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My boyfriend treats me more like a friend. He says he loves me but he won't hold hands with me or kiss me or touch me at all. I know not everyone likes that stuff, but I just feel like I'm doing something wrong. I'm embarassed to talk about it. What should I say? Do you think I might offend him?

Why dont you just tell him that you have feelings for him and you dont wanna mess around if he wants to mess around maber you should just be friends
tell him that you love having a laugh with him some times but you would like him to be more romantic and sweet to you
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wut does cherrypoped mean.. im confused

there is think layer of skin on ur vagina and when you have sex it breaks which mean its been poped and that means your no longer a virgin
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i am 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m we are both virgins and we are in love with each other.. for sure .. i know what hes in this relationship for and i feel like having sex with him.. not to just f*ck but to share something with him that neither of us have experienced.. do you think this is a bad idea? do you think ill regret it? will peopel look at me differently?
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stonecoldmystery

I think you should go for it i dont think people will look at you differently because its a normal thing to do when you love some one and your ready and its no bodys buisness exept yours and your boyfriends and your 16 so theres another advantage
if your ready go for it
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I made a promise with one of my cusins I dont know if I can keep it you know ... the promise is to keep my virginity till I am married what should I do I love the guy I am with right now

Just because you love doesnt mean your willing to sleep with him do it when your ready as for ur cousin talk to him/her about it and tell her the situation about you and your boyfriend please rate honestly
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okay well im 14 and in the 8th grade i started my period in the 6th grade and i only go for 2 days every tiem i have it maybe 3 but i only had it moer then 3 like 2 other times in my life and they were really light.. im not a lil tiny girl but im not fat or anything im just a regular girl and i was wondering if its normal or not, i saw that there was someone else asking that but usally she has it for 5 she said i always have it for 2 :-/ i promise ill rate 5!

That sounds totally fine im on for 5 days just think your self lucky
if your worried go see a woman doctor or talk to your mum or friends
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I dont know if this is the right cateorgory but w/e. Ok well let me put it this way my classmates most of them are jerks. Well see the thin is i am smart like really smart and my classmates make fun of me for it because i get all 100% on my tests and quizzes. and they also hate the fact that when we have a huge test and we have to write stuff down i dont take notes because i rember it all and then i get higher grades then the people that wrote it all down. so i guess what i am asking is how can i get my class to stop annoying and makin fun of me because i am so smart.

Well i think you should just ignore them because there just jelious of you and its getting you down dont let them make you feel small
its just that they are idiots conpaired to you
so just ignore them
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well me and my bf have been goin out for like a little more than 2 months and we really like each other... but he seems shy when it comes to kissing or something...wat does this mean?

That hes shy you should make the first move
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so i was at school to day well pretty much like i am everyday and i realised that i really dont have any close friends sure ive got friends but no close friends i should really change that you no.but i dont know how

Why should you change for people be you and some one should like you for you
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ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby?

Go see the doctors for a scan

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omg one of my best friends is getting on my nerves. ok well her other best friend that isnt really close to me was getting on our nerves cuz she was following abbey (best friend) everywhere. and she always had to be the center of attention. then me and my friend started ignorring her and it made me loose alot of friends. now abbey is friends again with her...and i really dont want to loose abbey but what if she does that to me? i really need some help . ThanKs

Just talk to her about it
And tell her that this girl gets on your nerves and that you dont get on with her
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I want to stop biting my nails but I don't know how to. I've tried before and it never seems to work out. My mom tells me to sit on my hands but that doesn't work. I've tried chewing gum and yet I still bite them and my nails are too short to paint. I've even got my nails done before and when I take the fake nails off and my real ones are long they just break off. Any suggestions?

There is this spray you can spray on your nails so when you start biting them it tastes awful that will stop you
doing it
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Ok, there is this guy in my class. I really really like him, cuz hes a good guy and stuff. But each time I try to talk to him he just looks at me and turns red and acts like he doesnt even know me. Does he like me or does he just hate me?

I think he likes you but hes just embarrased To say anything why not invite him to the cinema
or somethin
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i was good friends with these 2 girls and they have been friends too. we would always hang out together..all friends, all happy. but lately they leave me out. like, they'll have each other over and put away messages up on AIM saying it. we were all supposed to see a movie together, then they went w/o me. its alomost like they do it on purpose. most people are saying i just need to drop them and get new friends, but when they do include me we have a lot of fun. i just get so confussed and mixed signals. please help (im 14, by the way)

I think you should leave them to it for a week and hang out with someone else they will soon see what there missing out and include you again or if not
just talk to them about it, and bout how you feel
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ok so me n my friend have been hangin out with each other a lot since the beggining of the year. u can eve consider us best friends. now all of a sudden she never calls me anymore, or wants to hang out. ts kinda like shes ignoring me. what is going on?

Why dont you just ring her

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well my bestfriend pressures me. she wanted me to spend the night last night but i was tired from a trip and did not get back till midnight. She is always getting mad at me for that stuff what should i do?

Tell thats somes times you just wanna spend time with your family
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is it okay to wear a black hat (like the french type of hats) when you're wearing a black dress, black sandals, and nude tights? and the dress is like 3 inches above the knee...

cute outfit go with the flow

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I fell in love with my best friend but its impossible for anything to happen between us because he's gay. I can't stop thinking about him and i really need help.

Well he cant help been gay mabe you could just be close friends because hes not into girls i take it if he were a bi than he might have a different opinion but the fact that hes gay
he just doesnt see you in that way
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hey i had my period and i dont wanna tell my mom. but how do i get the pads and tampons and stuff? and how do i explain it when i get cramps and stuff


help meeeee

I think it would just be easyer to tell her
she can help

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hi i hav never worn fake nails until today. I like wearing them but they feel sooo weird. Does the feeling go away or does it stay?

Nope you get used to it
after a few days or hours
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My sterio CD thing wont open. I have a Cd stuck in there and it won't open. i'm worried. Anyone know how i can get it to open? answer QUICKLY!

Get something to prive it open with mabe a knife or s tooth brush
lol
hope it works
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