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Alright I like this kid so much, and I'm ready to ask him out. I want to ask him out, but I don't really know how. I mean, I just don't know exactly what to say to him. What are some ways that I can ask him without sounding corny or cliche? Easy 5's.

14/f if that helps.

dont go on and on and on and on and on. make it short and to the point. just be like "hey i think you're really cool. do you wanna go out with me?" this is a better way for a girl to ask the guy.

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one of 'system of a downs' songs is called B.Y.O.B what does that stand for/mean?

bring your own beer. you'll see it a lot on party invites. = )

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so my parents are driving me crazy. i know what your thinking. this is normal... right? well, this time it is really eating at me. they took all of my friends away except for three of them that are unrelated to any of the other ones. i really cant take it. theyve took away my best friend, and alot of others. i just hate it. i need someone to go to for help on this... and there just isnt anyone who would be able to sit and listen to me. i cant go to my parents, obviously. they wont cave in and say its ok for me to be with any of my friends, since they think theyre all a bad influence on me. please help.

how can your parents "take away" your friends? i mean you go to school, they dont. you choose your friends, they dont. period. be friends with who you want and who cares what they say.

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I am a shy teen girl in high school and I recently meet a guy and I felt an instant connection, but I'm not sure if he did. It seems like he likes me but I'm not sure. He has asked me about my interests and I've caught him looking my way in the corner of my eye more than a couple of times, it seems like he kind of does that to everyone else though. I just don't want to be shut down. Should I make a move and also how so?

get to know him a little better first. if you still feel the connection, then tell him how you feel. if he likes you, he'll tell you then, and most likely ask you out. otherwise, stick to being friends if he doesnt like you like that. don't get upset over it either. there's always someone else who would love to be with you. much love.

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My friend stopped speaking to me beacuse of her other friend. I tried to apoligize but it didn't work. We haven't spoken in like 6 months and I never see her anymore because she moved. What would you do in this situation? What do you think of my friend?

wait, so what did YOU apologize for. you didn't do anything. sorry, but you're "friend" sort of sounds like a bitch. if she comes out and apologizes you should forgive her, otherwise do nothing.

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I married and we we wont a chaild ,but the doktor say that here egs is not caming out to mix with male 1 is OK he sead pls help how we get the answer pls

girl you need to learn to write. then maybe someone will be able to answer your question.

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I think I might like my ex boyfriends best friend. I don;t now what to do. I still like my ex but I think I may like his friend more. what should I do. If you have ever had a problem like this please tell me what you did. thanks.

i went ahead and went out with my ex BF's bestie. lol sorry buddy, but sometimes life sucks. = )

p.s-you are single now! i mean, you should be able to date who you want!

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hey
wats a good IM name to have???
heres some words i like:
pink, love, cherry, juicy, hate, hell, red
n ma name is emma lol
thanks in advance ♥ ◊

cherryxlove
juicylovex3
xemmax
iheartpink
omgitsemma
toojuicyforu22
juicyxcherry
hellred05
pinkislove5
echerry35
juicyemma3
thisxisxlove
youLOVEemma
goxtoxhell8
cherryred09
OMG emmas on

hope you like. = )

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does anyone know when the 10th season of friends is coming out?

november 15th! = )

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Hey everyone, first off if your answerign this, dont give me some stupid answer or some unhelpful information cuz i really need some help. I have a really big problem with cussing. I really cant help it sometimes, its really hard and i cannot stop cursing. It feels real bad when i do it but sometimes it feels like it comes natural. wat can i do? i really dont know how to stop

swearing is really unattractive. it's ok to do it every now and then, but all the time it's not. when you get angry or really really mad, just step back for a second and think before you say something. swearing is a REALLY hard habit to break once your really into it. start changing some of your words around. for example...

damn/damnit-dang, shoot, crap
shit-" "+shiettt, shiz
bitch-jerk, biatch, b, anything else you call someone
fuck up-screw up, screw over, ruin, etc

..you get the idea.

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ok so i spilled snaple on my ipod and i have some more questions...i am getting a werid message about the fire wire conncetion and how it is not supported...does that connect with the spill? and also now my comp will not let me download songs because it does not recidnize the ipod.HAVE I TOTALLY RUINED MY NEW IPOD? plz help me!

the same exact thing happened to me. if you got your ipod i think it's like within the last 6 months or year or something, then they will replace it for FREE. they'll only do it if you payed with credit card though. otherwise your just going to need to get it replaced.

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Ok i'm 13/f n i'm in 8th grade. i haven't met a new guy in a while, but today on the bus there's this cute guy my age and he's rlly cool and i really want to impress him, even if i find out i don't like him i still need sum new guy frends (i go to an all girls school)so tomorrow i want to lik impress him n stuff.....so i need some advice on lik how i shud act n how i shud do my hair n make-up (im 5 feet 0inches, brown hair, brown eyes) I rate high.

-Paris-

wear your hair down! straighten it. do your makeup really pretty. there are some good makeup tips at www.seventeen.com then go to beauty. also just be really fun and nice and kind of flirty. WEAR YOUR CUTEST OUTFIT! (like a denim mini skirt would be cute with any cute top) boys love mini skirts. = ) good luck.

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How can you get someone deleted on myspace? This girl was harassing me, and then she got MY account deleted! I want to get her deleted so all is fair, how can I do it? Pleeeease help, i'll rate 5's!

you can't get there account deleted. unless they do something really bad like put porn on their site. but if she was harassing you then you can turn her in at the main myspace page and i think they'll do something about it.

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does anyone know where i can get cute quotes and things for my profile?

anyone who is helpful will get 5's!

thanks-

http://www.xanga.com/qu0tes_oox
http://www.xanga.com/gRiNd_wiTh_mEex3

both of these xanga site have the cutest quotes i have ever seen.

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I am getting my nose pierced and for all those that have had it done can you tell me if it hurts or not.

doesnt hurt as much as other piercings. just make sure you really want it because if you want to take it out and keep it out, it leaves a scar and it looks pretty ugly. (like a zit on your nose)

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my boyfriend and i are in a weird situation. we barely talk and i want to get closer. and he thinks i'm cheating on him with his best friend.

i can't really explain my feelings, so i decided i should make him a mixtape(well, cd)

sooo..

any songs about regaining a love that faded
and/or letting someone know you don't love anyone else more than them?

DON'T MAKE THE CD!! he's your boyfriend!! you just need to talk with him...

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For some odd reason I am sometimes not physically attracted to my boyfriend ive had this problem before but is this normal? I mean he’s not at all a bad looking guy but its just sometimes I just catch my self saying (in my mind) eww! But I feel really bad because I love him and he is really in love with me and I can’t seem to stop this

Is there something Wrong with me?? Or does every girl have this problem??

nothings wrong with you. not every guy out there is going to look like brad pitt. = ) you can be in love and not be attracted to someone. it's definitely normal, and it happens all the time.

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There is this really beutiful, really nice girl at my school. I really like her but I don't know if she likes me back. I got her phone number and called her a few times, but she could just be being nice. How can I tell if she likes me back. She looks at me alot and I look at her alot. But I still can't tell. How can I tell????!!!!!!

straight up you need to ask her how she feels about you. tell her how you feel about her, then if you both feel the same, ASK HER OUT! = )

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OK i am 13/m and about a month ago my gf broke up with me (she said she wanted to go back out with her ex) well i was extremely sad for maybe a day or 2. then after a week i didnt really care anything about it. Well last week (about 3 weeks after me and my ex broke up) I started feeling weird, like my heart was gone and i felt that i like couldnt care or love anybody anymore and i still feel that way. My friend says its juvenile depresion and i think it is too but i just dont know what caused it and i hate the feeling! And the weird thing is that i have like 14 girls that want to go out with me and normally i would pick on and move on but.....its just like i dont care anymore...please help me guys....i dont know what to do! :'(

i don't think you're going through depression, you're just still in love. (with your ex GF) breakups are hard in the beginning, but you're just going to need to learn to move on. who knows, maybe if you're not in such a crappy mood all the time, your ex GF may come back to you if that's what you really want. otherwise, take some time and be single, then go out with some new girls. it will help you get over her.

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Ok.. I'm 18 Years Old... Im Female Of Course.... I'm Like 5'6 Or 5'7 I weigh anywhere between 120 and 135.. I never stay the same weight... For my question... I want to go on a diet! I feel fat... I look at myself in the mirror.. I see Fat! And I cant stand it! What are some diets I can try that might actually work... I heard the eating small meals durin the day.. but what would i put into those small meals to eat... I work from 12 to 5*30 so its hard to keep up with that.. but thats what I would like to do... hope someone can help!!!

your weight is average. you are not fat at all. if you do feel like you need to lose some pounds though, all you need to do is eat smaller portions, drink lots and lots of water, workout (depending on where you want to lose the fat, it depends on the workout, but i would just suggest running), DONT SNACK!!, and get plenty of rest. = )

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