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Haven't Spoken
My friend stopped speaking to me beacuse of her other friend. I tried to apoligize but it didn't work. We haven't spoken in like 6 months and I never see her anymore because she moved. What would you do in this situation? What do you think of my friend?
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i tihnk its kinda dumb she stopped talkin to you for that but if it really is that important to you she mustve been a good friend so write her a letter and tell her exactly how you feel and hope for the best.
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Drop her shes not worth it.. obviously she didnt think you were worth it.. because she chose someone else over you, and if shes one of your really good friends, than you need to rethink your closeness, and no offense but why would u apologize to her, she did the wrong to you, you didnt do anything bad to her... hope that helped x0 Melissa
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She doesnt sound like a very good friend. I think that you should find a friend that treats you with respect and true friend forgive no matter what they do. At least thats what i believe. You sound like a really nice person who shouldnt put up with a person like her. She sounds upset but 6 onths you would think she would at leats forgive you. The best thing is to hope that she forgives you someday. Maybe proving that you are sorry will help but you should never give up if you want to keep you. If you keep trying you will eventually convince her.
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My friend did the same thing to me for a couple of days...but not months! We made up...it was a misunderstanding. But, in your situation I advise you not to make an effort anymore. Yuo apologized and tried to talk to her and all she's doing is pushing you away. If she hasen't make an effort to say she's sorry or something then she is no good friend. Why even call her a friend? If it was because of this other friend that she won't talk to you then maybe she is hearing rumors or afraid to talk to you. I would just be your normal self and say hi to her sometimes and if she mumbles hi or says nothing well, it is life. Like you said she moved so if you say hi in a e-mail, letter etc. and if she just mumbles forget about it. Good friends will always saty and bad friends will be left behind. Do not be intemidated by her! Be yourself and find some other friends that deserve to know who you are. That is my advice.
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I think that if your friend will stop talking to you for someone else she obviously isn't that great of a friend. People dezerve better and you certainly do too. Get a friend who will treat you like a true friend not like this other "friend" of yours. If I were in that situation which I am (I now only talk to about 2 of my friends) I'd carry on and find people that enjoy my company and the same way around.
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I dont think your friend is much of a friend to tell you the truth because even though her other friend told her something or whatever she sould still talk to you and be your friend nomatter what...so maybe you should still try to talk to her but if it doesnt work then just forget it she wasnt a good friend and you could do better...i hope everything works out for the best
your friend,
Jess
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wait, so what did YOU apologize for. you didn't do anything. sorry, but you're "friend" sort of sounds like a bitch. if she comes out and apologizes you should forgive her, otherwise do nothing.
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First of all we need to know what you said to her. This is important and will indicate whether or not what you said would ruin a friendship outright. You must have said something really horrible for her not to talk to you for this length of time. I need to know just what you said to furter help you. Can you add it to your question and hit edit?
I think the best thing to do is call her and say "I know I did X and really hurt your feelings. I was not thinking then and have learned from it now. I really do appreciate your friendship and hope we can patch things up."
As for her moving why not visit her if not too far or vice-versa? You need to patch things up and if she won't have that then it's her loss no matter how hurt. She has to realize people say things in the heat of the moment about one another during a fight.
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