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Friend, or mistress?
Okay, well my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 years. Well I went away on vacation, just for 2 days, to a spa. Well, my bf has a niece, and he called me asking to come home, because his neice was sick, but she didnt have a fever, and he thought she was having "feminine problems". Well as soon as i came home i saw his friends car. They've known each other forever, and have a lot in common, and shes really sexy. She could get any guy she wants, but she always wanted to be with MY bf, but he never liked her. Well when i walked inside, she was giving him a hug, and was like, "I am sssoooo glad you called, oh, hey girl, he needed help, and i came to the rescue. We were going to go get dinner, but i guess we can cancel the reservation..." and then my bf was like, "How about i make us dinner?" and we both agreed. Well, ever since then, his friend, shes been there every time im not. I put my car in the garage sometimes, and shes always there. When the door wasnt open, and she couldnt find the key, she climbed in our window. WHILE WE WERE HAVING SEX! i couldnt believe it. I asked her to back off, that we were in love and all she said was, "I wouldn't be so sure of your relationship, when he has a hot friend, who has a lot in common, who hes known forever." I told him, but he said dont worry. Idk, what should i do?? I trust him, but i can never be too sure. Who should i trust? Thanks <3
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the girl is a whore. she just wants him because you have him... just trust him. but ask him when she's right there. if there's sincerness in his voice. then he's most likely telling the truth. =]
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urghhh.
the girl annoys me & i don`t even know her, haha.
& with the window thing, um, isn`t that trespassing? she`s a stalker & seriously needs to understand to just let him go.
it sounds like she`s pretty determined to get your boyfriend. i think you should trust your boyfriend over this idiot. honestly, she said that because she wants you to think that something is going on between them so then you & him break up & she can have him all to herself.
try to talk to your boyfriend about. say something along the lines of this. "okay, i know she is your friend & i respect that & i trust you. but this is what she said to me: "I wouldn't be so sure of your relationship, when he has a hot friend, who has a lot in common, who hes known forever." & i think we should be honest with each other & i`ve been thinking about this for a while now, so i need to ask you this. is there something going on between you & (her name)?"
& just see how it goes from there. =]
good luck!
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Do you trust him? Really?
Because it's obvious that this girl has actively chossen to cross the 'friend' line. She is trying very hard to develope an intimacy with him. Has he even noticed? Is he uncomfortable with her behavoir? Those are questions you are entitled to answer too.
If he IS unconfortable with her behavoir, he needs your support in standing up to her and saying so. Remind him he wont loose her friendship if she is a true friend just because he tells her there are things she does that make him uncomfortable.
If he ISN'T uncomfortable with her over clingy, invasive behavoir, then you have a serious problem. It means he is eitehr too clueless to realize that her behavoir is not OK, or he doesn't want it to stop.
If he thinks the way she is behaving is OK, he needs to be frankly informed that it is not. Perhaps suggest to him how he might feel if you behaved in her 'friendly' way to another guy besides him. It is great to have friends and he is free to choose his friends, but if what he chooses is a friendship where they actively try to break up his relationship you might want to choose to leave.
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ok do you love your bf???? and you trust him....then if you 2 really love each other then he will fall for you and not the other girl.my friends dont like my bf and his mom doesnt like me either and we are always breaking up because of other people....but i know that he loves me and i love him and i trust him that he is not going out with another girl....if you truelly love him then i would trust him. and if that girl is still like that then act like you dont care.....in the end i am pretty sure your bf will still be with you. good luck
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Honey , you need to set him straight RIGHT NOW . There cant be anything good going on if she is there EVERY time your not there. Personaly its not right , would he mind if another guy who he knew looked good was over at your house when he wasnt ? I really dont think any guy would . You need to set her straight
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