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Hey my names kayla and im 14 years 0ld...i will answer any questi0n y0u ask me because chances are im g0ing/went thr0ugh s0mething similar. i have realized that i am best at giving advice t0 pe0ple 0n what t0 say t0 0thers 0n a given situati0n. If theres ever s0mething urgent y0u need t0 ask me feel free t0 im me 0n xoredskittleox...if y0u have any pr0blems regarding my advice...like s0mething i might have said that 0ffended y0u 0r anything like that. Much0 l0ve
Kayla
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-Im sorry if anyone has been trying t0 email me. My email address is currently n0t w0rking. S0meh0w the pr0gram g0t switched to msn. grr my c0mputer always d0es that. Anyways i am s0 s0rry if any0ne was trying t0 get in c0ntact with me and i didnt resp0nd.
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were can you find really cute bedsets for a teenage girl? ((bedsets as in comforters?)) please help!
htye have them at like JC penny and filenes and stuff like that.
if 2 people who are virgins have sex, is it still possible for an std to be transmitted?
if your luver is a guy you cant be too sure hes a virgin so you should have safe sex. and also oral sex can pass stds too..
is it true that you cant use tampons until you had your period for a year?
nope
does any1 know where i can get cute skirts for under 30$$ ? abercrombie's or cute but like 80$
yea...american eagle has really cute skirts. if you get them on sale they are less than $30.
How can you make a room Jr Highish?
*get rid of anything and everything that babyish
*paint the walls a flashy color
*put up posters of hott guys (athletes oo baby)
*get some kool lighting (blacklights and funky lights are available at spencers)
*hott bed sheets (no pastell colors or florals)
those are the basics...your question wasnt exactly specific..i tried to answer it as best i can.
I have a BFF. We are really close. Whenever she's gone, Im so used to seeing her every day. I get sick and mope. I can't help it. i feel sick and mopey. Then when she coems home my sickness is gone and I'm happy again. When she's gone I still do stuff with friends and have a fun time. But I really miss her.
well that shows you have a strong friendship...i miss my friends all the time. dont worry about it.
My BFF told me that when you feel someone in watching you (you know that feeling??) it means demons are in the room with you. I'm so scared now!! Whenever I get that feeling I scream and get really scared
she most likely has no evidence to prove that statement correct...as a matter of fact...nobody does. dont worry about it, chances are there are no demons in the room with you
Im doing a study on rabbits and i would like to know how their faeces are formed.
hey you are currently on the internet...obviously so go on a search engine...
www.google.com
www.askjeeves.com
nobody on here is going to be able to give you a perfect response to how rabits faces are formed. looking it up online would be alot easier.
Hey, I believe in God and pray to him a ot when I need help. I don't go to church though, but I still believe. Is it bad I don't go to church?? Am I gonna go to Hell????
no your not going to go to hell. i dont go to church very often. i usually only go around the holidays. like christmas mass and easter mass palm sunday and ash wednesday. you get what i mean. but anyway, i am a strong believer in god. i pray to him when i need help too. Going to church would be a good idea though.
I was going out with brian but he randomly wouldnt call me and my computer was broken. so i asked him online when i was at my friends and he was like im sorry i forgot. (mostly because he smokes everyday, i hate it) we wopul hangout on sundays and it sucked, i didnt want to hangout with someone once a week when he lives down the street. but hes different, hes the only guy im shy around, i dont know why. but he called me friday and told me he couldnt hangout because he was going to his friends. he called me latr and told me he went to the mall (why couldnt he of asked me?) so he called me saturday morning and said hed call me later to hangout he did but said he couldnt because his parents were out ( why couldnt he ask me over) so i sad my mom culd pick him up and stuff and he didnt seem intrested and was like lets just hangout tomorrow so i was like no, its not working, sorry an he said alright. he goes to my friends school so he was like i really like her i dont know why she dumped me so i talked to him yesteday and h was like ell i cant ay i liked you a wicked lot because we didn really talk alot but i dontknow why im so shy around you but i definetly like you an what i know s far, so i uess we're going back out. what can i say to tell him i dont like how he smokes so muc and we need to hangout more? and how can i not be so shy and what should i say on the phone? thank you
*first about the smoking...i tried to think about how i would feel if someone has critizised me about smoking. (they dont like it i had told one of my friends off for trying it and he got pissed) anyways here it is:
ummm well i dont mean to be rude or point fingers, but i really dont like the fact that you smoke. i love you very much but i wish i could know that your healthy. and smoking is not healthy. its only because i love you
*hanging out more:
also, i really think we should hang out more. thats the reason our relationship went down the drain in the first place. but if we work together to see eachother more, we can get it out. hanging out with eachother more often would strengthen our relationship and it would mean alot to me if you helped give an effort.
well i tried my best. hope you two work out...i hope thats the response you where looking for?
im 16 and had a baby 3 months ago today.my mum and dad are strict catholics and demanded that me and my baby)s father to get married.well me and the babys father split. so my mum and dad were like "i told u so". i left home and moved into a council flat.i have got exams this yaer and im finding it so hard.even tho i have paid childcare thoughtout the day im so tired to do anything.my mum said that i had her and so shes my responsability.im getting desperate now and even thought about adoption.has anyone got any good advica on how to cope. the last thing i want to do is say to my mum that she was right.sorry its long.
yea that is the last thing you would want to say to her. but she was right. you know that. the best thing to do would be to find some time to sit down and talk to your mom about it. say " mom. i understand that i made a big mistake. but this baby isnt the bad guy here. i am . i cant have him grow up horribly because i can barely balance him with my school work. i really need your support and help right now" or something like that. hope everything works out
ok....i like this guy and he likes another girl and the girl is some slut who cheats on every guy that she dates and i dont want him to get hurt.....i know i wouldnt hurt him...do u have any advice that i could win his heart over to me?
If he is willing enough to go out with someone like that then he is willing enough to get his heart broken. Once they go out and she cheats on him hes going to feel horrible. cheer him up and then maybe you can win his heart over. but this all might not be nessasary maybe the slut wont go out with him. you never know
ok....i like this guy ALOT and he likes another girl....my best friend is trying to hook us up...i find out that he might end up liking me but he doesnt know me well enough....now i am really embaressed to see him in person...am i being too pushy?
- confused
the same thing happened to me. we ended up going out after a month. give it time. if you rush him into a relationship and he doesnt know you very well i can almost garantee you that it wont work out. good luck! hope i helped...
kayla xoxo
im petrified of dying,evry time i think about it i have butterflys in my stomach and i feel sick. i usally think about it wen im about to go to bed then i carnt sleep.how can i stop feeling so scared of dying?i dont wana see a therepyst.is this normal?
16/f
well everyone is scared of something. you cant try and hide from it. the only way to get over a fear is to tackle it. thats what i do atleast. for instance, im deathly afraid of hights...so wen im at a theme park or something i will go on every rollercoaster in site. it helps me get over it and i like the adrenaline rush. The best thing for you to do would be to see a therepyst...i know i know you dont want to but he/she can figure out why you are so scared of death and help you tackle that phobia...you wouldnt have to constantly continue to see the therepist. just find out whats goin on. I mean really, its a small price to pay. you do want to get over it right?
hope i helped even a little
kayla xoxo
Ok, so theres this kid that says he likes me. He talks about to my friends like 24/7. He won't ask me out. What's he waiting for? What's he afraid of? Should I make the first move and ask him out? We already made out like 12 times but never dated. HELP ME PLEASE!!! ty
hey.
dont make the move. if he says he likes you then he likes you. give him like another week or so and if he doesnt make his move ask him out.
Hey!! I saw that question you answered about you using limewire... i was just wondering if it made your puter slower... like noticably slower? i rate hiiigh!
MaNdY!
hey no it duznt make my computer slower...but i have high speed internet..so i dont know about what it would do to someone elses computer. It depends how well it works.
Ok well Brett i/med me...my boyfriend and he said will you kiss me i dont no if it was a joke or if he was serious..i dont no what to say to him....help me!?
PLEASE Help,
Confused
boyfriends dont joke about those kind of things...he wants to know if you would be alright if he kissed you...say yea
My friend told me about a free place where you can download music called Ares. The thing is, it's not a legal program. My friend says that it doesn't do anything to mess up her computer, but I'm afraid to put it on my computer. Has anyone ever had any experience with Ares? If so, is it safe to put on your computer, or will it mess it up? Please help!
Hey dont worry about it. I download music on limewire and that program isnt legal and im totally fine..sometimes a program has a virus so you do have to watch out
this might be long,
At a recent school dance i danced with this really cute boy. That whole night i totally obsessed over him and couldnt stop thinking about him. After the dance i went online and talked to my friend hailey and told her i felt something for him. We talked about it and said "i have no chance hes way out of my league. ill probably never talk to him again" and then the next day at school at lunch hailey came up to me and said " i talked to shane" and i was like "whhattt!?" and she says " i asked him what he thought about you looks wise and he said veerry good" i was really happy about it. I started to get to know him for about a month and when the next dance came he asked me out. We started going out but i felt really weird...not so much the first couple of days. He would come over my house and we watched movies and stuff (and thats it) . then the next weekend he came over again and watched a movie and i got so fed up with having him around and the next day i dumped him. Well to get to the point. I like guys that i cant have. Once they start to like me i totally change and dont feel anything for them. I just want someones oppinion about it. I keep dumping totally sweet boys that girls at my school are dying to get their hands on for no reason!
sorry if it was long
i rate high
ooo wow that sux..i have no clue...
how do you get nice abs? like i want nice abs with a six pack, just not a noticeable one. i want the outline of one not the inline of one. and i want it to look nice and flat.. any suggestions? i'll rate high! :-D
do like ten crunches or sit ups twice a day...