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gah.
<small> so my bestfriend is reallly shy,
not when she's around people that she's really close to.. but around everyone else she is.
she has no opinions. she has nothing really to call her own. she coppies everythingg i do, agrees with everything i say. she's even got to the point where she coppies my myspace aoout me's to sound just like mine. she's very preppy and i'm not really. and these past few months she's been buying alll the kind of clothes that i wear.
i feel like i have nothing to call my own.
nothing original, and nothing unique because she coppies everything i do.
i've confronted her a few times but things never seem to change,
is there anything i could do.. but not actually say to her to get my point across?
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I have a friend JUST LIKE THAT! lol. You could find out stuff she doesn't like and wear it or use it, and if she STILL copies you talk to her.Good luck!
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Well if yall are really bestfriends , then you should feel close and comfortable enough with her to say , look ; you've got to do things by your self and stop coping me . If she gets mad just say what would you do in my shoes ? ,
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wow, thats tough
i knew this girl who used to do that, not that extreme but close enough to annoy me
you should ask another girl to confront her. this way your friend will see that people notice and think its stupid. the other girl could say things like "hey, why do you act like ..." or you could be like to your friend "hey, you know everyone says its stupid how you act like me and i feel like i dont have a real friend anymore just a mirror image.." maybe your friend is insecure about her own feelings and wants a role model
i know its tough but keep talk to her and hope she will change
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