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Okay.
So I have a boyfriend (but besides the point, I'm kinda crushing on another guy.)
Anyway,so me and my friend we're always together, and we're always hugging and just touching.
So today we were goofing around, and he was hugging me, and hehheh, I felt that he had a boner, cuz well I could feel it on my leg, ha.
So I don't really know about that stuff, does that mean he likes me? (link)
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In my opinion, he could like you OR he may have had his mind elsewhere or as the others have said -- easily excited. Here's some great info that will help you determine if he likes you (in general).
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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ok so i am dating this guy for the 3rd time adn i really really really like him!!!!! and everything has been great!!!!!! but just a couple of days ago we started to make out and ever since then he has been really rude to me and acting like a jerk adn canceling our plans at the last moment it is crazy
and i think he is thinking of breaking up but then hi s myspace is all i like i love her and never want to leave her and they are refering to me
so am i just jumping to conclusion???
help!!!!!!
softballbabe2610 (link)
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I think you are jumping to conclusions right now, there could be something going on at home or somewhere else that has him upset. I would wait for about a week, if nothing is better by then -- talk to him about it. I'm sure he'll be honeset with you and let you know what's going on.
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I've had the same one for forever and I'm sick of it!! But I can not seem to put my favourites/hobbies into something creative (not that I want everything in it.. hehe). Anyways, if anyone has anything interesting/exciting floating in their head.. please help me out!
My interests-
olivia newton-john, michelle pfeiffer, graphic design, soccer, freshman, fourteen, brunette, blue-eyed, bundle of joy, taken, old fashioned movies, text-aholic, wears hollister + abercrombie + american eagle, loves UGGs, prep.. idkkkk (link)
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*BrilliantBrunette
*Fresh4Life
*BlueSparkles
*HappilyTaken
*TextAholic
*SocialPrep
*StarbucksStruck (If you're also a fan of Starbucks)
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Ok I got 'Garnier Nutrisse Nourishing Multi-Lights"
you can put highlights in your hair.
and my hair is a dark brown, and yeah.
okay, if i do this, can i still straighten my hair?
and i just straighten the back of it, but i'm going to put highlights in theback too.
can i still straighten my hair?
and it's JUST highlights.
thanks! (link)
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I have highlights and straighten my hair all the time, so no worries. =)
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Ok well i want to get eye contacts my natural eye colour is brown on the outside dark green and soemtimes hazel :S.
I was thinking maybe grey ?
Well here are two pictures of me please tell me what colour you think would look good on me.
http://coookiieloove.piczo.com/?preview=y&cr=7&rfm=y (link)
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Grey would look great, I'd also recommend blue (only if you're going for a bold look).
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how do i get a guy
female
14 years old (link)
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Hi! I want you to take a look at this, it has useful information for you.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
And this link should be helpful for you too. =)
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/getabf.htm
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How old do you have to be to work a cash register? (link)
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This really depends where you're working at, so be sure to check with the company/place first. As far as my experience, I'm 15 and I work a cash register at work.
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Is Laguna Beach Season 3 ever coming out on DVD? (link)
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I think they'll get it out in the next year, hopefully, I love the show.
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last year i was watching my super sweet 16 and one of the girls were wearing a pink and green lacoste polo top, where else could i look for this? (link)
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Right here. =)
http://www.seenonmtv.com/index.php?v=mtvsss
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i have dark brown eyes.. almost black and i would like them to lighten up so they dont look so dark.. what are some eye makeup tips? i already put mascara and eyeliner on the top and bottom (link)
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This should really help you out, be sure to click on #2's link. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=519359
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Ive seen him in school. His name is Christian. I dont have him in any of my classes, except SAI which i only have every 3 weeks. We talk on myspace alot. He told me to talk to him FACE TO FACE at school. Is it still to early to tell???? (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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so there's this guy in my class that i like and i was woundering how do i know if he likes me back. (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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Little kids are very rude to me. There' one that's about in grade 3 and the MOST BAD words comes out of his mouth that put put sailors to shame.
I walk pass that street he walks everyday and he always calls people who pass him (and me when he sees me) bad words.
And they're all decent looking, they're not a FAG FACE as one of the words he says.
Can someone jsut list me really good things to say such as fag face, dick face, etc?
My vocabulary doens't run that way and if this progresses over a month and he doesn't behave, I don't want to be a tadle tale but his MOTHER NEEDS TO KNOW (link)
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I agree with the previous columnist, really, kids in general aren't mean -- just some of them are. But mostly because of their parents, or maybe a sibling that has had a bad influence on he/she. So what I would do is talk to his mother and see how she reacts, be prepared that she may not believe you. As most mothers don't want to believe their children are using such language. If she doesn't believe you, unfortunately, there isn't much you can do.
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When submitting photos for modeling agencies, should I submit a picture with my face au naturale, or made-up? (link)
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You want as natural as possible, they want to see your natural beauty, so slim to none makeup. Here's a bunch more info. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=511390
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My dog is bringing up blood. What do I do? (link)
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I'm hoping you've already taken it to the vet, because it can lead to very serious problems.
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I have very pale skin, since my grandmother is from Ireland on my mom's side and my grandmother on my dad's side is from France, where it is not very sunny, so pale skin soaks up Vitamin D in the barest sliver of sun. The issue is, even though teasing of my skin has stopped about 2 years ago (in 6th grade when people finally grew up), whenever I express my desire to be a fashion model or a movie star, I get stares and comments that I could never be a model because I am too pale. I know I am pale. I am not oblivious to the fact that my skin is as fair as it can be for a person who is not albino. I do not tan (I burn), and frown upon tanning for fear of skin cancer. These remarks depress me because I think that my not-so-supportive friends don't recognize any of the aspects of the industry I dream of entering someday. I know that I am not the California porn star with large breasts or tan skin or blond hair, but I am me, and I know that someone is going to like what they see when they look at me. How do I cope with the put-downs that my friends give me? I know they think that they are giving me what they think people are going to think of me, but I know that they don't actually know. Does that make sense? (link)
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Actually, just because you're pale doesn't mean you can't be a model. I see all kinds in magazines, especially, Marc Jacobs. So I wouldn't let that depress you. I commend you on not tanning, skin cancer is a terrible thing. You can buy self-tanners in stores, those are completely fine, but you do risk turning into an oopma-loopa (Willy Wonka & The Chocolate Factory), it's better than skin cancer though, if you're that self-consious about it. Otherwise, I wouldn't worry about it.
Also, all of these negative comments you're getting from people -- they aren't your friends. Friends are people who love you and care for you no matter what happens, no matter what you look like, no matter what you do. So those people aren't even worth your time, don't give them the satisfaction of knowing it upsets you. That's all they want.
By the way, if you do want to be a model, here's my little guide I wrote. It's quite helpful. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=511390
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I met this guy at my dads friends party. i liked him ever sense i saw him he was soo cute but i didnt REALLY like him till he was talking to my dads friends son and i saw his personality, a bit. then we started talking and i liked him RIGHT away. soon he had to leave but i asked for his number and he asked for mine. soo long story short whenever i talked to him from then it allways made me soo happy and in such a good mood he would waste his time talking to me. but you know i was allways cool about it i never called him to much or text him to much just like once in three days or whatevr cause i didnt want to get annoying. but i felt annoying when he didnt talk to me for a long while. so i decided to lay off about a week l8tr without talking to him i felt so bad i accualy screwed it up with this guy [i was THAT insucure]and accualy cried overnight. worst night ever over me not even talking to him! then i called him mad i thought i DONT deserve this! im gonna call him and figger out what the heck is going on cause he never calls me back, imagine that he didnt pick up. the next day though he texted me, and we talked and i was happy. the day after that i called and we talked. then stopped till i texted him a few days l8tr. now a few daays ago i talked to him and as allways i felt great talking to him, we talked about everything, and his friend was there too and he accualy flirted with me then . ALOT. he would tell me i was hott and whatnot and that he wanted to see me, stuff like that . i asked him why he hasnt returned my calls. his friend yelled out CAUSE HES LAZY! and he laughed on that. afew days later called again, you get the picture. i feel it keeps going over and over he have a GREAT time talking then he dissapears on me. he gets me all happy but know later i will get in a bad mood feeling i did somthing wrong cause he never returns texts. i dont know, is he just not into me or not much of a talker or what ? i like him soo much and think of him every day. he seems into me on the phone but after that nothing. but hey if he says hell call me that night in a few he will that must count for somthing. please advice !
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Sounds like we have a wishy-washy one here!
I have been in this situation before, and it didn't work out. He eventually got to where he never called, wouldn't return any phone calls, etc. I think this guy may do the same thing to you. So I'd be careful about this one.
In my case, and I believe it's the same in yours, this guy really did like me. But there was just something there that didn't want a relationship. The thing with my guy, he always flirted with other girls all the time and wanted his cake and to eat it too. Probably not the same with the guy you like, but I think there's something that's holding him back.
I really wouldn't recommend you wasting your time trying to find it out, because I'm afraid that's all you'll be doing. Basically, if you wanna talk to him still -- that would be ok. I wouldn't recommend trying to be anything other than friends though, I think he'll only break your heart. Try not to focus all of your time on him either.
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I love my boyfriend, and when he gets released, we are goin to get back together, but in those 2 years that he is gone is it bad if i meet someone at the time???cuz im not gonna want to be lonley the whole time and ive been crying like crazy that there taking him away. But do you think its bad that i get a new boyfriend in the meantime? (link)
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EDIT: I'm so happy that he doesn't have to go now!!! I wish you nothing but the best! =)
Here's the thing, he's going to be in prison for two years -- a very long time. Things can happen between those two years, the two of you may not even want to be together when he gets out. And really, it isn't a good thing that he's going to prison, so he may not be the best guy to stay with.
But anyway, I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it and tell him what a long time it is, and things can change. You should waste two years of your life because of this, it'll end up ruining the whole thing I believe. And you'll regret it.
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i seem to be stressing alot lately. so much that its making me physically sick. any good ideas for getting rid of stress? thanks =) (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.bodybuildingforyou.com/articles-submit/ghf/21-ways-relief-stress.htm
http://www.optimalhealth.org.uk/10_ways_to_relieve_stress.htm
http://confidencecenter.com/art25.htm
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do pregnancy signs show up
within one week?
if so what are the signs? (link)
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As far as I know, you won't see signs showing within a week. But here's a website that may help you.
http://pregnancy.about.com/od/signssymptoms/
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