ok, me and my girlfriend have decided we want to have sex, the only probleam is i am not sure how i am going to get my hands on a condom, i am 13, and don't give me stuff saying im too young or anything cause we have made up are mind, im just not sure how i can get my hand on some condoms. can i just buy them? what? and also what kind should i get?
did you both decide or did you just decide that? sometimes people just go along with something because they won't want to lose someone.
you can buy condoms anyway. doesn't matter what age.
please make sure she is ready.
so she doesn't feel like she made a mistake.
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Hey iam a 17 female and I just found out that one of my friends that i've been best friends since 2nd grade is bisexual and I don't know what to do is it ok for me to still be friends with her or what?my mom's very prejedice against people who are gay and bi and she told me not to associate with them,but she's my best friend and I don't think I can stop being friends with her all at once what should I do?
you are your own person.
you shouldn't have to follow your mom's belief.
especially if the girl is your best friend.
it won't hurt you to be friends..
you just don't tell your mom.
if she finds out, tell her it was just a stupid rumor or something.
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ok so whats a guys idea of the perfect girlfriend.....
Well yeah the first two columnists are wrong.
Not all guys think that.
A perfect girlfriend can be anyone to any guy.
It's not about looks, popularity, or being blonde.
- good hygiene. :]
- a sense of humor
- be a little openminded
- don't be "clingy" [this is one of the things that annoy them, just hang out with your friends if you can't see him]
-being interested in some thing they like [music, movies, art, video games ?] so you both can enjoy it together.
- communication is a big thing.
- willing to go out and have fun [like going to the beach] but i guess that depends on the guy
I don't know.. this is what I've noticed.
don't listen to someone who tells you.. the perfect girlfriend LOOKS -like this-
because you don't need a guy like that. It's all about personality. Looks are a plus and I know, he will think you're beautiful in his eyes.
I'm pretty sure a guy wouldn't want a "hot girl" that's always bitchy, you know?
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ok this is my first year of high school an i am really scared cause i dont know how the kids at the school will act some of the kids be picking or teasing the freshman wat shall i do
they wont tease you. they know better than that. the upperclassmen are nice. whatever stories you heard... is just to scare you. highschool is fun. you have to be happy and enjoy it.
but from what i heard from the upperclassmen is.. that they hate the freshmen acting like they're better than everyone else or cool. it's just annoying. don't be like that. they will want to bring you down, embarrass you, etc.
but if you're just being yourself, getting out of their way then you will be fine.
don't let it worry you :]
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next year im going to high school. the seniors initiate all of the freshmen. has anyone been initiated before? what did they do to you? please help. im scared to go to high school.
most of the seniors don't care about the freshmen. it's all about making things up to scare you. they didn't do anything to me or anyone i knew.
they're too mature for stupid things. they left us alone.
the seniors are nice.
don't be scared. they think it's funny. nothing happens to you. if you act like you're "so cool". it will annoy people. and it would make SOMEONE.. want to bring you down and embarrass you.
so just hang out with your friends and be happy. they won't do anything.
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I heard sme feedback from my friends that although in porn girls like crazy 11 inch dicks, in real life the girls I talked to say that all they feel is pain when guys with 7 to 8 inch dicks have sex with them.They can't really feel pleasure but just a painful feeling and it also is harder for them to blow, and it's a disadvantage for the guy as well because he won't get to have his whole dick covered.
While some girls in my class said that guys with relatively small, maybe 4 to 5 inch dicks are good because they hit the g-spot which happens to be where the head of the dick goes to, so in other words, it's like a joystick.So which is it?I'm confused.
Guys that are big, sometimes it gets to their heads. And they do rough and hard. It's not that pleasureable. It.. goes in farther than it should. If you're big and you have "skills" to make it enjoyable, then it's good.
But if you have 4-5 inch dick it's perfect for hitting the g-spot.
It depends on the girl. Sometimes they like pain.
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My mother just ordered ProActiv Solution for me and i want to know approximately how long it will take to clear up my minimal acne. I only weant answers from people who have tried it or who have a friend who has tried it. I hear it's fast and works miracles, but school starts in 4 weeks and i need to clear up my acne!
It depends on the person. I used it once and I saw good results in about a week. And later, it just didn't work. You have to follow the instructions carefully. I tried it again and my face was clear the first time I tried.
You can get good results in about 3 days to a week. [But it also depends on how your acne is]
In a month, your face should be okay.
Just don't stop using it. I heard your acne can come back worse.
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Well, before the "in" thing was prep. Right? Well, now everyone is like be "original." Now, Original is becoming UnOriginal. I really don`t know what to do. Because I meen I want to be myself, and stand out. Before I was PREPPREPPREPPREP. & then I decided I wanted to become original because I got sick of everything. But, now, everyone wants to be Original, and its like a new trend. Original is suppose to be original!! not a TREND. I really dont know what to do anymore. I just want to be myself. 14/f.
ps im a REALLY bad speller
I really don't see any people that are original. It's so rare when someone is really being their self and being comfortable with it.
Being original is really not a trend. People are just repeating what the populars are doing. Not cool or original at all.
Being yourself is doing what you like, being who you are and you aren't afraid to be it.
It's not about what others think or how you show yourself.
Just do what you like to do. If you like to draw, then show people your art. If you like to sing and dance, then go out and randomly do that. If you like to mix up your clothes [different colors] then do it.
Everyone stands out. It just depends on the person. For example, someone that's hyper would notice someone who is like their self. You know? Just because not everyone is noticing you, doesn't mean nobody is.
I guess being original is not trying to be original. It's just.. who you are.
You don't care what others think and you do what you enjoy. You're not afraid to show people this other side of you.
But lately people are trying so hard, everything is so old.
Just enjoy who you are right now.
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ok-
I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin?
It's not wrong. You have control. Be proud you don't /whore/ yourself around. [Especially 11 year olds?!]
And well, people can lie too. They probably are virgins and just hear stuff, spread it around. I don't see why they would think it's cool though.
There's so many things to think about with sex. Birth control, other protection, STDs, getting checked out for STDS, you have to know when you're going to have your period.
Bah, and they are probably aren't as healthly as you think.
Losing your virginity is something special. The young teens are just throwing that away.
Keep it for that special someone :]
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Here is my story:
I am trying to throw away all unnecessary things I own.
I have a lot of junk and it could be put to use by someone else.
By eliminating, I plan on having a very spacious room and I want to have such little stuff that it will be possible to move easily.
By throwing away practically my whole room, this problem will be solved.
Here are my only dilemas:
Should I keep the TV in my room?
I keep it there so that when people come over, we can watch movies in bed.
The problem is, I dont watch that much TV, and it takes up a lot of space along with the DVD player.
My other problem is that I have a box full of stuffed animals in my closet. I dont know what to do with them.
If you have your friends over a lot then maybe you should keep it for watching movies.
And you can either throw the stuffed animals away. Or decorate your room with them?
Put them on a desk, bookshelves, on your bed, under your bed?
Pin them to your wall?
My friend has got this net thingy that she pinned in the top corner of her room.
She puts all her stuffed animals up there.. It hangs nicely.
Or Have a little yard sale with them?
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im 13 and i dont know if this is normal or not you see my penis kinda leans to the right but i dont know if its normal or not and if it is wont a gurl think its wierd
I'm a girl but
I've read a lot of stuff in my sex ed/biology class.
So
the angle of your penis is genetic.
it's normal for it to lean and it's not a problem.
I'm sure girls won't think it's weird.
Because I think a lot of other guys have it too so it's nothing "weird"
It's just how it grew.
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hi i was wondering if anyone knows how to do anything like these pictures:
http://i5.tinypic.com/20qc977.png
http://i5.tinypic.com/20qc9e1.png
http://i5.tinypic.com/20qc9k1.png
anyhelp would be verry appreciated
Do you have a graphic program?
Something like that.
Paint shop pro 7 is what I use.
Free trial @ jasc.com
You get your photos.
You click the crop button [hover over buttons to see the name]
You click in a corner and stretch out.
Then on the right there's a little window [Tool Options] and a button that says "Crop Image"
So click it.
--Do that to any other photos.--
Then you click the paintbrush on the set of tools.
The box on the side "Tool Options"
Right below the X [where you close the little window]
There's a paintbrush you click
Go to custom and there are brushes you could use to make your photos all fancy.
But..
You need to download some good brushes.
Search through google.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=paint+shop+pro+7+brushes+download
This one has brushes.
It tells you how to install it.
http://www.magitek-designs.net/brushes/index.php?page=brushes_list
And yeah
The line with the pencil button.
"Draw"
You can write or draw whatever you want. Messing around with the tools.
I hope I helped.
If not, I could explain better.
Most people use photoshop but I don't have money for that.
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When you have sex for the first time does it hurt so bad that you would actually cry?
It depends on the girl.
But you need to trust the guy. If he's doing it rough, well yeah.. that would hurt.
But if you are relaxed and the guy is taking it slow... it shouldn't "hurt so bad"
I guess it depends on how tight the girl is and how big the guy is.
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okay last night this kid gave me a hickey. how long do they usually last & is there a way to get rid of them? and what is the point of a hickey? like what does it do?
it depends on how dark it is. sometimes it lasts a week or maybe 2 days.
you can put ice on it or try to cover it up with makeup.
a hickey is just a guy's way of saying "you are his"
or that he has a fetish for sucking/biting a neck? haha.
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Me and my boyfriend are getting closer ..I think i love him because everytime i am around him i am very very nervous about what i will sya how i look and how i act and i get butterflies in my stomache and when i tell him i love him he says it bak and it feels right with everyother guy that tiold me tha ti felt really weird but i never said it bak to them if i did i said it fast so do i love him????I am 13 and a girl..
Sounds like puppy love?
All these people are telling you.. you can't question love. They most likely don't know what it is.
You may love him... have really strong feelings for him
But you may not be "In love with him"
Something a little more serious though.
If that makes sense.
Just show him you care.
Be aware you might get hurt.
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ok.. like.. i get really hyper. & like yesterday, i was at the carnival, & i was like idno, fulling around. & like, my one friend is so quiet, & shy. & im more outgoing & everything. soo, should i change? & be more like her? or should i stay the way i am? i dont want to like annoy someone. & how can i stop acting so hyper sometimes?
Just be yourself.
That's all that matters.
I bet your friend enjoys your outgoing and loud self though.
I'm like that. I'm really quiet but I love to be around my loud friends.
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is it normal for a person to get really bad urges to masterbate and is it normal to masterbate if youve never had sex?
yes and yes.
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Last july i met this guy at my church. ever since that day ive liked him alot. Wednesday my church youth group had this get together & he was there. But he had this girl with him. i got really jealous and upset about him bringing a girl around me.
He knows i like him alot & he has known for atleast 5 months. At the time i told him he had a girlfriend but they broke up 2 days after i told him. On myspace hes always posting bulletins about how he hates seeing those happy couples around kissing anding hugging eachother. He hates it because hes not with a girl.
I dont understand him because i want him more than anything. He says that no girl really likes him when he likes a girl. He cant always get tht girl he likes he should give the that likes him a chance.
I hate when he post these bulletins because he makes me feel sort of invisible.
Me and him never hang out. We talk online & at church. I want him to talk to me more then just that.
I feel like im holding on to liking him for no reason. He post all these bulletins about how he cant find a Girl to be happy with. Should i say anything to him? Or just give up on wanting to be closer to him?
im 17/f
hes 19/m
thank you.
I think he's implying something. Like he wants you to make the first move. Ask him to go to the movies, just randomly ask it.
Or that you want to hang out.
I think you just need to talk to him about how girls probably like him and everything, he just doesn't see it. Kinda thing.
You need to make the first move.
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I'm 18 and I've been told plenty of times that I have the face of a 15-16 year old. I wear enough makeup to try to enhance my features, hoping I'll look my age, but I must be doing something wrong. Any specific makeup tips or techniques that you might suggest I try? (Ex: Stay away from any colors, etc)?
Maybe go for lighter shades?
Well have you tried 'smokey eyes' before?
Maybe just use mascara on the top lashes?
But isn't look young good though?
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okay. so i just recently got out of a year long relationship, that was reallllly emotionally draining. and ive been trying to meet and get to know new people.
about a week ago, i started talking to someone i met last summer, and ive found myself realllyyy interested in him.
i asked him if hed ever like to go to dinner or see a movie with me, and he said " i would love to hang out wit u...thats a wicked good idea...i cant toay but ill talk 2 you later this week" (exact words)... its been a few days since then, and we still talk... he says things like "hopefully ill talk to you tomorrow" and "i love talking with you" and "we should deff. hang out soon".
soo my little problem is... i dont know if all this to him is the same as it is to me. sometimes he acts really interested and he even gave me his number and told me to call if i wanted to talk.. but other times i feel like im annoying him, and hes not really into it. its been a while since ive started a new relationship. and i dont know, i just need some guidance i suppose. i dont want to feel like an idiot and keep trying if hes not interested.. but a lot of the signs are telling me he is... im sooo confused!!! i dont know how he feels,, and i knowww its only been a week.. but does he seem like he lkes me in any way?
Yeah thats how I felt too.
Like i was annoying somebody.
But he really seems interested. Just give him some space... call every other night. But did you ever get to hang out yet?
You should and then you'll probably see if he's into you.
And when that happens, maybe ask if it's a date?
Or plan something romantic and see if he goes along.
[Like a dinner and walk through the park
Dinner and movie
or watch a movie @ your house/his]
He seems interested though.
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