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well i am 13/f and i like 2 boys. ones joey and i've known him for a little while but not really my friend but something about hims really sexy if you know what i mean. and the other guys casey and me and him have been like best friends since 7th grade, we've been REALLY good friends but we've been like "involved" just never went out. they both like me but who should i get more interested in (easy 5's) please help

i would say joey. keep your best friend, you dont want to screw up your guys' relationship that you already have. that way you get a BF and a best friend lol = )

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I'm babysitting my next-foor neighbor's 3 kids. They are 10, 6, and 2. This is my first time babysitting on my own and I`m a little nervous. What should I do to keep them busy? What do I do if they begin to fight with each other, or one starts to cry? Any tips?

do something that everyone can do together. that way you know where everyone is at all times. (any games, movies, play-do, coloring books, playing "house", dress up, bubbles, books, puzzles, play a song and dance.) if they get hungry you can just like make a little snack for them. (like crackers or sliced apples or something) if one starts to cry just hold them, tell them everything will be alright. but change the subject and be like, "HEY DO YOU WANT TO GO PLAY blah blah etc" hopefully they wont fight, if they do just split it up and tell them while your there that their going to play the "nice game" or something like that. whoever is nicest the whole time wins. ok well i hoped i helped you a little. good luck, you'll be fine. = )

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i think this guy is cute but im afraid to tell him bbecause im scared he wont talk to me im really afraid of rejection so what should i do should i tell the guy or keep to my self.

tell him!! if he wont talk to you, hes a dick and hes not worth your time. that is really rude! there are better guys out there. hopefully he wont stop talking to you though, and the two of you can get together sometime.

PS. you'll feel so much better once its just out there and he knows you like him

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ok so what can i do to impress the guy i like? i dont mean like shallow way i mean to get his attention get him to notice me bc im kinda standard boring normal looking you know? just wanna get his attention you know what i mean? thanks!

one word..FLIRT! (smile, laugh, start up a convo, joke around with him, compliment him, you know stuff like that..)

...all the other girls will be jealous.

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is it ok if i dont know why i like the guy i like? i mean ok i know i like him but i dont have a clue why hes not hott and yea i guess hes kinda cute hes just average boring guy not really boring but you know what i mean just kinda there and i like him and i dont have a clue why i do! any ideas why i may like him and is it bad that i dont have a clue why i do? thankx

not bad at all. even though he doesnt have a ton of qualities, you you probably just "connect" with him as weird as that sounds. also, you can be attracted to people without good looks/personality. dont worry!!

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Does anyone know any good books for teenage girls about
a.) real drama
b.) pressures
c.) relashionships ( i dont mind if their homosexual relashionships either)
d.) abuse/rape

When you put a title, could you put the letter (A through D) that it applies to?

easy 5's people!

gossip girl-a, b, c
the a-list-a, b, c
one hot second: stories about desire-a, c
laguna beach:life inside the bubble-a, b, c
thou shalt not dump the skater dude- b, c
the it girl-a,b, c
pretties-b, c
lovesick-b, c, d
you are so not invited to my bat mitvah-c
the orpheus obsession-b, c, d
pretty things-b, c
a room on lorelai street-d

hope you like. = )

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what does redneck mean ??

it's a white person that lives in the south and their like super poor.

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Hey does anyone know a link that has any DANCE mixes.. like what cheerleaders have.. I have a dance solo and I need a song.. please help! Hip hoppy and up to date please! I rate high!

britney spears- chris cox megamix
outrageous
toxic (lenny bertoldo mix show edit)
me against the music (rishi rich's desi kulcha remix)

black eyed peas-pump it

madonna-hung up

gwen stefani-hollaback girl remix

missy elliot/ciara-lose control

i think the kind you're talking about, well, you can't just "get them" you do have to order them or make them yourself. but anyways, all the songs i put up there are really good ones too for cheering, and you can get them ALL on itunes. if you know someone that can mix songs together, have them mix a couple of these and stick it on a blank CD. = )

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is like right inside of your vagina supposed to have like bumps??

no, talk to your doctor about it. or even a gyno if you've seen one before.

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I need some good websites to find myspace layouts!!!! mines boring right now.. thanks for the help

xoxo**

if you're a girl i would reccomend this site. they are adorable!

http://groups.myspace.com/awesomelayoutsbykt

click on the little plus signs and you can view them first. = )

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when i masturbate i just rub down there really fast and it feels so good and my body [inner thighs mostly] get tight and i want to lift up my body. is this right? what else can i do? how do i orgasm without fingering myself?

porn?

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ok- i'm organizing a secret santa thing for our orchestra... i can't think of anything else to put on the form you fill out about yourselves other then...
Name:
Age/Grade/Birthday:
Instrument:
Play any sports?:
Favorite:
Color?:
Animal?:
Candy?:
Sports team?:
Any additional information:

what else should i put on the form?? thanks
(easy 5's!)

places you've lived, fav. food, fav. band, fav. movie, fav. vacation spot, size shoe, fav. place to shop, hobbies, siblings, pets, fav. actor/actress. good luck!!

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I'm a 13/f and my bday is coming up soon. My parents asked me what I want but i honestly dont know! lol What are things ($150 and under) that I could ask for?!?!

clothes
money $$
movies/dvds
cds
gift cards to your favorite stores
jewelry
makeup
purse
shoes
book?
candy
gift card for a trip to the spa/massage/nails done
perfume
pjs
slippers

i couldn't really think of anything BIG under 150, so there's a whole bunch of cute little things. hope you like. = )

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Okay I use Cetaphil lotion and I was just wondering if I can wear makeup with it on or not? Because I have never tried it lol. So please answer my question. Ill rate...

you can wear makeup with any lotion..

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I ma starting a business in selling pretty and urban jewellery but i cant think of any names. Just wondered if anybody has any ideas.

iced out, B (stands for bling, if you did that then you could put the inital B on some of your stuff, it would be your signature thing.), your store could be called your first and last name or even just your first name, urban candy, blinged out, V.I.P, style star, urban love, sick rocks, jewelz, top gems, fabulous, SEVEN..hope this helped!

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Is hair removal of any kind bad for you?

better then shaving..

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Okay, hey guys! I was just wondering what are some of the ideas you think of to sign a letter at the end of my advice coulms. Like, "always yours," or somthing. give some ideas, k? thnx.
I don't know how to sing out, so..... bye.

love, love always, much love, peace out, for now, muah

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My friend said that Orbit gum causes cancer is that true!?

if it has aspertame in it, then yes it could, (any gum with that) it won't give you it, but if you already have it or don't know about it yet it will trigger it and make it worse.

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hey do u know any scary movies PG 13 i was gonna have a movie night at my house this saturday night

respond by thursday PLEASE thanks bunch latta

the ring, white noise, boogeyman, scary movie 3, the darkness, the exorcism of emily rose, practical magic, the 6th sense, what lies beneath, the others, the glass house, the grude. (THESE ARE ALL PG-13!!) hope i helped.

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I've recently swithced types of music from gheotto to rock/emo/ skater. I'm a girl and I was wondering how I could dress skater. And what kind of make-up to use maybe some pictures. I dont want to look goth just ummmmm... punk I quess.
So how can I dress and wear punk make-up? Also what kind of skater shoes should I buy?
xo - ox

anything from vans would be good if your just switching and you dont want to be goth at all. their style is amazing.

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