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Trust issues and my boyfriend.
well i figured out recently that i have trust issues.
i get jealous a lot with my boyfriend n stuff. because i love him and i just cant lose him. and i hope that he loves me the same. and all things point to yes and he may love me more than i love him. im not sure. i just know i trust females way more than guys because my dad is kinda untrustworthy and also hearing about all these guys cheating n stuff. i cant handle my love cheating. and he said hed never. and he gets worked up if i mention it and he said hed never im the only one he wants n stuff.
and i had a dream that i was in his room and he layed down in his bed and my friend was right next to him laying down. and then i got jealous and moved her a bit and got in the middle of them and he n i started cuddling . and i was talking about it with my friend from the dream and we both interpreted that the dream for me meant that... if i am not jealous and take actions sometimes, then i lose him. but if i am a lil jealous and do take appropriate action then i keep him. its not like hes straying. just other girls could take him away. and i love him . haha so much. and well. if other girls try to take away his heart.. you know what? theyre trying to take away MY hear. cause we traded hearts basically. lol yah. and i may seem immature but im not. i just need to get over my jealousy and trust issues because i should trust him!!!!! i never feel like hes cheating. i just get nervous at times when im reeeeally reminded of it. and he gets nervous of me too and wonders if im cheating sometimes haha . but its not hiiiimm. its the girrrlls. i never worry about him cheating, but i worry about girls hitting on him. that MAY lead him to cheat.
jealousy is the worst feeling. it brings worry and guilt, sadness and anger,... depression.
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girl . were bestfriends now (: hah . jk ; i am the exact way , Its the not really him .. its just the girls that are around him . But really there isint anything you can do , all you can do is keep telling your self " theres no reason to be jealous , if he wanted them then he would be with them " right . Thats what my boyfriend tells me all the time , he reasures me that im his one , it helps alot ; but some people are different . & ofcourse he's going to get aggervated when you bring it up because he isint snooping arund on you & no one wants to be accused or questioned about un true <3
- i hope i felt . tell him how you feeeel .
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If you do trust him then you wouldn't think it MAY lead him to cheat. I know I felt pretty jealous about one of my boyfriend's good female friends. Worst of all, he used to like her and she used to like him...so I worried that maybe those feelings would resurface. But we spoke about the situation..many times. But, it helped. He accused me of not trusting him and I finally realized that though I trust him my actions showed otherwise. I learned to get over it (granted there are times I still have my little spurs of jealousy) because he is with me and if she likes him or not really doesn't matter (especially not to him).
The point is...if you know he is true to you...don't worry about if other girls like him. That just means you have an attractive boyfriend, and you can let the other girls be jealous of you. You'll probably still be a bit jealous, which is normal. But learn to control it and don't stress about it too much you may end up losing him if you don't worry about your actual relationship.
Good luck.
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