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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

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theres a girl that im really close to..she used to like me a lot and i love her and we were like /-/ this close to going out, but she stopped liking me..she said she couldnt picture me as her boyfriend (personality wise not looks) and i just dont understand how after we had done so much and gone through a lot together..she cant picture me as her boyfriend and everything..i have told her how i feel, i have made a move, she has been to my house many times, we have gone out on "dates" sorta...and i love her, i just want her to like me again, please tell me how to get her to like me again...oh and she likes a sophomore at my school now and people have told me that she might still like me and shes just confused but i dont think she does...i really want her back, i need her :( if you give me a helping answer then ill rate you a 5 DO NOT TELL ME TO GET OVER HER!!! i have tried and it isnt happening!

well maybe she still has feelings for u..talk to her..if ur that close than she still might have some feelings for u..dont give up on love!

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im sure youve heard this from plenty of times but i am being totally honest...i have not once NOT ONCE gotten what i want, and i love her...and i just want her so bad, but it was ruined and i hate it and i cry everyday...

dont cry. be honest with her. but sometimes that doesnt always work. but seriously u need to move on if she is just going to change and hang out with ppl u know that she shhouldnt be hanging out with...best of luck

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Ever since i could remember my parents havent been exactly intimate i guess you could say. They have always seemed happy together and i always thought they would be together forever. Then a few days ago my mom told me that she was having problems with my dad and that they might get divorced. i was shocked and hurt. it killed me that i couldnt do anything about. and the worst part of it is i am the only one out of my family that knows how my mom feels. my dad and brother are clueless. i dont know how to handle this HUGE secret on my shoulders. how can i handle this horrible situation. please someone tell my what to do!

there is no exact way to handle situations like that, that i no of, besides talking about them...but good luck.

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in 8th grade, ive been feeling so depressed. i just feel like everyone is against me. i feel so disgusted w/myself. everyone says that im so skinny and athletic and my family says im beautiful, even though i dont think so. i started cutting a little while ago. its nothing to be proud of, thats 4 sure. i just feel like everything is wrong with me. wut am i supposed 2 do?

signed
*deeply troubled*

there nothing wrong with u, find some friends who care.and if u ever need someone to talk to u can i/m...i hope everything turns out for teh better....

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ok, there's this guy that I like...and he (for sure) likes me...and it seems like he is dropping hints on asking me out...like (this is kinda long) he asked me how I acted with the guys at my school (he's in 9th i'm in 8th)I don't rub up all over them and that they grab my butt etc...and then the other night on the fone (he calls me normally on a daily basis) he suddenly forgot wut he was going to say and he was like "it could have been about me and u..."and then another time he was like ' know for sure now that stuff is going to happen between us and I was like stuff??? sooo...does this mean he wants to ask me out...or...wut???

yea i think hes trying to ask u out but is like to shy...good luck i hope it turns out good!

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there's this boy in school that i have a crush on
but he's popular and i don't think he would like me i don't know what to do i can't stop thinking about him

find out who he likes. talk to him..so that maybe he might start to like u.

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ok, there is this guy. hes in 9th grade. hes so cute and doesnt have a bf. one of my best friends that knows him bout as well as i do says that he likes me. i still dont think so. ive been crushin on him for almost a year. i started noticing that he looks at me a lot. what do i do?

signed
*deeply troubled*

go for it!

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well, i REALLY like this guy. and the other day without tellin me my best friend was talkin to him and asked him how he felt about me. well, she told me that he thought of me as just a friend. i was really upset, and my cousin is tellin me to just get over him and find another guy. but the thing is, i dont want to like another guy. hey, i may never get a chance with this guy, but its still ok to have a crush on him, right? or is my cousin right and i need to find another dude, perferably one i stand a chance with? thanks guys..yall rock.

i would go with ur cousin on this because if u never have a chance with the guy than why do u bother with him? but do whatever ur heart desires...good luck!

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I have two friends, a girl and a guy. I have a crush on my guy friend....but my girl friend is in the way. I mean, she already has a BOYFRIEND...but it's as if her boyfriend is our guy friend. I also think that he likes her, because he's always hugging her and being nice to her, while both of them leave me out and make me feel bad. And when they talk, I can't get into the conversation, because I have no connection to what they are talking about. HELP!

get him when ur alone. or start a convo with something that u hav a connection with. ask them if they like eachother...comfront them...good luck..

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ok im a freshman @ this really big high school i liek it and all but i miss teh fact that all my friends go 2 another skool..i feel like i dont fit in bcus there is no1 who i really click with i mean (not 2 sound cocky) i was kinda really popular last yr @ my middle school but now that they all go 2 another skool i feel like a loser and taht i dont belong i just dont no how 2 click with all these ppl i try but there juss very different and i dotn want my 4 yrs 2 suck @ high skool..so wut shoudl i do? PLZ HELP ME!

go out for a sports team or something.. go up to ppl and talk to them..there all kinds of different ways to meet ppl...best of luck!

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relationships never seem to work out...

the guys that like me are the ones i would rather avoid...

but the guys i like see me only as a good female friends.

what should i do?

try to give the ones that like u a chance. or make the guys u like, see u differently.

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ok my bf told me he loves me when he left a mssg on his fone but he wont say it directly on the fone or in person so i just broke the ice n sed if furst last nite when i saw him and he sed it back but i sed it as i was turnin to leave so i didnt see his reaction or nothing n we both sed it like really quietly....but then he called n he didnt say it (i didnt hear my fone ring) so he lft a mssg but he didnt say it....does it mean he didnt m ean it or he didnt wanna say it again or wat? did he only say it bak so i wouldnt get mad or somethin?

maybe its hard for him to say it to ur face. next time as soon as u see him be like " i luv u" and if he doesnt say it then ask him about it. get the truth

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I've been getting depressed lately...like people make me feel stupid. Sometimes, they roll their eyes at things I say, especially when we're around guys. I wanna ask them to stop, but IDK how, and you see, I CANT, becus they would just deny it and not understand. What should I do?

hang out with new ppl. find ppl who accept u for u. good luck

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These past 2 years i've been feeling really depressed and its reflecting the way i act towards people now. I feel as if i can't trust anyone, and unpleasant things have been going on. Since 6th grade i've been cutting (im in 8th now). And now, It's like i always want to,and i cant stop, but its gotten to the point to where i dont even know it. I cant concentrate because i've lost most of my friends, and the 2 friends i have now act like they dont even want to be around me. All this anger is built inside of me, and i have no one to talk to about it and so i take it out on myself because i feel like its my fault even though it may not be. Im losing almost everything, and i always feel like my friends talk about me behind my back. I want help, but i want help from people who understand me, and who actually want to listen and care about me, but it seems none of my friends can really fill those needs.

if u ever want to talk u can i/m me at butterflykid223. i will listen to u. but please stop cutting, u may think it does something, but it truelly isnt.

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ok i like this kid who is on the same sports team as me and its an all yr sports team n i wnat 2 tell him that i like so taht we could hopefully take our firnedship 2 the next level but im afraid taht if i tell him i liek him n taht he doesnt liek me back than things would b awkward n since its a whole yr team idk wut 2 do i need ur guys'z help wut should i do?!?

find out who he likes first..then go from there..

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i really like my best friend hes really nice oh yea im a 13-f and he is 13-m hes like 4months younger than me but the thing is i like him so much and when we are alone we snuggle and stuff but i have a bf and when my bf found out from someone that we are doing this then my bf punched him! i slapped my bf across the face and i went to my best friend i told him how i felt but he just looked at me like i was a freak! but now when i talk to him and we snuggle we are a little more closer!! im sorta happy but i got really mad bc my EXbf now punched him and whenever i walk by my ex he either says sorry and he wants me back and he would be all touchy feely but i dont know if i should ask my best friend out? bc i dont think he really wants to have a gf but we were talking about this and he said he didnt exactly feel the same way i do but he told one of my close guy friends that he didnt know about that he likes me alot but wants to ask me out but dosnt know if i still like him

how can i show him that i still like him alot?!?!?


signed,

CONFUSED

let things play out. if u dont like ur ex anymore tell him. good luck...

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i have told her how i feel, i have asked her for a better reason to stop liking me and she tells me she doesnt know...she says she doesnt like me for my personality even though she only knows the one i have around her. i have a different personality around her because i dont think she would like the one i have with my friends because we are all a bunch of stupid bastard skaters who piss everyone off, someone told me that the minute you get her to show her real smile is when youve captured her heart..only thats the problem i get her to smile and laugh and everything all the time and she doesnt even like me. obviously if she doesnt like the personality i have with her then she wont like my real one, i dont have a very good history with girls and its always i almost go out with them and then they stop liking me..the new guy that she likes is going to ruin her reputation cuz he does drugs and smokes and everything..she told me that its not my looks that she cant picture me as her boyfriend, its my personality, i have been trying to get her to like me so much lately and i dont know what to do still, i have made a move, i have done things with her, i have told her how i feel honestly, she hates my friends because they dont know her and theyre a bunch of dicks and i dont even like them that much but if i wasnt friends with them she would be the only friend i have and yea...and they hate her..they think she treats me bad and stuff but she doesnt, she tells me im the biggest flirt shes ever met and i cant help but think that she isnt ever going to like me again..i cant get over her so please dont tell me to, its kind of hard for me to do it just like that..i hate it so much when you ask out a girl and they say "oh your sweet and all but no" and its like SHUT UP just say no ur ugly or no w/e else..and whatever happened to girls liking skaters? all of a sudden they all go for ghetto kids and preps..i just dont understand, what is so bad about me that someone can just stop liking me suddenly? i dont get why just once, things cant work out for me..she is the most beautiful girl in the school from my perspective, some other people may not hink so but i do, and she is really nice and we are very close to eachother and now she made friends with some slutty girls and im afraid shell act like them and drink and stuff because you act like your friends, and she thinks theres nothing wrong with drinking but she doesnt, i on the otherhand think that you shouldnt be drinking at 14 years old, and shes so smart, shes in like all honors classes, and i think this other guy is using her to like get laid or somthing cuz i dont understand if he goes out with other 10th graders all the time why does he have to go out with a 9th grader, especially the one i love, and i said to her, why go out with a sophomore when there are plenty of freshman who are perfectly fine if not better for you (me) and yea so my screenname is ScooteySkater90 im me if you want to know anything else..

aright im gonna try to help. but im not sure that ill be able to. i no that u dont want to here "get over her" but im not sure there is much else to do. and i no its hard to get over someone that ur close to. for me, i am moving on cuz i no its better for me to do that. for you, im not sure what all to say. im sure she does still have feelings for her, but maybe she wants to move on? u cant always get what u want, and life proves that:-/...just let things play out..theyll get better sometime....good luck..if u need anything u can i/m me at butterflykid223...i hope i helped..

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im 14/m and i am in love with this girl. she used to like me a lot and then she said over a few days she started having mixed feelings. she had liked me like a week after she started going out with my friend and she dumped him but didnt say why or something like that. i told her she was beautiful and that i love her. we have mostly similar common interests. we have made out and stuff and we were very close. at homecoming during the last slow song i asked her out..she she doesnt know and the next day she said she doesnt like me anymore..that was like a month ago and now she likes this sophomore who i think is using her. she told me one of the reasons she didnt like me anymore was she couldnt picture me as her boyfriend..i saw the guy she likes today and i was thinking WTF!?! you can picture him but not me....i know more about her than anyone and i am in love with her. i think about her all day and i found out on halloween night that she had snuck out with the guy and went to a park and made out for a few hours and on monday he gave her a bunch of hickeys and made out and everything and it keeps running through my head...ever since homecoming i have been depressed and i just wish she liked me still, my friends tell me she will but i dont believe them, i always thought that a guy who treats a girl like gold and devotes all of his time to her and everything was exactly what a girl wants..sorry this has been so long...answer and ill tell you the rest if you want to hear..if you do say yes in the beginning of your answer AND PLEASE HELP ME I AM SO CONFUSED..I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO

yes, i want to help u. i kinda know what ur going through but not totally. aright i think she is just scared of liking u. like maybe she likes u, but she is just lieing to herself.that or she just wants to see how other ppl are before going ot u. i think she has feelings for u. some ppl will always have feeling for someone..and form personal experience it sux. cuz u try to move on, but all u can think about it them. she will come back to u...just give her some time. shes prolly just confused and doesnt know what she wnats.. i hope i helped. let me know how is goes...good luck!

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Last night I was on MSN talking to one of my friends (tom) and my boyfriend (Jon) while they were at Jon's house. Tom asked me what I would do if Jon broke up with me so I asked if he was and Tom said maybe. Later on I asked again and Jon said he wasn't. This morning I asked my other friend (who is Jon's friend) if Jon was going to break up with me and he said yes. I tried texting Jon last night asking about it but he hasn't replied. I don't know what to think. Dan and Tom try to break me and him up alot and I don't know whether this is just another attempt.

just try to talk to jon about it..good luck..

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well do u guys know that quote..

let the person you love go and if they come back they were meant to be yours??

well i never believed that quote..until i met *ben* in 6th grade but then i told ppl i didnt like him n then durin 7th grade i kinda forgot abut him but then like the quote said in 8th grade *ben* came back..

were we meant to be??

tnxs nd i rate high

well the quote may be tru for some and not others. the quote states that if u luv someone than let them go. and then if they come back to u, then its actually ment to be. did u luv him, did u let him go? did he come back to u specifically. think about it? maybe it is ment to be. good luck..i hope i helped..

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