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I have a bi friend please help me
Hey iam a 17 female and I just found out that one of my friends that i've been best friends since 2nd grade is bisexual and I don't know what to do is it ok for me to still be friends with her or what?my mom's very prejedice against people who are gay and bi and she told me not to associate with them,but she's my best friend and I don't think I can stop being friends with her all at once what should I do?
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i know exactly how you feel on of my friends that i grew up with and i just found out she was bi and im still friends with her.. but anyway you should not even listen to your mom thats her problem that shes like that to people that are gay or bi if your friends with her and love her like a sister theres no reason for you to stop being friends with her she cant help the way she is the main reason is that she happy about the way she is and you should not give up such a good long friendship because of her being bi
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Get over it. Not everyone is straight. Tell that to your mother. Just stay friends with her. Sexuality differences is a really stupid reason to stop being friends with someone, especially when you've been friends for a really long time.
♥TiNA
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Why question whether to end a long term friendship because your friend is bisexual?
Of course it's still okay for you to be friends with her. It's highly unlikely she's going to try anything with you, if she knows you are clearly NOT bi, or interested for that matter.
Just forget you found out.
It won't change anything between you.
Also, think about what you say first, so she doesn't get offended if you accidently say the wrong thing. :)
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Don't worry about it, my best friend is also bi. Of course, I didn't tell my mom, so you might not want to either. She's still my best friend and we hang out just the same, I still respect her, but I just becareful of what I say around her. Just try to put that behind you, its not worth losing a great friendship.
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Don't worry about your mom...here is what do you need ask yourself
1)after your friend told you that she was bi..do you still want to be friends with her?
2)Do gays and bi people freak you out?
it shouldn't matter if your friend is gay bi or stright. As long as you get along have fun together that is all that should matter. As for your mom tell her that it shouldn't matter. she is your friend and she hould accpet her cuz she is your friend.
hoped i helped.
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you are your own person.
you shouldn't have to follow your mom's belief.
especially if the girl is your best friend.
it won't hurt you to be friends..
you just don't tell your mom.
if she finds out, tell her it was just a stupid rumor or something.
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hey, well no you shouldnt stop being friends with her. just dont tell your mom that shes bi and everything will be fine. my cousin is best friends with a girl thats bi. there usually nicer if you ask me.
-caitt♥
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My family is very close minded and think homosexual people are a disgrace and gross, and frankly I can't change their mind about that.
I haven't told my parents thatI might be bi and that my friends are: 2 gays, 1 lesbian, and t3 bi's.
I suggest you don't tell you parents and explain to your friend why.
And stay with her. You've been friends for a vbery long time and to ditch her for having a different sexual orientation is shallow.
It's perfectly fine to be friends with her. I don't see what the problem is. If you're afraid of her hitting on you, don't worry. She won't risk such a valuable friendship for an infatuation that won't work out.
Just stay with her and let her know that you don't mind her being bisexual. Let her know that you won't ditch or leave and she trusted you to know that she's bisexual because she thinks you will understand. Don't tell your parents and explain to your friend why so she doesn't take offense. If you do tell your parents, it may become a bad bad mess.
Remember, there is NOTHING wrong with being homosexual. So do not ditch her for being one because that is one of the shallowest thing a best friend could do
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