Last july i met this guy at my church. ever since that day ive liked him alot. Wednesday my church youth group had this get together & he was there. But he had this girl with him. i got really jealous and upset about him bringing a girl around me.
He knows i like him alot & he has known for atleast 5 months. At the time i told him he had a girlfriend but they broke up 2 days after i told him. On myspace hes always posting bulletins about how he hates seeing those happy couples around kissing anding hugging eachother. He hates it because hes not with a girl.
I dont understand him because i want him more than anything. He says that no girl really likes him when he likes a girl. He cant always get tht girl he likes he should give the that likes him a chance.
I hate when he post these bulletins because he makes me feel sort of invisible.
Me and him never hang out. We talk online & at church. I want him to talk to me more then just that.
I feel like im holding on to liking him for no reason. He post all these bulletins about how he cant find a Girl to be happy with. Should i say anything to him? Or just give up on wanting to be closer to him?
im 17/f
hes 19/m
jumadel answered Friday July 21 2006, 9:46 pm: Hi, yes deffinitly talk to him. You need to hang out more with him and express yourself. Let him know that your interested by simply telling him how you feel. That way he will know. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
moonsthunder answered Friday July 21 2006, 5:33 pm: well if you really like him you will go for it.ask him to the moies or something like that.If he does not have a girlfriend and he keeps posting all these bulltins on myspace(i have a myspace also lol)then maby you should remind him that your still here and like him.send him a message.hope things go good!!!!!:) [ moonsthunder's advice column | Ask moonsthunder A Question ]
Xenolan answered Friday July 21 2006, 5:13 pm: From my point of view, it seems that he's essentially giving you your answer, and not in a polite or decent way I might add. He knows you like him, and he complains that he doesn't have a girlfriend. Unfortunately, putting 2 and 2 together in this case results inevitably with him not being interested in a relationship with you. It's regrettable that he can't be forthright enough to just tell you that.
queenhearts answered Friday July 21 2006, 3:49 pm: I think he's implying something. Like he wants you to make the first move. Ask him to go to the movies, just randomly ask it.
Or that you want to hang out.
I think you just need to talk to him about how girls probably like him and everything, he just doesn't see it. Kinda thing.
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