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Ok guys i need help ! im really confused. First ill just let you know that i have a problem with staying in a relationship...i always get bored! I always end up finishing with the boy because im just bored :\ My longest relationship has been around 7 week! Then i just move on..
Rite well i have this bf, i'll call him tyler. He is really sweet and great and evrything but i really dont know wether i want to be with him. sometimes i feel as though i am bored with him .. and other times i will want to stay with him :S we argue a few times but apart from that he's great.
Also.. i met this lad one night whilst i was out called jamie. He is hot ! and i would really like to get to know him better ;) but i cant because of my bf :S We always text each other and he's really sweet. soo again i cannot choose!
and finally.. the other dat my ex bf asked me to get back with him ! that was all i needed! i enjoy going out with him and everything but i really dont know what i want anymore!
I just need some tips on what to doo :\ Thank Yuu (link)
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ok i know exactly what your going through !
i use to get tired of boys with in like a damn week or month . my longest relationship was a month . you just have to find the right one . Now me and my boyfriend have been going out almost a year & im still not bored (: But you just gotta go with what your heart desires
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Hey,
Well this can get a bit confusing but I will try to explain it the best way I can.
There's this guy I have liked for a while.And we went to the movies all his friends and me and my good friend. So , he goes and sits beside me and I found him sometimes starring at me too. On msn we chatted and he said he was too shy to put his arm around me and next time he will and everything.Well, though after that day we haven't really talked.. should I keep talking to him? And ask him to come to catch a movie??
PLEASE HELP ME!
Thank you , betty! (link)
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[ always , always ] let the guy take the first move . All you need to do is just give him the sign that you wouldnt mind . Dont push it on him because that could make him more nerves about doing it . But just gradually talk , if he really likes you he'll make the effort to make the date . or you could ask if he wants to hang again
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I'm 16 and a girl. I live on a ranch. I have three older brothers and my dad who worked on the ranch. My oldest brother doesn't work anymore because he lives in a different town. My middle brother still works and my youngest older brother works on the ranch. Well I don't work on the ranch unless they ask me too and I do whatever they need me too. They don't ask me often, but when they do I do what needs to be done. I usually just stay in the house and do house chores. Well my youngest older brother (Barry) is really rude to me. He always tells me how lazy I am. He says I'm a spoiled brat (which I'm not. I work for a lot of things I have). He has called me a bitch many times. He has hurt me physically in the past and continues to damper my confidence. My parents worship him and anything he says they back him up. It is really starting to take a toll on me. I cry everyday hoping things will get better, but they just get worse. Am I wrong to think this is abuse? What do I need to do? (link)
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This could really hurt you now and in the long run. Its not right for your parents to take his side in everything. You need to make your point across someway . Wether its screamin on the top of your lung , whatever works for you . Your not going to be happy where your at now . Talk to someone else . Maybe another adult .
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Okay, well my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 years. Well I went away on vacation, just for 2 days, to a spa. Well, my bf has a niece, and he called me asking to come home, because his neice was sick, but she didnt have a fever, and he thought she was having "feminine problems". Well as soon as i came home i saw his friends car. They've known each other forever, and have a lot in common, and shes really sexy. She could get any guy she wants, but she always wanted to be with MY bf, but he never liked her. Well when i walked inside, she was giving him a hug, and was like, "I am sssoooo glad you called, oh, hey girl, he needed help, and i came to the rescue. We were going to go get dinner, but i guess we can cancel the reservation..." and then my bf was like, "How about i make us dinner?" and we both agreed. Well, ever since then, his friend, shes been there every time im not. I put my car in the garage sometimes, and shes always there. When the door wasnt open, and she couldnt find the key, she climbed in our window. WHILE WE WERE HAVING SEX! i couldnt believe it. I asked her to back off, that we were in love and all she said was, "I wouldn't be so sure of your relationship, when he has a hot friend, who has a lot in common, who hes known forever." I told him, but he said dont worry. Idk, what should i do?? I trust him, but i can never be too sure. Who should i trust? Thanks (link)
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Honey , you need to set him straight RIGHT NOW . There cant be anything good going on if she is there EVERY time your not there. Personaly its not right , would he mind if another guy who he knew looked good was over at your house when he wasnt ? I really dont think any guy would . You need to set her straight
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All right I guess I need some help I heard my girlfriend say that I don't know how to flirt with her or she isn't use to how I flirt with her. My question is anyone care to give me advice and on hitting her engine up? I'm great at oral but how do I get her there so she will let me do that? (link)
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play with her [ alottt ]
im a girl , i like to flirt alot with my boyfriend to . he'll throw me on the bed , like playing around and kinda kiss my neck but not making it so sexual by like tickling it kind of as he kiss my neck . also just the little stuff ... ticklling my back . stuff like that
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I am very sad about my last year of high school, because next year, my boyfriend is going to Western University and i am going to Seneca college. We trust each other fully and are very close together and we plan to be together even after university, so i'm not worried about that. But i'm just sad about the whole last year thing. Do a lot of people become sad about this or is it just me? (link)
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a lot of people do , because its the final time you have to mess up . also your going to be serperated from alot of people that you love . Friend's you have known your whole life, you'll be split up when you go to collage . you have to leave family . The time has come to make the big choices in your life , find out who you really are . become independent
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(Sorry if its in the wrong category!)
If I don't sleep with the tv on, I have nightmares!! Once I turned it off for 10 minutes, and in those 10 minutes I had a little nightmare! My mom says the tv light hurts my eyes, but I can't help it! Do you know anything about this? (link)
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it could be maybe somthnig that disturbed you earlier in the day or something on your mind that you need to get off .
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14/f
im constantly at the gym, over the past 2 days ive been there 4-5 hours, and all those hours have been taking kick boxing classes which are pretty intense
im in pretty good shape, i can run a mile in around 8 minutes, and do 53 sit ups per minute (average is 34)
my problem isnt that im overweight or fat, its just my stomach isnt exactly tiny, which is what i want it to be
if i eat anything (even healthy) it just expands and looks huge
ive tried not eating too, and it still stays big
i was thinking that instead of going to the gym if i just did a lot of cardio, like on the elliptical machine it would get better?
if anyone can help, thank you
and tips on how to get good looking abs would be appreciated too (link)
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everyones stomach extends after they eat , it go's down after your stomach makes your foods into acids and waste =) . if you keep up liek you say your doing , you will start to see a differnce in a couple of WEEKS or maybe a month , its hard work but in the end it will pay off
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well i figured out recently that i have trust issues.
i get jealous a lot with my boyfriend n stuff. because i love him and i just cant lose him. and i hope that he loves me the same. and all things point to yes and he may love me more than i love him. im not sure. i just know i trust females way more than guys because my dad is kinda untrustworthy and also hearing about all these guys cheating n stuff. i cant handle my love cheating. and he said hed never. and he gets worked up if i mention it and he said hed never im the only one he wants n stuff.
and i had a dream that i was in his room and he layed down in his bed and my friend was right next to him laying down. and then i got jealous and moved her a bit and got in the middle of them and he n i started cuddling . and i was talking about it with my friend from the dream and we both interpreted that the dream for me meant that... if i am not jealous and take actions sometimes, then i lose him. but if i am a lil jealous and do take appropriate action then i keep him. its not like hes straying. just other girls could take him away. and i love him . haha so much. and well. if other girls try to take away his heart.. you know what? theyre trying to take away MY hear. cause we traded hearts basically. lol yah. and i may seem immature but im not. i just need to get over my jealousy and trust issues because i should trust him!!!!! i never feel like hes cheating. i just get nervous at times when im reeeeally reminded of it. and he gets nervous of me too and wonders if im cheating sometimes haha . but its not hiiiimm. its the girrrlls. i never worry about him cheating, but i worry about girls hitting on him. that MAY lead him to cheat.
jealousy is the worst feeling. it brings worry and guilt, sadness and anger,... depression. (link)
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girl . were bestfriends now (: hah . jk ; i am the exact way , Its the not really him .. its just the girls that are around him . But really there isint anything you can do , all you can do is keep telling your self " theres no reason to be jealous , if he wanted them then he would be with them " right . Thats what my boyfriend tells me all the time , he reasures me that im his one , it helps alot ; but some people are different . & ofcourse he's going to get aggervated when you bring it up because he isint snooping arund on you & no one wants to be accused or questioned about un true
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i want to curl my hair for tomorrow but it never stays curled. should i put spray or mousse in it? or how do i get it to stay curled for the day?
(i have semi-thick hair) (link)
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its best if before you dry your hair , put moose in it and rub it in good so it will give your hair exta hold . i have thick hair to .
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I want to pierce my belly button but my praents won't let me so I was thinking about doing it at home. If I did this though, I'd have to buy one of those kits (yess they'll be steril), but could anything go wrong? I'm sure a lot could haha, but what could, and what are the chances that they would go wrong are?
I'd probably buy something like this:
http://cgi.ebay.com/100-STERILE-Navel-With-Banana-Bar-Piercing-KIT-GUIDE_W0QQitemZ150196740360QQihZ005QQcategoryZ72871QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
Thanks & Happy Holidays (link)
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yes , i agree with everyone else . i have mine done and even with the proper my stuff got a little infected . But i really wouldnt , that could also make your parents lose a lot of trust in you . I would wait because it isint like you can just peirce it , takes a lot of cleaning & proper care =]
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during foreplay i never usually have a problem, and when i am at home on my own, i never have a problem with it, but when it comes to really getting busy, right before we are about to have sex, i just cant get a boner. It basically just dies and then wont come back. It seems like it is always there when i dont want it to be, and then when i need it, it always comes up short. This is not only mentally displeasing but very embarrassing. What is the problem here, and how do i fix it. I really dont know what to do and am deeply concerned (link)
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your body is just nerves , you personaly may not but your body is getting scared and it makes you lose your hardness . This boy i dated a while ago had the same problem and he asked about it . You just have to get comfotable enough with that person your about to have sex with , its like your body isint comfortable with you showing that person your goodies (: . just relax and calm down
- also , if you get all stressed about it, its not gonna come back honey =]
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how do i ditch old friends that never make me feel that great and get better new friends? like cause our school has a lot of cliques so how to you like join a clique? or how do you like make friends with people that arent that new.. cause you see them a lot but it would kinda be weird since they already have their friends.. so like would they want me as well? and thanks. 13/f (link)
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serously , you just gotta tell them straight up . its eaiser said than done . But you just gotta jump in a new click ! say hey and tell'em your name . Your gonna have to do it when ya get to highschool =) . i met so many people by just saying whats up & now we talk everyday . Some people you try to meet arnt going to be so open to just random people comeing and saying hey , but most will =]
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13/f.My friend can't hear herself sing.She gets bad grades and she's quite DUMB to say one thing.She has no like particular good "talent" except maybe art which she is good at but not really good..She's also kinda ugly,short, and very overweight.She really wants to be popular,skinny,pretty and all but she is lazy and in my opinion,doesn't try very hard.She likes music,and wanted to be a singer(found out a month ago and convinced her or at least I hope I convinced her)that it isn't the thing for her.I recommended a guitarist(not really) and an artist,but i don't think it'll happen.She is always teased by boys and other girls and she is always saying "I hate (whoever whoever that gossips about her) or I hate myself or I wanna die."Her personality doesn't stand out either because she is very self-conscious,sensitive,shy,quiet,unconfident,and just plain WEAK.Also,I can tell she is very jealous of me,which I HATE.She makes me mad when she acts so mean when I complain about boys chasing me,and random guys on the internet saying I'm pretty and all.I'm quite the opposite of her:friendly,cheerful,popular,slim,tall,pretty,smart,and such(well I guess sometimes I brag to her).I don't think it really matters and I try to point out the things that she is better at,which is her drawing and her tame character trait.Otherwise,she's a really good friend.She laughs easily and doesn't get mad too quick.She's patient,forgiving,and loyal.I really like her and I don't think I'm HALF as obedient as her.Can anyone give me advice on convincing her that looks and reputation aren't all?? (link)
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Tell her during this occward stage she is going through , this will give her the chance to see who will always be with her and stay by her side no matter what . Tell her theres no need to be jelous because she is who she is and god made her that way . She's going to have to learn to be happy with her self because 9 outt of 10 dont stick to " oh i wanna lose weight " or i want to do this [ ya know ] . If she doesnt learn how to deal with her self and be happy she will have a very lonley and not so great life . I have a friend just like her , i talked to her into not worring what people thought . now she jokes about the size she is . She finaly realized there wasnt anything she could to , but also she found new things about herself . hope i helped
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dno where this goes...
i feel like my family and friends dnt appriciate me. none of my friends ever want to hang out with me im just left at home by myself and even my best friend doesnt really talk to me anymore. we have drifted so far apart and as much as i try it just feels like she doesnt even care. i just want some one to appriciate me like a boy friend to love me or something.
last year i had belimia... and i was depressed well thats what my parents thought. iv come so far from that i mean getting better and everything... but now it just feels like im back where i was then and that its gunna happen all over again, i have no 1 to turn too and i dnt no wat to do anymore... (link)
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seems like you in a tough situation . You should try talking to your parents and tell them what you said on here , that you dont feel appriciated and loved anymore . You should also talk to your friends , because if she was [ truley ] your bestfriend , she would be there for you no matter what . You never know , maybe its time for new friends .
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i used to had a boyufriend we were together for 2 years and a half and afte r several things like him not being tolerant enough , and him criticising everything i do , wehre do i go , who do i talk to , my friends, family, my clothes, the things i like to do , and even the music i like to listen to ....this was a huge deal for me and i d ont want him back cause hes done kind of cheating things to me , but a part of me still wants him to be there, but i dont want him back! but when i notices he stops talking to me or things like this i always do something that give him like the hope we are getting back (oh cause he always try to make us be together again) the weird part ...is that a part of me knows that im better of without him, and hes not the one for me ......but the other part...still wants him to like me and being there like trying to get back and doing this kind of things =S that part doesn't want him to move on , i cant imagine seeing him with someone else or dating anyone else,,,but at the same time i dont want him to be with me!! pleaseee help!! this is killing me and im also hurting him cause one day i make him understand i still want to get back and the next day i tell him something like oh im glad we broke up its better off this way :S (link)
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girl , your better off by ending it now , just think if you did give him another chance . Would be change for you ? would be still treat you like you a baby ? probley not because he is who he is , even if he did say he would change there would still be a chance he doesnt ya know ? and you would just be in the situation alllll over again . but i understand you want to move on but then again you dont . But if you end it now and tell him that your final decision is to be just friends then it will be easier on you , because you'll eventually get over him and be back to normal with you . Tell him you still want him to be in your life , just not how close it use to be
- hope i help, tell me how everything goes .
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so my bestfriend is reallly shy,
not when she's around people that she's really close to.. but around everyone else she is.
she has no opinions. she has nothing really to call her own. she coppies everythingg i do, agrees with everything i say. she's even got to the point where she coppies my myspace aoout me's to sound just like mine. she's very preppy and i'm not really. and these past few months she's been buying alll the kind of clothes that i wear.
i feel like i have nothing to call my own.
nothing original, and nothing unique because she coppies everything i do.
i've confronted her a few times but things never seem to change,
is there anything i could do.. but not actually say to her to get my point across?
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Well if yall are really bestfriends , then you should feel close and comfortable enough with her to say , look ; you've got to do things by your self and stop coping me . If she gets mad just say what would you do in my shoes ? ,
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Ok well my Boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 weeks now...And i think that i am ready 2 kiss him.But when we get close i get all nervous and i just like laugh or giggle.He laughs to and then he says it's ok and kisses me on the cheek and hugs me and says u have 2 get ready..i am wondering how do i kiss him the right way? without messing up? (link)
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who knows , maybe your not as ready as you thought you were (: . by the way he reacted it ddint seem like it would kill him if you waited a little longer , ya know . just wait untill your a little more ready or made the decision =]
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Yupp , Im fat .
There is no need for denial , I am indeed fat .
I eat right . Just doesn't seem to have any effect .
I don't like going to the gym , End of story .
I play hockey , Aswell . Pratice for an hour a day .
Butt , I heard dancing is a great way to loose weight , Eh ? No any good ways to loose weight through activities .
-Jaime . (link)
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First you could change your negative attutude (: .
everyone go's through a rough stage in their life sometime . You should set a regular [ daily ] scudeual to maybe work out , dont just max out and kill your self . make it fun so you'll want to work out . Sometimes your excersing when you even know it . If you have a dog you could just play with him , go out side ; listen to music and maybe ride a bike . ya know , continue to eat right because thats a good startt
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Hi ppl what do say to a girl the first time you call her especially if you got her number from her friend (link)
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just be like , hey im [ your name ] & i thought it would be nice to talk to you & i know it might be weird im calling you but just wanted to talk . and go on from there (:
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