopping but rides didnt work out and she hasn't called me since. i left her a message that was like heyy i miss you and she never said anything back. she hangs out with other people that aren't as good as friends with her but not me... and she sees them all the time. we're supposed to go on vacation with eachother soon too and i'm just like what is going on? also-- she drinks and i don't b/c i got caught so i can't do that w/ her anymore and she does it with new friends but like... that doesn't mean we can't hang out at all right? heeelp me =[
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i think ypu should talk to her about this and let her know how you feel, if she is a true friend she will understand where your coming from. plan to ahng out with her she will realise how much she misses you and if not then when you two are on vacation, spanding that time together will remind her how much fun you are and how much she missed you. xoxox
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I hate to say this, but if she is your true best friend she wouldn't treat you like this...
i am having a situtation like yours my best friend hangs out with other people like all the time i see her once a week, but we still talk everyday, so whatever.
but the thing is you need to confront her about it.
then set up something like a hang out time for just you and her.
no one else
she'll remember how much she missed you.
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hey, well shes not your bestfriend if she wont even hangout with you. i agree with the girl below. peer pressure is definately a part of this whole issue. you have to just wait it out. on the vaction, be a GOOD influence on her. during it, maybe youll rub off on her and will become close again. dont give up. be there for her whenever she needs you. =]
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it sounds like shes under the influence of peer pressure, just try to be a good friend and keep messaging her just because shes hanging out with bed friends dosent mean you need to be one...
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