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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.

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Okey... my hormones are finally kicking in...
never did I want a boyfriend as I want one now....
how can I get one? Is thee a spiecial way to act or dress or look or talk or something?

Try getting involved in a activity or talking to some guys in your school. You can become friends and eventually become boyfriend and girlfriend. You could wear makeup but not to much just a little to bring out your yes and skin complexation. Just acting like yourself will someone truely come around. Just try and be patient and take it one day at a time. To keep your mind off trying to get a b/f you should learn how to do something like guitar or flute or cokking.

does anyone know how to get game cheats for neopets.com? i really want to get more points for games and everything!

There is a game cheat website that you can go to called cheatcc.com if you are talking about video games that it good. if not that try going to askjeeves.com or google.com

I love my boyfriend, we never fight and if we do, its for probably 3 and a half minutes. We are BEST FRIENDS. tell each other everything and anything and are completely ourselves around each other right down to farting. our relationship is amazing...

so why do i cry when he isnt around? he goes to college 2 and a half hours away which isnt bad, i see him on average every other week. iv noticed that when he's gone. i'll reminisce on the amazing fun and goofy times we had with each other and just cry and smile and..cry. i dont know why. i would give my life to spend every waking second of the rest of my life with this guy. i don't want to cry anymore. i think i just miss him being around me and supporting me and picking me up when i fall (metaphor)

help.. =/

I think that you fell in love. I suggest getting involved in some activity to get your mind off of him for awile until the next time you see him. Like sewing or cooking. You could start a band or learn some kind instrument. I t is normal to cry when you miss someone so. I think that things will get better if you take one day at a time

Hey, I'm pretty skinny (95 lbs), but I want to get abs. If I did 100 crunches a night, would that do it, and if it would, how long do you think it would take? Thank you!!!

The best thing to do is lift weights it builds your muscles and makes you stronger making you have abs. Doing 100 crunches a night would probably take about 3 months. I am estimating.

Okay well im not sure what i am doing for halloween yet...I have been asked by about 4 or 5 differnt people if i would go out with them on halloween...I never said yes to any of them yeat and i dont kno who to go with....i was thinkin of just stayin home and not goin with any of them caue i dont want anyone to get mad at me...how can i choose??

(FYI they all hang out with diffent groups of people so i cant go with all of them together..)

I think that your right that you shouldnt go with any of them but if you want to go out on halloween then you should or you can stay home. I think that if you go with one the others will feel like you dont like them.

ok. My name is cortney. i am 14 , 5'3 and 108 pounds... I know if i ask if im fat everyone will tell me no... but i really dont like the way i look.. i need advice...

Actually you are under the weight that you suppose to be but if you want to lose weight or fat. You need to drink water and give up caffeine not entirely but you can drink like a can of pop a day. Exercising helps build muscle strength and makes you look great in shape. Eating chocolate is ok as long as your not eating to much of it.

okay well i have to do a research paper and i picked my to be on Teen Suicide. does anyone know any statistics on Teen Suicide? thanx a bunch

go to askjeeves.com and type what are the statistics of teen suicides? or go to google and tuype in teen suicides.

I know that FIT means frequency inensity and TIme and we have to give an example of each and my sport is soccer and ihave 3x for frequency and i don't get what the intensity would be so if someone could tell me what it is tha'd be great!

go to google.com or askjeeves.com and they will have sites on the subject that would help you figuare out the frequency and the intensity.

Hey i have a problem with my boyfriend. He's sweet but hes immature and it gets on my nerves cause i dont have patience. He would be a great guy friend but if i break up with him i dont think he'll want to look at me like that. My best friend is also with my boyfriends older brother and they dont get to see eachother unless my best friend is at my house because she lives 45 minutes away from me. i ALSO like one of my boyfriends friends. I cant help who i like, can i?? What should i do?? I dont want to keep my best friend and her boyfriend from seeing eachother.

Your friend and her boyfriend should find another way to see each other. Sometimes when friends do that you question whether they are coming to see you or their boyfriend. She sounds like she wouldnt do that. I think that if he is really getting on your nerves then you should break up wit him or at least tell him that he should stop. It might help if you talk to him. Sometimes when you break up with someone you wont always be able to become friends again but sometimes it does work out. You have to decide whether you are willing to take the risk.

Anyone know a website that you can enter your activity to and it'll tell you how many caloires you burn in a certain amount of time. Thanks

usually if you go to askjeeves.com and type in the question it will pull up websites related to your question.

i cut....
it's so addicting and i can't stop. i love everything about cutting but i know i have to stop this...
please help

I know that you think cutting is the way to go but the process is slow when your trying to stop. You need to first take each day by day slowly. Try noting cutting for a day then time will pass and soon you can say that you have not cutted for a month or longer. Cutting can kill if you lose to much blood from doing it. Just take it one day at a time and i know it will get easier.

is it normal to get really down during the winter time as opposed to summer?

just curious.

Most people are not very active in the winter so they become more depressed than they would in the summer. In the summer there is so much to do but you cant do anything hardly in the winter. So it is normal for that to happen

i need a flatter stomach by Friday. any suggestions on how to help? thanks i will rate high

drinking water and no pop and eating no chocolate. exercising twice a day will help. You should eat only 3 times a day. Do not snack in etween meals. It may flatten your stomach a little in a week but it will gradually get flatter the more you do this. Exercising like walking or going to a weight lifting place. or doing crunches.

well technically this could be put into a couple differnt catagories, well okies it kinda started last year i was going out with one of my best friends and we were together for 10 months and then he crushed my heart:( we broke up over the summer and he slit his wrist and he is ok but i cried when he told me is it normal to still have feeling for him after he put me through shit?..and there's another thing just recently i have been having reallllllllly MAJOR feeling for my other best friend me and my other best friend act more like a couple then we do friends, yet he says he just wants to be friends yet usually he is the one who starts the us actin like a couple thing...does this mean he does or doesnt like me???..plz help i am sooo confused:(

It is normal to still have feelings but when you find someone different they usually never go away but you end up feeling more about the other person than the person that put you through so much. He probably does like you alot but he is prob. afraid that if you guys hook up and then break you will lose your friendship. I think that his friendship with you is the most important thing to him. He just doesnt want to lose that.

i havent had sex and i dont masterbate, but i have a bump not alot, just one, on my pubic hair area. i dont know what it is or why its there but i noticed it the other day and its kinda iches. does anyone know what it is?

I think you migt have an infection. You should go to rite and get some anti-itch crea for it and that should stop the itching but i suggest seeing a doctor if it continues to itch even after you use the crea for about a week.

can you get stds or whatever from masterbating? i mean like are there any risks involed? thanks.

There are risks from masterbating but i dont think that it is STD's though. go to a website and look up STD's and read what the causes are.
go to google.com or even askjeeves.com

Well, here's the story. I'm 14 Female. My friend moved to my town a couple years ago. She visits her old town often, so she brought me with her one time in the summer. It was REALLY fun, we hung out at her old friend's house. And this kid was there. All of us hung out all day. I like the kid that was there, and I have liked him since that night. We talk online every once in a while, and I've talked to him on the phone a few times. It seemed like he liked me from the way we talk to eachother, but I don't know. That was in the summer, and it's October! He lives about 45 minutes away, which is not too bad. I REALLY like him, but I don't know what to do. My friend says it totally sounds like he likes me, but nothing's happening. Also, like, if he asked me out or something, do you think it would work? (him living 45 minutes away?) It would be far to drive just to hang out. I don't know exactly what I'm asking, but if you have any advice, it would be great?

I think that you should at least try and make it work out. If it doesnt work out then at least you tryed. If you dont try then you will go on regreting what you should have done. Do you want to wonder what it would have been like if you would have asked him out. You could hang out with im in the summers and talk to him on the pone or even go to the movies with him on the weekends. If you really like him you should go for him.

what are some symptoms of depression?

go to askjeeves.com and write the question what are syptoms of depression and there will be a whole bunch of sites where they list the syptoms of depression. if that doesnt work then go to google.com and type in depression

does anyone think that people who are in charge of saying whats good enough to be on the radio and what isnt, don't play certain music because its poetic?

example:
daphne loves derby.

lyrics are really poetic rather than lyrical.

any thoughs? haha

I agree. Some songs are more poetic then lyrical and sometimes they are more lyrical than poetic. Its really depends on the person. Most radio stations play the songs that are rated the best bye the people.

What are some syptoms of strep? What about the flu?

Thanks!

go to google.com and they will have sites that give the syptoms of both. Strep you will have a soar throat and inside your mouth you will have white spots. A flu is normal for each persn. The syptoms are alot. Some flus have coughing, soar throat, or even a fever.

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