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I`m Allison .. But everyone calls me Allie. I`m fourteen years old. I`m a freshman at MHS. I know I`m young, but so far in life I`ve experienced a lot. There`s a whole other part of me that a lot of people don`t know .. even some of my closest friends.
Friends are important to me. If you don`t have friends .. who can you rely on?!
If your a bitch to me I`ll be a bitch to you. It`s that simple. If your nice to me .. I can be one of the nicest people you`ll ever meet. I tend to hold grudges, but if you are sincerly sorry, I forgive easy.
I hate labels and stereotypes .. They really don`t make sense to me. Clothes shouldn`t label a person .. they`re personality should.
Anyways ..
I`m usually really good at giving advice. If you ask a stupid question .. Guess what !? You`ll get a stupid answer !
Other than that .. ask away !
♥ Allie.

advice

ok well you see i have this friend and well he flirts with me all the time i mean really flirts and him and my brothers are friends and he says he cant do anything witch means he cant have a relationship but then again he asked all these sexual questions and well bascially he wants to have sex and well im still a virgin in every way and i dont want to but hes very persusve and well i tell him no but he still asks and if theres no relationship i cant do that im mean im16 not stupid and i dont beleive in fwbif so what should i do give in or stand my ground.

you should totally stand your ground. nobody should ever make you do anything you dont want to do. if you say no and he keeps bugging you about it then maybe you should try telling someone. hope i helped!~allie

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My brother is sometimes nice to me but when he is mean to me he hits me or pushes me and kicks me. He is older than me and i dont know wut to do. I tell my mom and my sisters my mom says she is going to talk to them about it but she never does! My sisters tell him to stop and go to his room but he just does it when they rnt looking just a while ago he got my head and hit it against the wall. I want to talk to my mom about it but i don't know how to. Can u please help ASAP HELP Please i am begging i am so sad,And mad AHH help

Your whole family need to have a "meeting" Have everyone sit down and tell them how you are feeling. make sure that you make it clear to everyone that you have a serious problem with what your brother is doing to you. ~allie

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OK f/13/
i go to a privet school ok but don't think i am a prep. ok i have long blond hair and blue eyes, and i am short like maby 4'8" or 4' 9" and none of the guys in my grade(7th ) like me and its like i just feel realy left out some times from my friends and all the "popular" girls just go out with guys to have a boyfriend i think and i am like not desperat but i want to like some one and and want some one to like me with out it being grows . is this normal or am i just a freak over reacting. help and what do guys like in girls at the age about 13.

You cant just automatically like someone and someone cant just automatically like you, it just happens. if you want guys to like you you have to know how to FLIRT! find out what guys at your school like to do, that way you can have something to talk about. Just be yourself, relax, and have fun! Hope this helped! ~allie

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hey, ok, well my room always seems to get EXTREMELY messy. i straigten it up, but then it just gets dirty right away. there's always clothes on the floor, desk cluttered, dishes everywhere, the works. so, this is a pretty general quesiton, so anything constructive i will rate 5's! so, plz give me some tips on how you keep your room decent!

I am the same way. evertime i do major cleaning it just gets dirty the next day somehow. it made me frustrated so i stopped doing the major cleaning and did little pick-ups everyday. hope i helped!~allie

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Hi im a 13 yr old female. My boyfriend is the best thing that ever could happen to me, i just feel like hes the one i want to marry and have children with i went out with him for 9 months one time then we broke up. But sometimes he can be so immature. What should i do to make his little immature foolishness go away to make this relationship work.

all guys at this age are immature. girls grow up faster than boys so there is nothing you can do until he grows out of this "stage" you should try talking to him and tell him how you feel. if he truly is a good bf he will understand and try to make things work out too. ~allie

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I am a thirteen year old girl and I have a close male friend. We usually get on quite well and we are always talking and hugging. We used to be attracted to each other and he on/off still is to me but I don't feel that way about him. Everyone says we act like we're a couple and that we should get together but I honestly don't want to. We are very close but are we too close? I admit I hug him more than my other friends but I don't have any feelings for him. So is it wrong to be this close to him if we're not in a relationship?

its good to have a close friendship with someone that is a different gender. if you dont want to be in a relationship with him you shouldnt have to. nobody can make you like him in that way, and maybe you should make it clear to everyone else that you just want to be friends with him.

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I was a cutter for about eh, a few months. Then all hell broke loose I was sent away, skip the drama. I've been clean for almost a year..but now more sucky drama is stirring about in my world. I've been thinking about selfharm, but I've still been clean.

Now that you ahve the background...

What can I do with all of my..'emotions'..(did that ever sound cheesy) I already am a poet and a novelest. I pound out on Bass, too...

Danke

-Mistress Maddy

Have you ever tried talking to someone? I know when I have to much stress on me I talk to one of my friends. If you feel that you have nobody to talk to I know that there are a few help hotlines. Its totally confidential- so theres no pressure. I hope I helped! ~allie

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help! i dont know what kind of clothes im supposed to wear cuz i have a kinda awkward shaped body, im curvy with a really short torso, somewhat busty, and long to medium length legs. What should I wear to compliment my body, because most of clothes fit awkardly. Also what dress style would be best for my body, i have a graduation dance coming up and i dont know what would look best on me.

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The last couple of weeks i've been noticing that I have been eating A LOT!! now i'm afraid i'm gonna gain a lot of weight. i eat when i get home from school up till dinner and no matter how hard i try, i can't stop!! does anyone have any suggestions? if u do please help!!

Maybe you can try to exercise regularly. It can help with maintaining weight! Hope I helped! allie

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