My brother is sometimes nice to me but when he is mean to me he hits me or pushes me and kicks me. He is older than me and i dont know wut to do. I tell my mom and my sisters my mom says she is going to talk to them about it but she never does! My sisters tell him to stop and go to his room but he just does it when they rnt looking just a while ago he got my head and hit it against the wall. I want to talk to my mom about it but i don't know how to. Can u please help ASAP HELP Please i am begging i am so sad,And mad AHH help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 1:22 am: Sit down with your mom when shes not too buisy, and say, "mom, what I am about to tell you needs to be fixed now, and its serious, [John] keeps hitting me, its not a brother sister joke kind of hitting, its banging my head on walls, kicking me, and its really hurting me, will you please get him to stop?" If you have bruises or scabs, try showing her those, make sure you include the 'this is a serious issue part' or she may not take it seriously. Tell her its been done behind everyones' back, so thats why nobody has witnessed it yet, and you need to make sure your mom is on the lookout for you. Have your sister try to witness it to, and maybe try having them tell your mom how bothered you are so she will really know this needs to be done.
karenR answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 12:00 am: Kick him in the groin next time.Yeah it will hurt but maybe he'll think twice before he does it again.Don't put up with it. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Familyman answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 11:44 pm: You need to tell another adult, close to your family, an aunt, uncle, or grandparent what is going on if your momma won't listen. From reading your question, I take it your dad is not at home., If he is have your told him?
Sometimes it takes another adult to get the attention of parents, they sometimes get caught up in everyday life, and miss what is important. And you are important. good luck. [ Familyman's advice column | Ask Familyman A Question ]
Sherry answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 11:12 pm: Yeah I agree. Talk to your mom, and have a serious convo with her. Say it hurts you physically, emotionally, and mentally. If she doesnt do nothing, I would call the cops. But I dont know about kicking him in the balls, he'd wanna hurt you even more. Does your brother or brothers have school, life, job problems? If so, their probably taking it out on you. get help. I dont want to see you get hurt. keep me updated if you can! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
BurnieMac answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 11:10 pm: Well, to me, it sounds like your brother needs to be set straight. You definitely need to tell your mother about how you feel about this. This is obviously something that is really bothering you, so you need to relate this to your mom. Letting her know how you really feel is the best way to solve this. If you tell her how you feel in a sincere manner, it will probably make her realize the severity of the matter. I hope that you get this cleared up. Friendly advice from Caleb. [ BurnieMac's advice column | Ask BurnieMac A Question ]
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