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i have told her how i feel, i have asked her for a better reason to stop liking me and she tells me she doesnt know...she says she doesnt like me for my personality even though she only knows the one i have around her. i have a different personality around her because i dont think she would like the one i have with my friends because we are all a bunch of stupid bastard skaters who piss everyone off, someone told me that the minute you get her to show her real smile is when youve captured her heart..only thats the problem i get her to smile and laugh and everything all the time and she doesnt even like me. obviously if she doesnt like the personality i have with her then she wont like my real one, i dont have a very good history with girls and its always i almost go out with them and then they stop liking me..the new guy that she likes is going to ruin her reputation cuz he does drugs and smokes and everything..she told me that its not my looks that she cant picture me as her boyfriend, its my personality, i have been trying to get her to like me so much lately and i dont know what to do still, i have made a move, i have done things with her, i have told her how i feel honestly, she hates my friends because they dont know her and theyre a bunch of dicks and i dont even like them that much but if i wasnt friends with them she would be the only friend i have and yea...and they hate her..they think she treats me bad and stuff but she doesnt, she tells me im the biggest flirt shes ever met and i cant help but think that she isnt ever going to like me again..i cant get over her so please dont tell me to, its kind of hard for me to do it just like that..i hate it so much when you ask out a girl and they say "oh your sweet and all but no" and its like SHUT UP just say no ur ugly or no w/e else..and whatever happened to girls liking skaters? all of a sudden they all go for ghetto kids and preps..i just dont understand, what is so bad about me that someone can just stop liking me suddenly? i dont get why just once, things cant work out for me..she is the most beautiful girl in the school from my perspective, some other people may not hink so but i do, and she is really nice and we are very close to eachother and now she made friends with some slutty girls and im afraid shell act like them and drink and stuff because you act like your friends, and she thinks theres nothing wrong with drinking but she doesnt, i on the otherhand think that you shouldnt be drinking at 14 years old, and shes so smart, shes in like all honors classes, and i think this other guy is using her to like get laid or somthing cuz i dont understand if he goes out with other 10th graders all the time why does he have to go out with a 9th grader, especially the one i love, and i said to her, why go out with a sophomore when there are plenty of freshman who are perfectly fine if not better for you (me) and yea so my screenname is ScooteySkater90 im me if you want to know anything else..
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Oh hun I'm so sorry... this situation is so much like one of my friends it's scary...Well right now i'm trying to help him through it but there's really not much you can do.. I would try and talk to her about her reputation and stuff and how you know your friends are dicks... Maybe tell her that you really care about her and you don't want to see her get hurt.. and yes i think drinking at 14 is wrong too.. many of my friends don't though... I really don't know what else to say.. this is tough stuff... but i'll try to IM you and help you some more...
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She probably just sees you as a friend, although that's the personality that you use when your around her. So she doesnt really know your true personality. It's better not liking someone for their real personality than the one they have around you. Yeah, It's upsetting knowing that you love someone and they dont love you back I know where your at in this situation, except the opposite way around. Like i said, she probably has just seen you as a friend, and had just noticed that. I'm sure it's nothing bad about you, she probably just didn't know all along and had just found out. Sometimes you just can't understand people and the way they feel about you, and she probably still doesnt know how she feels about you. How does she know your personality is not "boyfriend material"? She doesn't know that, because she hasn't taken the chance to get to really know you. I really hope it all works out for you, if you ever need any more advice and don't feel like writing on here, you can email me on dancingdreamer08@aol.com or im the same screename. =) I hope i've helped.
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aright im gonna try to help. but im not sure that ill be able to. i no that u dont want to here "get over her" but im not sure there is much else to do. and i no its hard to get over someone that ur close to. for me, i am moving on cuz i no its better for me to do that. for you, im not sure what all to say. im sure she does still have feelings for her, but maybe she wants to move on? u cant always get what u want, and life proves that:-/...just let things play out..theyll get better sometime....good luck..if u need anything u can i/m me at butterflykid223...i hope i helped..
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